Topic: Can you date a male or female for 5years,without sex?
Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 06/05/11 12:02 AM
pulling pigtails AND sex (if done right) is all about "connection"

I certainly prefer the latter before the former!

msharmony's photo
Sun 06/05/11 12:15 AM
I totally understand. ...lol

Im not frigid at all, dont get me wrong, I enjoy those moments of 'physical' intimacy

I also love a good movie, and good chocolate. But somehow, I could survive a relationship without them as well. Its just one factor that doesnt make or break the feeling of 'intimacy' ,, for me.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 06/05/11 12:42 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sun 06/05/11 12:44 AM
I'm male........so I guess I could do without a good chocolate:wink:

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 06/05/11 12:44 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sun 06/05/11 12:46 AM
whoops...double

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Sun 06/05/11 10:16 PM
Why five years? Yes i definitely can. Waiting is important to me. To see that they are the right person.

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Mon 06/06/11 04:12 AM

I'd be surprised if I'm dating a girl for more than a month with no nookie. laugh


laugh

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Mon 06/06/11 05:30 AM
Since I'm male, I'm gonna say this. If you don't want to kiss the poor Girl, then you got no buissness messing her around.

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Mon 06/06/11 06:12 AM

Since I'm male, I'm gonna say this. If you don't want to kiss the poor Girl, then you got no buissness messing her around.


huh

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Mon 06/06/11 06:38 AM

Can you date a male or female for 5years,without sex?


yes

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Mon 06/06/11 06:50 AM


Since I'm male, I'm gonna say this. If you don't want to kiss the poor Girl, then you got no buissness messing her around.


huh


What don't you understand? I wouldn't like to be dated by the same person over and over for 5 years. Only to be told, I'm not good enough for her at the end. It's cold and cruel. If she really doesn't like that much, then screw her! xD

I'd give her a year or two at most, but I would soon give up on a relationship with her soon after that. I have my limits! happy

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Mon 06/06/11 06:56 AM



Since I'm male, I'm gonna say this. If you don't want to kiss the poor Girl, then you got no buissness messing her around.


huh


What don't you understand? I wouldn't like to be dated by the same person over and over for 5 years. Only to be told, I'm not good enough for her at the end. It's cold and cruel. If she really doesn't like that much, then screw her! xD

I'd give her a year or two at most, but I would soon give up on a relationship with her soon after that. I have my limits! happy


Are you always so negative? Do you always start new relationships thinking this way?

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Mon 06/06/11 07:00 AM




Since I'm male, I'm gonna say this. If you don't want to kiss the poor Girl, then you got no buissness messing her around.


huh


What don't you understand? I wouldn't like to be dated by the same person over and over for 5 years. Only to be told, I'm not good enough for her at the end. It's cold and cruel. If she really doesn't like that much, then screw her! xD

I'd give her a year or two at most, but I would soon give up on a relationship with her soon after that. I have my limits! happy


Are you always so negative? Do you always start new relationships thinking this way?


5 years is a long time. As I say I have my limits. I will not be played by anyone.

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Mon 06/06/11 07:29 AM
Why are you assuming someone will "play" you? And yeah, if you're going into a relationship with negativity, things aren't going to go well.

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Mon 06/06/11 10:49 AM
If you love them... Yes, if there's a ligitimate reason why we can't (physical/mental health issue)... as long as my needs could be taken care of in other ways.

Hello Singmesweet... long time no see... waving

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Mon 06/06/11 10:55 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Mon 06/06/11 11:01 AM

If you love them... Yes, if there's a ligitimate reason why we can't (physical/mental health issue)... as long as OUR needs could be taken care of in other ways.

Well saiddrinker

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Mon 06/06/11 11:27 AM
I don't understand any of you Ladies. I would not be able to stand a Girl that I couldn't express all my feelings with. I like to be a man with a Lady, and if she doesn't like that, then I know she doesn't like me.

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Mon 06/06/11 11:32 AM
its women they act like they are sex camels,they are like "i went 6 years w/o having sex when i was single" yeah when you were single not with a actual man being around...besides with a few exceptions most women won't go 5 years w/o having sex if they are in a relationship,unless they are screwing someone else

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Mon 06/06/11 11:35 AM
Just whenever it feels right. MrBiscuit, i agree. If they don't want you, they should go the hell away and stop messing. Some people may wait five years so that they don't come across as a slut. Jmo.

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Mon 06/06/11 12:08 PM

Just whenever it feels right. MrBiscuit, i agree. If they don't want you, they should go the hell away and stop messing. Some people may wait five years so that they don't come across as a slut. Jmo.


I would never class a Lady as a slut, if she had taken some time to get to know me :)

Also I would never expect anyone to wait 5 years to prove themself to me. That is like a prison sentence, love should always flow naturally. That's the way I like it! ^_^

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Mon 06/06/11 12:24 PM


I'd be surprised if I'm dating a girl for more than a month with no nookie. laugh


laugh


I'm glad someone else had a laugh too.

Truth be told if I'm with a woman for more than a couple weeks and there isn't anything happening I would have to think that she just isn't that into me so there isn't a real point in continuing.