Community > General Discussion

Previous 1 2 Next

Topic: An ideal lover
barun1959 Joined Thu 11/11/10 Posts: 802	Tue 06/28/11 09:10 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 06/28/11 09:12 PM
lust

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Tue 06/28/11 10:00 PM
lust well, that was easy.

thewaterbearer Joined Sun 10/25/09 Posts: 19759	Tue 06/28/11 10:06 PM
Well I wasted five seconds reading this and another five seconds replying.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 06/28/11 10:20 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Selfishness-----

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Tue 06/28/11 11:14 PM
Childishness.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 06/28/11 11:22 PM
responsibility for what? I guess I have missed the point to this bit of wisdom

barun1959 Joined Thu 11/11/10 Posts: 802	Wed 06/29/11 09:12 AM
responsibility for what? I guess I have missed the point to this bit of wisdom It seems to me it should be for everything in case of love.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45345	Wed 06/29/11 09:27 AM
Well I wasted five seconds reading this and another five seconds replying. Dddditto :-)

barun1959 Joined Thu 11/11/10 Posts: 802	Wed 06/29/11 09:40 AM
Well I wasted five seconds reading this and another five seconds replying. Your reply??? It took me 24x60x60=86400 seconds to think it another 60 seconds to post it. Total 86460seconds. Compare to this figure ,10 seconds is negligible. (Anyhow sorry to waste your time. )

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Wed 06/29/11 12:57 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover.

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Wed 06/29/11 12:58 PM
lust In a nutshell...

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Wed 06/29/11 01:00 PM
Well I wasted five seconds reading this and another five seconds replying. !!5seconds... you need another cuppa coffee

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 06/29/11 01:03 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof'

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Wed 06/29/11 01:06 PM
I guess that means if you need to ask... just turn and walk away?

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Wed 06/29/11 01:06 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me?

actionlynx Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 5448	Wed 06/29/11 01:13 PM Edited by actionlynx on Wed 06/29/11 01:14 PM
If you love someone, then you should just naturally want to show that love. There should be no asking for proof involved. It should just happen on its own. Usually we need to see and feel proof of love to validate our own feelings. Without that validation, we come to worry and fret, maybe even argue or throw tantrums. However, if one has to ask for proof or beg for validation, then it is a sign that something is wrong within the relationship. And that is something I have experienced within the past few months.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 06/29/11 01:15 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Maybe it's the expectations that leave us disappointed... if i have to ask someone to prove they love me, well, hmmm, that just seems a problem right from the get go.

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Wed 06/29/11 01:21 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Maybe it's the expectations that leave us disappointed... if i have to ask someone to prove they love me, well, hmmm, that just seems a problem right from the get go. Many of those who profess of their love express their love thru words only but lacks the ability to let it really be felt.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 06/29/11 01:38 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Maybe it's the expectations that leave us disappointed... if i have to ask someone to prove they love me, well, hmmm, that just seems a problem right from the get go. Many of those who profess of their love express their love thru words only but lacks the ability to let it really be felt. this is true