It's possible..........

Yep. Getting close to 3 years already!

Copy and past the page and fill it out Gearhead.

I wanna see what you say!

It's funny, when you list what you want in a partner it can sound like you want a clone of your self (save for the obvious physical diffs!), but I'm sure few people really want that.

I'd love to find someone fairly similar, but different in ways that might lead to both of our personal growth and happiness. Like a lady who loved to rock, but could balance books or help me stay on track with workouts and diet and such, and I could provide some facets that may be missing or weak in her life. It's this complimentary aspect COMBINED with the wonderful similarities that make for my best friend.

Maybe the path to finding a best match is to decide the aspects of your life you really need some similar interest in, and then decide what areas are less important to you and therfore more adaptable and accepting of different views and tastes.

I need someone who can relate to my hard rocking side, and hopefully appreciate my more gentle, smooth side too. I'd also find it hard to relate to someone who was far right wing, intolerant, cold, flighty, uncomminted, dull, drama queen,... is this just turning into a list!

Doesn't help that so many of us are complicated and even slightly contradictory! And then we say "we're not going to "settle"! But relationships seems to be about compromising, at least to some point.

Oh well, it's all a dream anyway... :)


FantasyArtMan

*Ahem* After reading luv2roknroll's fine answers, I feel I should point out that even though I didn't specifically mention body parts, I'm looking for a man.

Hair:long hair or none
Eyes:yes
Complexion:clear
Piercings on face or body:not face
Tattoos:n/a
Height & Weight: height taller than me/ weight na
Age (does it matter):40-60
Miscellaneous:must have a petable chest


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: easygoing but friendly
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.):
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1.humor
2. like to read
3.like cats
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: no
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?:no
Does it matter what they make financially?:as long as their bills are paid.. no
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: a lil of both
A tender lover or an animal?:both


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1.honesty
2.faithfullness
3.charity
4.have a wild side
5.like sex.. wild and often
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1.Bad personal grooming
2.untruthfullness
3.be a cheater
4.not like to cuddle
5.not being able to slip a lil toung with out droolin

Are you sure? MUHUHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

you heard the lady

Oh, great. Now she has her sisters ganging up on me. It's because I was late coming home tonight, isn't it?

no its becouse she tried to give ma a lobotomy with her turle watsits

OH! In that case, it's a different story. Now by saying "tried", I take it that the operation wasn't a success? *Looks through the book to see if failed home-labotomys are covered under insurance*

it wasnt so much failed as it was about as real as her ninja power ranger princess wand ..and a dress.

Come on Uj, You know if you don;t She'll just keep bugging you.

yea you know you will just fold like a cheap card table..might as well get it over with

Hair: Where at? You gotta be specific with these things....
Eyes: Two please
Complexion: As long as she's not one big zit or something like that.
Piercings on face or body: Sure. Especially if I can hang my keys from them.
Tattoos: Sure
Height & Weight: Yes
Age (does it matter): 30-50, but negotiable
Miscellaneous:


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: Must not make a habit of biting (too hard).
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): Must have one.
Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Like turning wrenches.
2. Like the Steelers
3. NOT like the Browns!!!!!
Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?:I don't subscribe to anything ever since I let my Car Craft and Hot Rod Magazine lapse.
Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: Not as long as she liked what she did and wasn't a hooker (Some things I don't share very well....).
Does it matter what they make financially?: Just as long as they made enough to support themselves. I'M NOT A SUGARDADDY!!!
Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: YES!
A tender lover or an animal?: An animal???? You mean like a rubber chicken or blow-up sheep?


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers
Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Proper spelling/grammar when writing/typing (at least most of the time).
Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship:
1. Demands constant control of the TV remote.
2. Used to be a guy.
3. Doesn't know how to flush a toilet!
4. Has no respect for my couch a$$ groove. It takes a while for it to form just right ya know!

Will Copy & Paste later.....for now...one with a pulse will do.

Was this cut & paste form thing always in the first post!? Geez, I write first and read later way too much! Oh well.


Hair: Any color, long or short, but I do enjoy shorter hair more than most. More about the look, than any predetermined concept.

Eyes: No more than 2, unless an ajna counts! All colors can be so alluring and hynotizing!!!

Complexion: Ideally somewhat like myself, or maybe not.

Piercings on face or body: Not my prefs, but I'm open to a few.

Tattoos: Not my personal bag, so maybe not too absorbed.

Height & Weight: I do like statuesque ladies, but less important than personality!

Age (does it matter): Don't really care, but I'm so young at heart (read immature if you like) that she would have to have a good part of her heart and soul that knows how to rock out, and hard. I'm no grandad, and don't want no granny (no offense to either!).

Miscellaneous: I suspect only another soul lost in the arts would or could understand all the time I devote to art and music and other creative projects. It's a curse, and one my partner would have to... understand, endue, enjoy, appreciate, inspire - you choose. :)


Part Two: Quality- aka their personality traits

What kind of temperament: Easy-going, curious about life, a little toy-boyish, low maintanence, oops...
Type of personality (introverted/extroverted, etc.): A bit introverted, but with a wild side too.

Name three things you'd love for them to have in common with you:
1. Sense of humor, and this is a biggie!
2. Love of music (at least rock) and art (fine to pop and beyond). Or my world would just be misery to you.
3. Core values - honesty, decency, compassion, faithfulness, charity, sincerity, etc.

Do you subscribe to "opposites attract" or "like attracts like"?: A complimentary mix is best, as I babbled on about posts above...

Would it matter what type of job he/she had?: I just want her to be happy in what she does! Nothing much better than doing what you love!

Does it matter what they make financially?: More is generally better, but no big deal for me.

Would you prefer a homebody or a party animal?: Leaning a little more toward homebody these days (of those 2 choices), but a mix is nice too.

A tender lover or an animal?: Geez, I guess I AM getting a little older - more of a tender loving animal these days.


Your "Requirements"- aka Musts and Deal breakers

Name up to five things/traits your ideal mate must have/subscribe to:
1. Rock music, if you don't get it, no need to proceed.
2. Humor is just so important! May sound trivial, but not with me!
3. Intellect to some degree, or it's all just pointless.
4. Be at least a bit "experienced". Lived a freakin' life!
5. Love, respect, and admiration for my wonderful son.

Name up to five things that you would consider "deal breakers" in a relationship: I'm getting a sense of deja vu!!!
1. I am spiritual guy, but in my own way. I can't handle religious zealots or the overly devoted. A more philosophical mind preferred.
2. Hard right wingers - I tend to run to the left pretty well.
3. God bless country music lovers and all the folks back home! But this is really not for me. Thanyaverymuch!
4. No yuppies, obsessions with wine, soap operas, name brands, admiration of doctors and lawyers simply because of what they are, dockers, Old Navy,
5. Sanity! As much as I love unique and original personalities, I need my number one to be well tethered to reality when it comes down to it! This includes alchoholics, drug addicts, crackheads, crack whores (and their assistants!), golf lovers, and republicans! JK, just checking if anyone reads this far! :)

Gee, I hope I score well on this test! I barely studied!


FantasyArtMan