What happened to respecting a woman, furthermore, what happened to women that expected to be respected. There was no questions like how big are your boobs are and whats your favorite sex position. Not to say that the guy may not had been thinking it, but back then they seem to really wanna know the girl, not only her sexuality. I think that if people were like how they were back then we wouldn't be the society we have become and the selfishness thought of its all about me and my needs would be the thing of the past.

Since when is respect old fashioned? What does asking about boob size or sexual positions have to do with being old fashioned or not? Why is wanting more than just sex old fashioned?

Because when you say those things you are considered to be old fashioned, that is why I said what I did. So fine, I'm old fashioned and proud of it, lol.

Don't be too hard on them. They're just trying to figure out what works.

Romance hasn't really changed at all, it's just that some of us take a little more time to catch on.

I hear ya, texas, so very true :)

A man who really, and truly want to get to know a woman, will look for more than just sex from her. A man who only wants to pretend to want to get to know her cause he knows he will get some? Well, that should be self explanatory. Point is, when a guy sees a girl he wants, and gets that loving feeling all inside of him, he will become the romantic guy you chicks always look for.

Hmmm I find that most blokes show a fair bit of respect, especially if they know what you find offensive.
I work with truckies and bush boys and 99% of the time they are fantasitic, its just the rare few who tend to be complete drongo's at times..

I guess if they don't show respect find someone who does, it's not like there arnt a million men out there.

Drongo's? Lol. I like this word.

Don't get discouraged by the large percentage of men only looking to get laid. Oh those who start talking about sex before they even know your last name. Just be who you are, respect yourself enough to walk away from them and keep waiting for a man who will truly love you.

Of course, I don't actually believe I will ever meet one....but that's a whole different thread.

If the first thing a guy asks ya is, "what's your bra size?",
you're hanging out with the wrong guys.

Yea, I know how ya feel Ruth, I'm starting to feel the very same way, lol

Just wanna say thanks to all of you for your responses. I'm glad to see the optimism that you hold, it's very uplifting indeed.

Still exists, also still exists. Most guys can't even do the math on boob size so I wouldn't worry about it much, we can however nail down sex positions like no other regardless of whether or not we have ever seen or experienced them. Even today we still want to know the girl, but if she is lesbian we kind of would like to know before trying to pursue something pointless in the first place.

I think if people were like they were back then we would be far more screwed today, evolution is kind of a ***** like that every once in awhile. There isn't anything wrong with being selfish, as a matter of fact I promote it as it is a necessary every once in awhile...Can't trudge through life worrying about someone else all of the time.

Besides...Isn't this kind of a need that you want? I.E. Selfishness?