Topic: What do women want? Finally an answer
vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:32 PM










that's for sure



You're too hardheaded....a woman would go nuts trying to change youwhoa
:angel:


uh huh!laugh
you don't have to tell the whole world, ya nO huh

oops me bad!

that's for sure..


and you love it!laugh
you being bad ? hmmmm ohwell


If I wasn't....you wouldn't know what to do.
wanna bet laugh


Yeah!bigsmile

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Sat 05/14/11 05:33 PM











that's for sure



You're too hardheaded....a woman would go nuts trying to change youwhoa
:angel:


uh huh!laugh
you don't have to tell the whole world, ya nO huh

oops me bad!

that's for sure..


and you love it!laugh
you being bad ? hmmmm ohwell


If I wasn't....you wouldn't know what to do.
wanna bet laugh


Yeah!bigsmile
well...maybe embarassed

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:34 PM












that's for sure



You're too hardheaded....a woman would go nuts trying to change youwhoa
:angel:


uh huh!laugh
you don't have to tell the whole world, ya nO huh

oops me bad!

that's for sure..


and you love it!laugh
you being bad ? hmmmm ohwell


If I wasn't....you wouldn't know what to do.
wanna bet laugh


Yeah!bigsmile
well...maybe embarassed


I rest my case....laugh

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Sat 05/14/11 05:37 PM


I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad

Sharris's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:38 PM


I know the dementia game..don't even try.
the who what how ??

and I can divy out the TP for you, too!

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Sat 05/14/11 05:42 PM



I know the dementia game..don't even try.
the who what how ??

and I can divy out the TP for you, too!
charmin please bigsmile

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:43 PM



I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad


of course I am....it's my job!

no photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:45 PM




I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad


of course I am....it's my job!
well you can go now, your job here is done...

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:49 PM





I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad


of course I am....it's my job!
well you can go now, your job here is done...

tongue2 tongue2

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Sat 05/14/11 05:50 PM






I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad


of course I am....it's my job!
well you can go now, your job here is done...

tongue2 tongue2

laugh

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:51 PM







I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad


of course I am....it's my job!
well you can go now, your job here is done...

tongue2 tongue2

laugh

laugh

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Sat 05/14/11 05:56 PM








I rest my case....laugh
you're picking on me again sad


of course I am....it's my job!
well you can go now, your job here is done...

tongue2 tongue2

laugh

laugh

you still here what

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 05:58 PM
you still here

can't get rid of me that easypitchfork

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Sat 05/14/11 05:59 PM

you still here

can't get rid of me that easypitchfork

well hell frustrated

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 06:00 PM


you still here

can't get rid of me that easypitchfork

well hell frustrated

bigsmile

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Sat 05/14/11 06:02 PM



you still here

can't get rid of me that easypitchfork

well hell frustrated

bigsmile

well then I guess I'll go...see you later flowerforyou

vivian2981's photo
Sat 05/14/11 06:04 PM




you still here

can't get rid of me that easypitchfork

well hell frustrated

bigsmile

well then I guess I'll go...see you later flowerforyou


Nite Sunshine!waving

oldsage's photo
Sat 05/14/11 07:37 PM
Edited by oldsage on Sat 05/14/11 07:38 PM





"...to be in charge of her own life."


And that is why I am single. I have not found any man who could give me that. I had to take it.

Doing so, made them unhappy.


Jeannie, it is not something anyone can give to you, because they NEVER had "charge" of your life.
You are looking for someone to ACCEPT you as you are & love you as you are.

Hard thing to learn to understand, but if a person learns the idea, it can be done.

I relate it to an old butterfly saying: Catch a butterfly, set it free. If it comes back, it is your's, if it doesn't...it never was.

Tough to understand, but great when someone does.




Unfortunately most men, (the larger percent of them) and maybe that includes women, but my experience is with men... anyway, most think they OWN YOU and they try to take charge of your life.

And if you allow them to do it, then yes, they are in charge.

If you don't allow them to take charge, then there is a constant battle and that battle is a power struggle.

Life is too damn short. So in taking back my life, I had to go all the way to divorce to get that accomplished. It was the only way to gain their respect and take back my life.

That is why I am pretty certain that marriage is not for me, then or now.




The ONLY thing I want charge/control of is ME.

Hard enough job, by it self.



Then stay single. laugh laugh

I'm sure if you found a wife, she might want to start taking charge of your life.

drinker


Gwen & I learned to accept, rather than control.
Took awhile, but we did figure it out.
Prob. why I am still single

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Sun 05/15/11 03:04 AM
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Sun 05/15/11 07:24 AM

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