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Topic: Good guy or a Bad boy?
iwasaking77's photo
Thu 05/19/11 09:44 AM
So just wanted to stir the pot and see how ya`ll feel..Not to stereotype anyone but do in general women prefer a bad boy over a good guy. I know virtually on any website majority of women seek a nice guy but somehow when someone goes to their profile reads it and messages them with something thats related to their profile they don`t get evena courtesy response back even if its a rejection email?

Not complaning in anyway... i just wanted some rectifyin

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 05/19/11 09:49 AM
glasses cruizes up on Harley dirty, drunk, insulting parents, and expecting sex after not calling for a week...

glasses and gets it

frn12345's photo
Thu 05/19/11 10:53 AM
>they don`t get evena courtesy response back even if its a rejection email?

Standard Modus operandi for the FeeMail of the species

RKISIT's photo
Thu 05/19/11 10:59 AM
usually in the world of online dating "no response,means not interested"

soufiehere's photo
Thu 05/19/11 11:00 AM

So just wanted to stir the pot and see how ya`ll feel..Not to stereotype anyone but do in general women prefer a bad boy over a good guy. I know virtually on any website majority of women seek a nice guy but somehow when someone goes to their profile reads it and messages them with something thats related to their profile they don`t get evena courtesy response back even if its a rejection email?

Not complaning in anyway... i just wanted some rectifyin

You obviously have not been on the receiving
end of mail, that gets angry if you reply,
and angry if you don't.
Making it easier to just ignore it.
Good guy or bad is incidental.

lizziebee89's photo
Thu 05/19/11 11:41 AM
i agree with her. A man messaged me and i kindly said no thank you in response and he then called me a ***** and wrote some pretty nasty things. So it is easier to just ignore the message. As she said they get mad either way. And i never respond to messages that start off dirty or sexual. Or even to hey sexy messages. I.ve never had a guy say something about my profile though, so i dunno what to tell you on that.

burgundybry's photo
Thu 05/19/11 12:24 PM
No one even reads my profileohwell . Read my profile for more details on the subject....oh, and for the record, I am neither good nor bad, I'm just me.

soufiehere's photo
Thu 05/19/11 12:34 PM

Read my profile for more details on the
subject....oh, and for the record, I am
neither good nor bad, I'm just me.

hahaha I am glad I did.
You are the only person I know who
friended themself :-)

msharmony's photo
Thu 05/19/11 12:37 PM
through years of trial and error,,lol

I have come to the conclusion that I prefer neither a good boy or a bady boy,

but a MAN with a balance and ability to adapt to be good when necessary AND bad when necessary...

Ash36's photo
Thu 05/19/11 12:54 PM
Edited by Ash36 on Thu 05/19/11 12:55 PM
yo dude, i think its true most of women prefer a nice guy whoz gentle n truly understands her. So the point is how you approach a chick.? If you send her a mail just sayin hi, it wont work, she'll think your an ******* or douche who would make a boooorin convo. Try to be frank with her. Somethin that reflects your personality in your words. Wrll, i myself rejected many mails lol good luck

no photo
Thu 05/19/11 01:19 PM
Didn't we just have a thread like this recently?

I don't go for a guy specifically because he's a nice guy or a bad boy. Actually, if someone describes themselves either as a nice guy or a bad boy, I'd probably stay away from both.

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 05/19/11 01:22 PM

Didn't we just have a thread like this recently?

I don't go for a guy specifically because he's a nice guy or a bad boy. Actually, if someone describes themselves either as a nice guy or a bad boy, I'd probably stay away from both.


I am a nice guy. :smile:

no photo
Thu 05/19/11 01:35 PM
Real nice guys don't have to describe themselves as nice guys. :tongue:

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 05/19/11 01:40 PM

Real nice guys don't have to describe themselves as nice guys. :tongue:


I'm just "trolling here" . laugh

Trolling - fishing for a response, comes from the fishing term of trolling a bait behind the boat, see who bites on it.

seamac's photo
Thu 05/19/11 01:56 PM
Edited by seamac on Thu 05/19/11 02:37 PM
I think there may be some truth to the bad boy attracting woman, something to do with the inherent danger and edginess but who wants to live like that? I would think it would get old and tired pretty fast.

I agree with singmesweet, nice guys don't have to announce it, they just are, it shows and that is a real attraction for most woman, IMO

Honestly nice is a trait that has long been at the top of my list (what list I have) But for me nice is the most important thing a person can be.

burgundybry's photo
Thu 05/19/11 02:03 PM
Edited by burgundybry on Thu 05/19/11 02:05 PM


Read my profile for more details on the
subject....oh, and for the record, I am
neither good nor bad, I'm just me.

hahaha I am glad I did.
You are the only person I know who
friended themself :-)


laugh laugh , ty souf!!flowers flowers

Oh yeah, don't forget the testimonials too, bigsmile

soufiehere's photo
Thu 05/19/11 02:09 PM

laugh laugh , ty souf!!flowers flowers
Oh yeah, don't forget the testimonials too, bigsmile

hahaha I saw!!

At least you can trust the guy :-)

no photo
Thu 05/19/11 02:19 PM


Real nice guys don't have to describe themselves as nice guys. :tongue:


I'm just "trolling here" . laugh

Trolling - fishing for a response, comes from the fishing term of trolling a bait behind the boat, see who bites on it.


Thank you captain obvious. :wink:

RKISIT's photo
Thu 05/19/11 02:42 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Thu 05/19/11 02:42 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6eTTaY1a6M

this is kind of how women are on dating sites

iwasaking77's photo
Thu 05/19/11 03:22 PM
I actually have 2 friend male and female on different sites. When i came to see some of the responses from guys who deprecate and disrespect anyone thats just unacceptable but i also wanted to know who gets a response back. I have went on a one date from this site so far and lets not talk about it lols

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