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Wow.... You've gotten a lot of support on this thread.  When I said I was giving up.... a lot of people agreed.  Showed me, the virtual internet door....  Threw a party on my behalf, and I wasn't invited.  You know what, seeing our pictures next to each other. We would make a cute looking couple....    sorry but i'm not interested Well.... I tried. 
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leave me alone please
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how could i allow myself into this situation again. I LITERALLY GIVE UP THIS TIME. there's nothing left for me....... Well, I disagree that there is nothing left for you. There is a whole world out there to explore and you can have a lot of fun without having a man in your life. Not all of us were meant to be partnered up with someone. |
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So...Give up, never really saw any point to threads like these. And Up2Us...I did invite you, the invitation must have blown away or something, I made all of them out of napkins.  I think the point of this thread is to express how frustrated she is with the dating/love scene. Sometimes its good to vent to others here on Mingles. These forums are a good way to let people know they are not alone and I think its all good. Yeah...So... leave me alone please ... |
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Edited by
ladytj878
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Sat 07/02/11 10:13 AM
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Yep buddy, if it hasn't happened by now, or not gonna happen, what's the use???????? Just not for me, as bad as i want it, just not for me. Love hurts too bad, too many games, too many lies, too many cheaters... so i feel i should just go out and be a 'get around girl', might as well...everyone else is doing it, just don't want to feel anything. A get around girl? does that mean what I think it means? If so, why not just go pro? Either way that sounds like a terrible idea. Respect yourself and demand that respect from others don't give yourself to those who are not worthy. Giving up may seem like a good idea now, but maybe just take a break and give yourself time to heal, so what happens after. In the mean time, enjoy the forums here, and just get out and have fun with your friends, keep your mind off dating and men for a while.
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Edited by
Up2Us
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Sat 07/02/11 12:43 PM
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So...Give up, never really saw any point to threads like these. And Up2Us...I did invite you, the invitation must have blown away or something, I made all of them out of napkins. I think the point of this thread is to express how frustrated she is with the dating/love scene. Sometimes its good to vent to others here on Mingles. These forums are a good way to let people know they are not alone and I think its all good. Yeah...So... leave me alone please ... Well, so much for me trying to be nice....
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Yep buddy, if it hasn't happened by now, or not gonna happen, what's the use???????? Just not for me, as bad as i want it, just not for me. Love hurts too bad, too many games, too many lies, too many cheaters... so i feel i should just go out and be a 'get around girl', might as well...everyone else is doing it, just don't want to feel anything. A get around girl? does that mean what I think it means? If so, why not just go pro? Either way that sounds like a terrible idea. Respect yourself and demand that respect from others don't give yourself to those who are not worthy. Giving up may seem like a good idea now, but maybe just take a break and give yourself time to heal, so what happens after. In the mean time, enjoy the forums here, and just get out and have fun with your friends, keep your mind off dating and men for a while. no one even wants THAT from me anymore. i'm done |
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For some reason I doubt that you are unwanted.
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For some reason I doubt that you are unwanted. no one wants me right now!!! now maybe on the internet, somebody might try to holla, but not in real life. everything's over, the door has been closed....and there's not another door opened so that's that. |
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i can't even eat since dude left me. guess he found another love and didn't want to hurt me by telling me, idk
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For some reason I doubt that you are unwanted. no one wants me right now!!! now maybe on the internet, somebody might try to holla, but not in real life. I hear you, I'm in the same boat. Nobody wants me, they want some non-existent alternate-universe version of me that cares about nothing other than booze and babies. We need to get comfortable with the idea that there is MORE to life than being an adjunct to another person.... |
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For some reason I doubt that you are unwanted. no one wants me right now!!! now maybe on the internet, somebody might try to holla, but not in real life. I hear you, I'm in the same boat. Nobody wants me, they want some non-existent alternate-universe version of me that cares about nothing other than booze and babies. We need to get comfortable with the idea that there is MORE to life than being an adjunct to another person.... yea ur right...i just haven't got to that point yet. but what are u suppose to do if u have no one, other than ur kids and fam, feels like God isn't there, although i know he is. and i know he removed this situation all for my good. it just hurts like heck. |
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Cat Baby....I only read your first post and your last post....
I can only tell you what has worked for me Darlin. Love is hard. It is a lot of lonely nights. It is frustration. Love is a lot of patience and sometimes it hurts to want it so bad. Love ain't for pu$$ies....but, When that love you crave comes, it will be from a blind angle you could never expect. It will slap you upside the head and leave you smiling stupid. I have hung out here amongst some truly cool and sexi people for 3 years....in this past year I have fallen in love....hard. We all have given up gorgeous.... But, in order to start anew....you have to have given up first. Just know....that if you can spare the time...patience....love.....here among us....time, patience and love will be given in return. |
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For some reason I doubt that you are unwanted. no one wants me right now!!! now maybe on the internet, somebody might try to holla, but not in real life. I hear you, I'm in the same boat. Nobody wants me, they want some non-existent alternate-universe version of me that cares about nothing other than booze and babies. We need to get comfortable with the idea that there is MORE to life than being an adjunct to another person.... Words from the wise. 
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Cat Baby....I only read your first post and your last post.... I can only tell you what has worked for me Darlin. Love is hard. It is a lot of lonely nights. It is frustration. Love is a lot of patience and sometimes it hurts to want it so bad. Love ain't for pu$$ies....but, When that love you crave comes, it will be from a blind angle you could never expect. It will slap you upside the head and leave you smiling stupid. I have hung out here amongst some truly cool and sexi people for 3 years....in this past year I have fallen in love....hard. We all have given up gorgeous.... But, in order to start anew....you have to have given up first. Just know....that if you can spare the time...patience....love.....here among us....time, patience and love will be given in return. well i have to just sit by the closed door for a while, that's all i can do and wait. thx |
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Honey, ain't no one here gonna condemn you for being jaded and cynical. Everyone here feels cast aside (near as I can tell).
It is easy to let the eyes glaze over and just not care. That is the easy way. But, love ain't easy. If you wait...you wait.....I did and it was sooooo worth it. I flailed around blindly then just settled in....got to make some actual real life friends....then I talked to a woman for 6 months before I realized that I love her. (I ain't that bright)....I have got to meet her and she is the best thing that has ever happened in my life. So, do what you need to do to protect yourself because it is the pain that makes you stronger. When all things equal out...when you find your zen spot....when you are happy with you.....love will come. |
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MzCat..I have been and now at,,where your at,,But all we can do is be who we are,,,and if that means going out and having some fun,,then do that...as for finding the right one who may want to share your life with you...that may take a life-time to find..But IF you just stop,,or settle,,,then YOUR NEVER KNOW WHO THE RIGHT ONE WAS,,,,,,so like me WE KEEP OUR MINDS OPEN,,and just maintain our WHO,,that we live out....I've been on here five years,,and have been involved with three ladies who I tried to find an US in,,and all were just not right,,so here I am,,,and I to could have said the heck with it,,,but I know had I done that after my first one failed,,I would not have experienced the other two,,so even as those were not right? THAT allowed me to KNOW,,there IS HOPE and LIGHT around every corner....
 YOUR find someone who is for you ,,or he shall find you,,,its just a time thing,,and a time to REALLY SEE,,who wants to be part of your life,,and or your days? Good Luck and I do hope you stay around here as your post ignite and you seem like a very fun person... |
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Honey, ain't no one here gonna condemn you for being jaded and cynical. Everyone here feels cast aside (near as I can tell). It is easy to let the eyes glaze over and just not care. That is the easy way. But, love ain't easy. If you wait...you wait.....I did and it was sooooo worth it. I flailed around blindly then just settled in....got to make some actual real life friends....then I talked to a woman for 6 months before I realized that I love her. (I ain't that bright)....I have got to meet her and she is the best thing that has ever happened in my life. So, do what you need to do to protect yourself because it is the pain that makes you stronger. When all things equal out...when you find your zen spot....when you are happy with you.....love will come. really, the pain is breaking me down all i do is cry and i haven't even eaten today AT ALL nothing not even water. it's after 6 here and hot. i just don't have a taste for anything. that really shook me up. but yea, maybe in the long run i'll see that it's making me stronger. i just wish that there was an open door when this one closed. i really feel like ish.........maybe it wasn't my fault, but still, i deserved an explanation of why he left me. |
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