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Topic: An ideal lover
MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Wed 06/29/11 01:41 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Me too :)

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 06/29/11 01:42 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Me too :) make demands, and watch what happens.... : )

MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Wed 06/29/11 01:45 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Me too :) make demands, and watch what happens.... : ) I fall everytime :)

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Thu 06/30/11 08:35 AM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Me too :) make demands, and watch what happens.... : ) I know... I know... too much of everything indeed can ruin anything :-(

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Thu 06/30/11 11:06 AM
there has to be balance ---sometimes, there will be selfishness and lust. jealousy and anger....that is part of true love and the ability to withstand every part of their partner...it works both ways....Be aware of a perfect mate---chances are they are a narcissist and that is the worst quality of all.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Thu 06/30/11 11:26 AM
responsibility for what? I guess I have missed the point to this bit of wisdom It seems to me it should be for everything in case of love. well that didnt help at all...

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Thu 06/30/11 11:57 AM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? BJ! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSDAXGXGiEw

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 06/30/11 12:14 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? One hell of a lot of fun!!!!

joy4gud Joined Sun 06/05/11 Posts: 3172	Thu 06/30/11 12:20 PM
I believe commitment is responsibiliy, nd any1 in luv 've to be commited to his/her partner

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 06/30/11 02:01 PM Edited by Jess642 on Thu 06/30/11 02:05 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Yes, a lover has the responsibility to prove his/her love. Unwillingness to fulfill this responsibility is unlikely to an ideal lover. 'love' would never ask anyhting, including 'proof' Could be. But a loved one usually needs/wants a proof of his/her lover's love. Or is it just me? Maybe it's the expectations that leave us disappointed... if i have to ask someone to prove they love me, well, hmmm, that just seems a problem right from the get go. Love is not love if there are responsibilities...they are expectations, obligations, and have nothing to do with love. Love is a flow of energy, that mostly we dip into from time to time, some are fortunate to stay in the flow of energy called love. Love knows not what responsibility is....humans attach it, twist it, mangle it, attempt to claim it...it's so ridiculous, it is the same as trying to own the wind....a flow of energy also. I'm with you Lori.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Thu 06/30/11 02:05 PM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Divorce????????????????????

barun1959 Joined Thu 11/11/10 Posts: 802	Fri 07/01/11 08:23 AM
It is easy to fall in love and it is hard to take the responsibility. What is love without any responsibility? Divorce???????????????????? May be the end result of 'love without any responsibility'.