Hi, I'm "Bug" and I'm fairly new around here. I thought I'd break the ice by working out a questionnaire about what we all consider our ideal mate. I realize there aren't too many of us that will ever find this mysterious fantasy person, but it's just for fun, and who knows? Maybe someone around here might actually fit the bill! :D

Anyway, Copy and paste and enjoy!

Part One: Superficial- aka "Looks" (Yes, I know not everyone can look as hot as David Duchovny or as beautiful as Gillian Anderson- and yes, I'm AM a major "X-Files" fan- but what are some traits you truly appreciate in your ideal mate?)

Hair:
Eyes:
Complexion:
Piercings on face or body:
Tattoos:
Height & Weight:
Age (does it matter):
Miscellaneous:


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament:
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.):
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1.
2.
3.
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?:
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?:
Does it matter what they make financially?:
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?:
A tender lover or an animal?:


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.

Please fill it out and let's discuss. :D

Hair: yes
Eyes: two would be preferred
Complexion: n/a
Piercings on face or body: n/a
Tattoos: indifferent
Height & Weight: negotiable
Age (does it matter): don’t care
Miscellaneous:


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament:
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.):
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. I don’t feel this is too important
2.
3.
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: no
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: no
Does it matter what they make financially?: no
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: balance
A tender lover or an animal?: both


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. if I did this, it would exclude 99 % of the population. I’ll go with just one. An understanding of the word compromise
2.
3.
4.
5.
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. having a penis
2.
3.
4.
5.

I don't create an ideal mate. I think that limits are options and creates unrealistic expectations.

I never was one for having good format,,or English skills,,but This is a post I can contribute to in thoughts...lol

My (HER),,,would have a glow about her persona,,a joy about her face that just READS happy to those around her,,because that would match mine..NO,,,not always,,,just everyday,,she would SHOW the world,,she was very comfortable in her own skin,,and world..She would NOT have to be young,,but my age is cool or at least one to know MY AGE,,,wink, She doesn't have to be beautiful,,maybe not even what others might call cute,,IF she over-ran with inner beauty,,that reached out to others much,,
Her size would be smaller than mine,,5'9,,,185,,,her eyes and smiles are what I look at so those need to be seen,,,
She does not have to be well educated,,but IF she was over educated thats cool too,,as long as SHE could be HERSELF with compassion for others who may be more,,or less than her own..
Everyone has a brain,,SOME have to prove theirs and to me,,thats not very attractive to see..IF it degrades others around them.
Her money is not an issue,,as long as she has and desires to help by working at what she likes...THAT can always be made to work, through both contributing...Sexy to ME,,,in her ways,,as to MAKE or allow ME to see her in that light..and she does not have to be of God for me to know her heart,,or her spirit..or to except her..into mine..
She needs to just be a real woman in her everything,,no false hoods or acts,,no games in mind or heart..
Honest,,caring, speaks her mind,,yet smart enough to know when thats not whats needed..THEN....lol, same as I...
Hair makes no diff. nor her back-ground,,or her genes,,
To ME,,its the her,,the looks,,,the sexuality,,her pleasantness to talk with and laugh..
I can over-come almost ANY differences that I could ever run across on just a date,,but to be MORE than just a date,,,these would be my deepest considerations to think about..
Can she have and give,,that hunger look that speaks,,from her excitement to be near me, the one that is always there to remind me,,I AM her man,,and she is so proud of THAT..it just glows from her to me and all around us...because,,THAT is our Chemistry together,,yet WE never think about it,,,WE just get alone that well..
So when I look at a woman as a THOUGHT of pursuing maybe a date with her? I look for clean, no heavy drug use, no hang-ups from her past,,and THEN,,I will START to see HER,,,as that Maybe,,to consider as more..
there are many variables in all this,,that do NOT have to be there for me to know,,she's ALL THAT,,in my mind and heart...lol,,
The MORE that we both find as equals in our selves,,the MORE SHE would GLOW in my thoughts,,as to seeing and expressing all of life's subjects and its people,,,
turn-offs are as follows.
VERY independent,,to the point of making others feel alone when with her..
Putting everyone down around her to boast her own thoughts of her..
Rushing,,charging to do whats on her mind,,at no cost to those around her,,being or acting insensitive to others..
Strongly opinionated,,but MORE SHOW,,than her own REAL thoughts behind them..thinking to impress me or others?
racist.
Untruthful.
Cusses as bad as a truck drive constantly,,,,,lol
Expects MORE,,than she's willing to also give..like,,,,,
to TELL ME,,I DIDN'T pull her chair out,,open that third door,,lite her second cigarette, ect.....lol
talks LAUD in the smallest of voiced situations,,always,,,,WTH?,,lol,,the WHOLE RESTAURANT CAN'T HELP BUT HEAR?

OK,,I'm done!!!!

DAMN-IT BOY,,,,I GUESS,,,,,

FUN STUFF..LOL

Part One: Superficial- aka "Looks" (Yes, I know not everyone can look as hot as David Duchovny or as beautiful as Gillian Anderson- and yes, I'm AM a major "X-Files" fan- but what are some traits you truly appreciate in your ideal mate?)

Hair: any but red
Eyes: any but crystal blue
Complexion: any but pale
Piercings on face or body: none
Tattoos: none
Height & Weight: proportionate, but at least 6 foot
Age (does it matter): at least 29,a decade older than my oldest child
but no older than 52,ten years older than me
Miscellaneous: broad shoulders, square jaw, minimal body hair


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: balanced, silently strong
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): adaptable to surroundings
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Christianity
2. Parenthood
3. Musicianship
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: like attracts like
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: preferrably one that made them happy
Does it matter what they make financially?: enough not to require me to be their primary financial support
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: homebody
A tender lover or an animal?: someone who knows the time and place for each


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Christianity
2. Parenthood
3. Emotional Maturity
4. Head of household material
5. Class/Integrity
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. Atheism
2. Vulgarity
3. Egotism
4. Heartlessness
5. previous bisexual or homosexual relations

Hair: long, thick, healthy...well right now, because his is long, thick and healthy.
Eyes: two, bright, expressive, alive....and the third wide open..
Complexion: healthy
Piercings on face or body: don't care
Tattoos: don't care
Height & Weight: healthy, fit and happy
Age (does it matter): older than me
Miscellaneous:


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament:
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): introspective, real.
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. belief structures
2. worldview, outlook
3. spirit
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: like attracts like
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: nope
Does it matter what they make financially?: nope
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: homebody
A tender lover or an animal?: a gentle sensual lover


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Kindness
2. Altruism
3. Empathy
4. living in personal truth
5. Authenticity
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. Living in Ego
2.
3.
4.
5.

Maybe someone around here, might actually fit the bill! :D

Part One: Superficial- aka "Looks" (Yes, I know not everyone can look as hot as David Duchovny or as beautiful as Gillian Anderson- and yes, I'm AM a major "X-Files" fan- but what are some traits you truly appreciate in your ideal mate?)

Hair: Darker hair :)
Eyes: The eyes, always reflect the person
Complexion: Cute
Piercings on face or body: None
Tattoos: None
Height & Weight: Adverage in both.
Age (does it matter): Yes it matters. 21 - 30. I'd only go for older, or as young as 19. If they had the right kind of modern mind and the right level of maturity. :)
Miscellaneous: Musical.


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits.

What kind of temperament:
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): Positive, A straight talker, when the need arises, Enjoys life, understands others, listens.
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Video games.
2. Common sense
3. Not too picky about eating.
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: I don't know. Like attracts like.
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: No, the job never matters. I never really gave it any thought before.
Does it matter what they make financially?: As long as theres enough, to put good food on the table, and a little pocket money, on the side. Who cares! ^_^
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: homebody, I don't trust party chicks.
A tender lover or an animal?: both!


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Remembering my birthday :)
2. Remembering I'm alive.
3. Army commander
4. Can cheer me up, without trying.
5. Lot's of hugs! :D
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. Secrets
2. Lies
3. constant forgetfulness.
4. Too many arguements.
5. When she seems to be more happy away from me, then she is with me. I couldn't live with that.

Hair:Doesn't matter
Eyes:Anything but red
Complexion:Open
Piercings on face or body:hmmm don't mind some
Tattoos: As long as I can still see skin
Height & Weight:Average
Age (does it matter):Can't date too young
Miscellaneous:Hygiene is important to me


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament:Laid back with a pinch of sassy
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.):Little of both
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1.Loves Nature
2.Loves Animals
3.Loves children
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?:2nd
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?:Nope
Does it matter what they make financially?:Nope
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?:Home body
A tender lover or an animal?:Tender


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1.Ears for listening
2.Mouth for discussing interests
3.A mind to be challenged by
4.Somewhat a romantic
5.Sense of humor
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1.Drinking excessively
2.Verbal or mental mind games
3.Lazy
4.arrogance
5.Smelly breath

Hair: brown
Eyes: BIG browns
Complexion: good tan
Piercings on face or body: sure
Tattoos: better have a couple
Height & Weight: not important
Age (does it matter): older than me
Miscellaneous: Harleys are nice


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: gentle
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): both like me
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Sense of humor
2. Love for animals
3. Positive outlook/attitude
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?:
likes attract
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: NO
Does it matter what they make financially?: NO
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: homebody that can party with me on occasion
A tender lover or an animal?: both


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Sense of humor
2. Good conversation skills
3. Passion for something in life
4. Strong family & friendship ties
5. Self-confidence
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. named Michael
2. Excessive drinking
3. Drug addiction
4. Lies
5. Mind games

Part One: Superficial- aka "Looks" (Yes, I know not everyone can look as hot as David Duchovny or as beautiful as Gillian Anderson- and yes, I'm AM a major "X-Files" fan- but what are some traits you truly appreciate in your ideal mate?)

Hair: Blonde, Brunette, Red, Blue, Purple, not really a major issue
Eyes: Blue, Brown, Green, Yellow, whatever
Complexion: Human
Piercings on face or body: Doesn't matter much. Of course, if she's got a giant anchor through her skull, this could be a bit of an impediment in narrow hallways and that sort of thing.
Tattoos: Also doesn't matter
Height & Weight: 5'0" to 5'8" or so, weight proportionate to height, in that I have a vague idea of what this means
Age (does it matter): No older than 26
Miscellaneous: Bipedal


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: Cynical
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): Doesn't matter
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Intelligence
2. Creativity
3. Warped sense of humor
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: Some of both, to a degree
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: No, as long as it didn't involve working in a bar or something like that
Does it matter what they make financially?: No
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: Homebody
A tender lover or an animal?: Some of both


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Must be literate
2. Must like animals
3. Must understand the creative urge
4. Must have good communications skills
5. Must remember my phone number
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. Kids
2. Drug use
3. Alcohol use
4. Trying to change me
5. Pushing religious or political views on me

My ideal mate---

Hmmmmm i dont need to fill out ALL THAT!

He will love me through all circumstance...never judge.

He does not do drugs or belittle people.

Must have sense of humor.

Must not be a computer or a robot, lol. Like people who are emotionless creatures....(SNORE)

Hair: Black, bond, red... Well there's not a color I don't really not like!
Eyes: Sucker for blue, or green eyes, but it doesn't matter.
Complexion: Not really too much of an issue, but I don't dig greasy complexions.
Piercings on face or body: Oh yes, I love them.
Tattoos: Doesn't matter.
Height & Weight: I like a bit on the lean side, but a little extra doesn't bother me in the least.
Age (does it matter): No, age doesn't matter. Unless, however, it's someone under 18, just not going to happen.
Miscellaneous: A nice smile. I like someone who just, when they smile, it make their features light up.


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: Easy going, funny.
Type of personality: Um, I'd have to say a mix of introvert and extrovert, because I have times I just want to do my own thing, and sometimes I do like hanging out with friends. A good, healthy balance is a must.
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Can make fun of themselves.
2. Likes animals.
3. Provides feedback when I ask for it.
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: No, not really. I don't know what kind of person my heart loves.
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: Nope. Well, preferably not a porn star.
Does it matter what they make financially?: Yes, as I'd like to live a comfortable life, as I'll be working, myself.
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: A mix. Someone who can party, but doesn't mind spending time at home.
A tender lover or an animal?: Eh, depends?


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Acceptance of different religions
2. Can't pick at my driving unless I can pick back.
3. Laugh at themselves, because I can laugh at myself.
4. Doesn't mind my music too much.
5. Accept my boundries.
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. Cheaters
2. Jerks
3. Drugs
4. Alcoholics
5. Controlling
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DERP. Figured I might as well.

Too many questions! Most of them don't matter. I do prefer someone around my age or a bit younger. Other than that? It's going to depend on who I meet.

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I love yours best so far!!!!

Simple,,against the others here who you followed,,and NOW lead in your words,,unformatted....
Into YOU,,unconditionally. very COOL
No belittling,,,lol,,is a plus,,,as is not being a robot,,,

Three thumbs-up,,,with a smile

Does this application come with a drug screening and background check? Cause I might need a few days to ummmm.....

*****NOTE TO SELF

would you be willing to perform a livescan fingerprint though..

YES,,,Could you please give us a urine sample through your mouse


My MOUSE???










GOOD answer man.....

Ack!! What a list!!

I'll take the daily surprise... I'm tired of lists.

Hair:Brown or blonde
Eyes:Green,brown or gray
Complexion:Healthy
Piercings on face or body:None
Tattoos:None
Height & Weight:Average
Age (does it matter):Between 37 and 42
Miscellaneous:N/A


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament:Good nature and kind personality
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.):Both
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1.Funny comedy
2.Some music interests
3.Likes animals

Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?:None
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?:Yes
Does it matter what they make financially?:Yes
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?:Homebody
A tender lover or an animal?:Tender lover


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1.Sense of humor
2.Caring
3.Honest
4.Respectful
5.Trusting

Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1.The opposite of the above questons
2.
3.
4.
5.