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Topic: What do women want? Finally an answer
burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Fri 05/13/11 04:40 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know!

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Fri 05/13/11 04:42 PM
My son and his buddies would come home from school, stand in the kitchen, drink really sweet koolaid..they wouldn''t let me make it..and make noises and laugh for an hour...was tooot funny...now we're doin it and calling it old age.... BRING ON THE KOOL AID!!!!! ANY excuse works for me!! KOOl AID!!! It's in the sauce must have a little jalapeño in it. I am using serrano infused oil today..massage anyone? ME ME ME disclaimer..not professional but ..good as long as the kink in my shoulder goes away....who cares???? what color polish do you want your toes painted?It is a package deal. today she wants cake..and a massage...and...

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/13/11 04:50 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know!

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/13/11 04:51 PM
My son and his buddies would come home from school, stand in the kitchen, drink really sweet koolaid..they wouldn''t let me make it..and make noises and laugh for an hour...was tooot funny...now we're doin it and calling it old age.... BRING ON THE KOOL AID!!!!! ANY excuse works for me!! KOOl AID!!! It's in the sauce must have a little jalapeño in it. I am using serrano infused oil today..massage anyone? ME ME ME disclaimer..not professional but ..good as long as the kink in my shoulder goes away....who cares???? what color polish do you want your toes painted?It is a package deal. today she wants cake..and a massage...and... French manicure....That's what I always do!

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Fri 05/13/11 04:57 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know! THAT"S IT!!!!now the thread will have to start over

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Fri 05/13/11 04:58 PM
My son and his buddies would come home from school, stand in the kitchen, drink really sweet koolaid..they wouldn''t let me make it..and make noises and laugh for an hour...was tooot funny...now we're doin it and calling it old age.... BRING ON THE KOOL AID!!!!! ANY excuse works for me!! KOOl AID!!! It's in the sauce must have a little jalapeño in it. I am using serrano infused oil today..massage anyone? ME ME ME disclaimer..not professional but ..good as long as the kink in my shoulder goes away....who cares???? what color polish do you want your toes painted?It is a package deal. today she wants cake..and a massage...and... French manicure....That's what I always do! nice

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/13/11 05:32 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know! THAT"S IT!!!!now the thread will have to start over Should we or

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/13/11 05:33 PM
French manicure....That's what I always do! nice Just seems to last longer.

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Fri 05/13/11 05:36 PM
French manicure....That's what I always do! nice Just seems to last longer. never done the french..do love soft pink..ond in certain moods..fuchsia

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/13/11 05:43 PM
French manicure....That's what I always do! nice Just seems to last longer. never done the french..do love soft pink..ond in certain moods..fuchsia That's very pretty....but I'm way to rough on myself for full color.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 05/13/11 05:43 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Fri 05/13/11 05:45 PM
"...to be in charge of her own life." And that is why I am single. I have not found any man who could give me that. I had to take it. Doing so, made them unhappy.

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Fri 05/13/11 05:46 PM
French manicure....That's what I always do! nice Just seems to last longer. never done the french..do love soft pink..ond in certain moods..fuchsia That's very pretty....but I'm way to rough on myself for full color. my hands, yes, my toes, no...my hands, usually a clear

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Fri 05/13/11 05:47 PM
"...to be in charge of her own life." And that is why I am single. I have not found any man who could give me that. I had to take it. Doing so, made them unhappy. Hi Jeannie

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 05/14/11 06:54 AM
"...to be in charge of her own life." And that is why I am single. I have not found any man who could give me that. I had to take it. Doing so, made them unhappy. Jeannie, it is not something anyone can give to you, because they NEVER had "charge" of your life. You are looking for someone to ACCEPT you as you are & love you as you are. Hard thing to learn to understand, but if a person learns the idea, it can be done. I relate it to an old butterfly saying: Catch a butterfly, set it free. If it comes back, it is your's, if it doesn't...it never was. Tough to understand, but great when someone does.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 05/14/11 12:28 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know! That's Impossible!! <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Sat 05/14/11 12:31 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know! That's Impossible!! <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< we will keep the thread going to help you.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 05/14/11 12:33 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know! That's Impossible!! <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< we will keep the thread going to help you. but, but, but.....there's SOOOOOO many buttons, knobs and switches

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 05/14/11 01:32 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Bry....of course we know what we want....we want you to figure it out!! We can't do everything for you, ya know! That's Impossible!! <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< we will keep the thread going to help you. but, but, but.....there's SOOOOOO many buttons, knobs and switches No worries Bry,.....there is an instruction manual somewhere.....now where did I see that???? No, it's not there.....or over here....not under the sofa... Tell ya what Bry....you find it for me, will you?

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 05/14/11 02:48 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 05/14/11 02:55 PM
"...to be in charge of her own life." And that is why I am single. I have not found any man who could give me that. I had to take it. Doing so, made them unhappy. Jeannie, it is not something anyone can give to you, because they NEVER had "charge" of your life. You are looking for someone to ACCEPT you as you are & love you as you are. Hard thing to learn to understand, but if a person learns the idea, it can be done. I relate it to an old butterfly saying: Catch a butterfly, set it free. If it comes back, it is your's, if it doesn't...it never was. Tough to understand, but great when someone does. Unfortunately most men, (the larger percent of them) and maybe that includes women, but my experience is with men... anyway, most think they OWN YOU and they try to take charge of your life. And if you allow them to do it, then yes, they are in charge. If you don't allow them to take charge, then there is a constant battle and that battle is a power struggle. Life is too damn short. So in taking back my life, I had to go all the way to divorce to get that accomplished. It was the only way to gain their respect and take back my life. That is why I am pretty certain that marriage is not for me, then or now.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 05/14/11 02:58 PM
Hey Viv,I was just wondering as to your topic... Have you guys figured out what it is that you want yet? Sure seems like this is taking a long, long time. I don't have all day, y'know! Here is the complete answer: 1. Power over our own lives. 2. Financial independence 3. A reliable car and a reliable mechanic to fix it. 4. A man who knows how to please us in the bedroom. That's about it.