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Topic: so have you ever fell in love for all the wrong reasons?
AndyBgood's photo
Sat 06/25/11 01:08 PM
We all make mistakes but have you ever really screwed up falling in love with the absolutely wrong person?

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 06/25/11 01:10 PM
Many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many times. tears

Terrywitt's photo
Sat 06/25/11 01:29 PM
Fell in love for right reasons just turned out bad

josie68's photo
Sat 06/25/11 03:52 PM
Hmmm my first husband I was 18 and fell in love with the idea of love and being married. Hmm he ran off with someone else.

My second I fell in love with the idea of being safe and protected and having a happy family. he ended up abusive and very unsafe.

So I really have no idea what the right reason is, How do you know you are making a huge mistake until you are buried in it. when you think you love someone of course everything seems wonderful..



SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sometimes my love choices just plain old suck..noway

Teditis's photo
Sat 06/25/11 04:10 PM
Edited by Teditis on Sat 06/25/11 04:16 PM
Phhbbbt!! I should trademark it.
('cept I still choose to love when it hits... nothin' new in that, huh?)

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 06/25/11 04:13 PM

Many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many times. tears


I second, second, second, second, second, second, that.

Teditis's photo
Sat 06/25/11 04:13 PM

Many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many times. tears

Aww, baby... not again...?
flowers
Sorry to hear this...

fireflysgirl's photo
Sat 06/25/11 04:16 PM

We all make mistakes but have you ever really screwed up falling in love with the absolutely wrong person?


happens every time...I think I am doing it wrong laugh

no photo
Sat 06/25/11 04:19 PM
I had a pretty bad childhood and so did my first husband; we were friends in school so we decided that since he was going into the Army, we'd get married and then I'd run away to him after he got stationed FAR away from our home state. I was 16 and he was 18.

He was gay. Oops.

EquusDancer's photo
Sat 06/25/11 04:43 PM
Isn't this why we're all here?!


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Sat 06/25/11 04:45 PM

Isn't this why we're all here?!




Ditto!

actionlynx's photo
Sat 06/25/11 05:08 PM
Um, yes I have. More than once. But truth is, each one contains a lesson. Still, it wasn't enough to prevent my last "mistake".

FantasyArtMan's photo
Sat 06/25/11 05:21 PM
I once feel in love with our drummer's wife, and that ain't good! I had it bad. I totally respected their relationship, but I was hooked. Nothing ever happened over the 5 years of hanging together, but it took a long time to forget.

Falling in love is an odd event in itself! Not to be confused with falling in lust - been there too! But now that a nice chunk of love has been ripped out of me, at least I have my fallimg into love in check a bit. I just hope the trust of deep love isn't gone forever!

Anyway, what a wonderful feeling love is when it happens!!!


FantasyArtMan

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/25/11 05:28 PM
I think anyone thats not the 'right' person is the 'wrong' person,, by default...lol

Ive had plenty, considering Im still alone. Ive loved many and confused that for being IN LOVE and they have done the same, Ive loved blindly without looking at true compatibility or hoping that love was the only place where we needed compatibility.

Big mistakes, on my part.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 06/25/11 05:30 PM


Many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many times. tears

Aww, baby... not again...?
flowers
Sorry to hear this...


Nope, not again. I learned my lesson and quit dating almost 8 months ago. bigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 06/25/11 05:31 PM


Many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many times. tears


I second, second, second, second, second, second, that.


ohwell flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/25/11 05:34 PM
no, I don't think I ever loved the 'wrong' people...

no photo
Sat 06/25/11 06:16 PM
Just once.

no photo
Sat 06/25/11 07:19 PM
I fall in love very easily, so plenty of times I have, with the wrong person. Love is blind, as they say.

Oh, well, 3 times a Lady! laugh happy

krupa's photo
Sat 06/25/11 08:27 PM
Not sure I can see it as a mistake to take a chance on love. Not every hand wins. But, a winning hand is priceless. But, until you got the guts to fail....you won't have the guts to win.

We all pay to play.

Sometimes it hurts. Sometimes, it is the best time of your life.

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