Ok, so here is the thing, I have been talking to this guy for a few months and we have hung out every now and then. We chat online a couple days out of the week. I guess I should add that when we first met, we basicallly had a make out session but decided it was best to be friends(alcohol was involved on that meeting). Now he is thinking about moving in but only if we keep things at a friendship level. He has said he likes me but I'm not sure if he means as a friend or as more. He will refer to the first night we met, and still flirts with me. Idk, what are some opinions out there??

Thanks

Honestly if you think it will stay platonic your only fooling yourself...............For if he is still flirting and talking about the first night he still has other things on his mind. Myself I would say that is a bad move to let him move in could end up bad.

dont give up the milk for free,, thats old school advise

no reason for a man to move in with a woman if he is able bodied, he should have his OWN place unless he plans on marrying her



(now you know how Old I am....lol)

Yep, sounds like a noncommittal guy who wants to get the best of your world.

I can only see this working if it is
clearly defined which it is, roommate,
or love interest.

(Never worry about asking stupid questions,
the stupid answers should cure this :-)

understanding that I MIGHT be predisposed to certain suspicions because of my past


but MAYBE he actually HAS a relationship, kept hoping he would be able to get away from her for a bit to meet you, but it became too unlikely and he just gave up,,,

do you have a sister or two

He's thinking about moving in?
Where is he coming from? His mom's house? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Is he going to divorce his wife? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Even if he did, you would never be able to trust him.

Really, how long have you known the leech?
How much do YOU REALLY KNOW ABOUT HIM?
Don't answer me, but ask yourself those vital questions.

Nice & frank opinion by everyone.

Minglers are really gr8 at advicing.

You are asking to get hurt. Dump him. Find a better friend.

seriously, listen to this great advice. i'd be asking myself how much of a friend he really is too. just friends, but then sends you other signals when it's convenient for him. what if he moves in and dates other people? how will you feel? he seems better kept at a distance, if at all.

Sounds like he is playing games, and has the assumption he'll be able to take advantage of you and use you for what he can

He can think what he likes...


doesn't mean you have to do what he wants.


Tell him to go think something else.....or commit....to something....anything...


You want a relationship with this guy?


Do you want a deep and romantic, sexual relationship with this guy?

If so....you can have that....WITHOUT him moving in...IF he could ever get his head out of his arse.

Tell him to get a job, buy a nice house, and then you will move in with HIM.

yeah...what comes to mind is..."why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" tell that dead beat to get a job...

thanks for all the advice....been thinking along the same lines for the most part...

NEXT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

whoah did you say he's talking about moving in!!!!! And you're just friends....I THINK NOT SISTER! He is a USER--who wants a free ride, and is obviously hoping for all the free puszy he can get on the side from you, while pimpn on ladies outside the house....that's just weird.