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| Topic: What do women want? Finally an answer | |
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"...to be in charge of her own life." And that is why I am single. I have not found any man who could give me that. I had to take it. Doing so, made them unhappy. Jeannie, it is not something anyone can give to you, because they NEVER had "charge" of your life. You are looking for someone to ACCEPT you as you are & love you as you are. Hard thing to learn to understand, but if a person learns the idea, it can be done. I relate it to an old butterfly saying: Catch a butterfly, set it free. If it comes back, it is your's, if it doesn't...it never was. Tough to understand, but great when someone does. Unfortunately most men, (the larger percent of them) and maybe that includes women, but my experience is with men... anyway, most think they OWN YOU and they try to take charge of your life. And if you allow them to do it, then yes, they are in charge. If you don't allow them to take charge, then there is a constant battle and that battle is a power struggle. Life is too damn short. So in taking back my life, I had to go all the way to divorce to get that accomplished. It was the only way to gain their respect and take back my life. That is why I am pretty certain that marriage is not for me, then or now. The ONLY thing I want charge/control of is ME. Hard enough job, by it self. Then stay single.  I'm sure if you found a wife, she might want to start taking charge of your life.  Gwen & I learned to accept, rather than control. Took awhile, but we did figure it out. Prob. why I am still single Sometimes it takes a lifetime to learn that. People who have been together for a long time stay together because they know that they don't have time to 'train' or 'break in' another life partner...it takes too long.....
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