Ha!

If you don't follow the herd, you'll get to water, and you will be the only one wanting it. There will be no pushing.

The herd only finds water coz it moves randomly, and on the prairies there is water eventually, no matter which direction you are headed.

So doing the same without being part of a herd will get you to water.

Which means a maverick always get to drink when near water. Do things other than what everyone does to find love, and you will be the only one vying for his or her graces.

One way to accomplish this would be to join up as a volunteer to visit inmates conjugally when they have nobody else to come in to screw them.

Or you may want to sign up as a charwoman in a monastery of monks. Not all monks are gay or child molesters, you know.

What else... be a smartass on some forums, and another smartass will find you sooner or later. It hasn't worked for me yet, after six years of trying, but hey, Rome was not built in a day, and the Ko-hin-Oor diamond was found only after 26 years of excavation in the mine.

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I am not sure if it is a philosophically acceptable argument to reduce the problem to a metaphor, analyze the metaphor, and then expand from the metaphor back to the problem, and apply the lesson that fits the metaphor to the real life argument. I don't know if that's valid, because I have no formal training in philosophy. Mistress Cruella was excellent as a trainer, but she wasn't big on philosophy, as a rule.

i have been offered to go out this evening, but i have my kids this wkend. i need it so bad.

but right now.....pardon me for saying this.....but FML.........

If it's getting bad enough to where you're not eating or drinking, that's not good at all.

I've went a few weeks without eating and drinking, I didn't even get out of bed except to use the restroom, all I did was sleep. I literally gave up. I've tried to commit suicide several times as well. I pulled through all that though. That wasn't because of relationships though, it was other things.

Take care of yourself. You CAN pull through this.

yea i've been in bed all day too.thx for the encouragement

Hopefully tomorrow is nice and sunny, take your kids out to the park or something. That'll help you feel better.

maybe if it's not too hot. idk all i wanna do is lay in bed. i'm making something to eat for them, but me i'll drink water.

i was told not to worry bout it and let God take care of this situation, i just want to know what is up and why he left me high and dry.....at least i wanna see if he home.

have you tried sexual healing?it worked for marvin gaye may he R.I.P.

don't have a partner.....plus i couldn't be more further away from wanting that right now. i'm too hurt

actually i'm jammin out to "got to give it up"right now as i'm typing this and about to click on the post reply thingy and the edit reply now cause i misspelled actually

Some times we do have to hand things over to God and let him handle it. It's times like this that bring us closer to God.

Oh Totage; I am so sorry to hear you have gone through all that but I am glad you got through it and you are here to chat on the forums.

Thanks navy.

Sometimes you have to crumble to become stronger.

I understand. I don't have any family, no real-life friends, and there isn't anybody in the world I can turn to for help. I have to deal with this thing all by myself, and I'm OK with that. In some sort of perverse way, I actually think it's better to have to do it like this. It forces me to deal with reality instead of delusions. I can't sit around and wait for anyone else to step in and do anything for me.

lol ur funny

ain't that the truth.

Hey, I am sitting in a same situation here but with woman .
I have been member in many sites but no one is serious or are having seriously intentions. Just ended a membership one one of the sites because these members just ignored me but not answering on any messages I sent and some didn´t even care to read my profile.

I hope you find him you are looking for.......

yea, and on some of these sites, ya get on a forum and some of the members be hating and just down right rude. there was no one really interested on any of the ones i been on either. the one i just deleted not too long ago, met someone, talked on the phone, became friends on FB...and i'm assuming bcuz he seen a body pic........he bounced. i'm assuming that was the problem.

so yea, no one is serious anymore on any of these. that's sad.

Some people are serious. I've met several people from this site.

Actually it has been like that for me too once I left the military. My so-called civilian friends are only out for themselves so I have dealt with a lot on my own. A year ago in July, I chatted with a guy that was in a parade with me and we are now very close friends. I have someone I can lean on and he has the same in me. He is that special friend that I can talk to about anything and I feel like I have known him for years instead of just under a year. I am very lucky to have met someone that special.