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Edited by
esebulldog
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Mon 04/18/11 07:16 PM
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i'll laugh with you bro
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I'm sorry I've been trying to steal Soufie away from you.  But, really.
Can you blame me? She is so effin hot and I just can't stop wanting her.  
Screw that! ...C'mon BabyRuth....join my hareem that way I get TWO gorgeous women!...and you can still mess around with Soufie! It's a win/win for everyone! :) Would we get those 'I Dream of Jeannie' pants and tops and turbans? - - - You know, you can tell the hopeful that you only wish to be friends. What they hear is 'I want you.' They have mingle deafness. Too much loud flirting. Oh bummer if you are wearing I dream of jeannie costumes I want to come too. |
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I have gotten to a point now on here, that I only flirt with the people I am sure know i am joking..
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Well THAT sets the imagination on FIRE!!!!
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have not had that problem. ever. took me a couple of turns at bat to get used to getting shot down in flames though. now i think there is a mingle form for it. hey, bulldog i think you are (various adjectives) guy, BUT (various excuses) i hope we can be friends. add me ok Me thinks you are nice man 
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have not had that problem. ever. took me a couple of turns at bat to get used to getting shot down in flames though. now i think there is a mingle form for it. hey, bulldog i think you are (various adjectives) guy, BUT (various excuses) i hope we can be friends. add me ok Me thinks you are nice man
me thinks me needs a bus pass 
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Biggest problem I get is, whenever I am single none of the people I like are interested in me. The minute I start dating someone, bam!, they are suddenly deeply in love with me.
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I haven't actually had a problem with it for quite a while but, it does happen ...more often than not to friends of mine right here. I kinda see things from the third party angles of one trying to hard while the other is shying away or some thing similar...The trying too hard approach makes me wanna say "Stop dude/dudette...your embarrassing yourself...he/she ain't going for it" I totally agree with that first line of yours Lex.... If they're friends and cannot keep their hold on themselves, then you might want to stop befriending them.  Might not be worth keeping. 
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Most you have probably read what happened to my last relationship. It fits the bill.
For a while I was having this problem before that too. I even had one instance where I was guilty of it. (Shamefully enough  ) I learned my lesson though....I was just being socially awkward, and got past it.
Thankfully, since I came back, it has calmed down so I no longer have to deal with it like I did. Only friends contact me now, and that's how I want it. I'm sure if my romantic situation changed in the future, I would have to deal with all the B.S. again. |
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We all get em at one point or another..... Someone gets the hots for you and loses perspective of the difference between flirting or casual conversation and decides.....THEY WANT YOU. (I am refering to those who pitch woo on the internet) How do YOU deal with it? Cause there is no way in Hell it is ever gonna work and not everyone is bright enough to take a hint. Generally, I am polite and stick and move until some other poor sucker wanders into the crosshairs and catches the unwanted wooing. It may not be as bluntly up front as "You ain't my type"...but it is an effective tactic and mostly enables you to salvage some good friendships. I guess the thing is...I have a hard time popping someones heart shaped balloon...anyone else got a problem with handling the ones coming at you like a love struck puppy? Never got that. I did get someone who was interested in me at first and then decided later they weren't. **** happens I guess. |
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We all get em at one point or another..... Someone gets the hots for you and loses perspective of the difference between flirting or casual conversation and decides.....THEY WANT YOU. (I am refering to those who pitch woo on the internet) How do YOU deal with it? Cause there is no way in Hell it is ever gonna work and not everyone is bright enough to take a hint. Generally, I am polite and stick and move until some other poor sucker wanders into the crosshairs and catches the unwanted wooing. It may not be as bluntly up front as "You ain't my type"...but it is an effective tactic and mostly enables you to salvage some good friendships. I guess the thing is...I have a hard time popping someones heart shaped balloon...anyone else got a problem with handling the ones coming at you like a love struck puppy? Does this mean your turning me down shshshshs and all the work I have done to get you to notice me.....
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But honestly do ya think I have a problem with telling them straight up????
 
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If I'm not into someone, I'll let them know. Politely, of course, if possible.
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Have trouble myself bursting that
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In fact, timely thread, wondering the same thing myself this morn, how do I tell this person, not interested? It seems like such a chore. First thought was, "look, its been nice chatting, but answering email is work, and I'm not into answering yours" Seems so cruel. But it is the truth
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In theory, "I just don't feel that way about you" should be easy, but it's not. Perhaps, in some cases, the problem is that, in order to get to the point where this comes oup, you know that you have been complicit in the flirting, or at least familiar talk. You feel partly responsible and that you need to take some of the punishment. How's that theory?
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Have trouble myself bursting that balloon
In fact, timely thread, wondering the same thing myself this morn, how do I tell this person, not interested? It seems like such a chore. First thought was, "look, its been nice chatting, but answering email is work, and I'm not into answering yours" Seems so cruel. But it is the truth
Tell them that it has been nice chatting, but you don't think you're a match. Short, sweet and polite. If they don't take it well, that's not your fault. |
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We all get em at one point or another..... Someone gets the hots for you and loses perspective of the difference between flirting or casual conversation and decides.....THEY WANT YOU. (I am refering to those who pitch woo on the internet) How do YOU deal with it? Cause there is no way in Hell it is ever gonna work and not everyone is bright enough to take a hint. Generally, I am polite and stick and move until some other poor sucker wanders into the crosshairs and catches the unwanted wooing. It may not be as bluntly up front as "You ain't my type"...but it is an effective tactic and mostly enables you to salvage some good friendships. I guess the thing is...I have a hard time popping someones heart shaped balloon...anyone else got a problem with handling the ones coming at you like a love struck puppy? Yes, been there several times. Some can take a hint, but a lot are persistent. I learned that you really have to state the obvious no matter how hurtful it may sound, because anything other than that will be misconstrued as a sliver of chance you are extending to let them have a go at you. It's like them thinking you are keeping the door open for options, when in reality you are not. In these cases, I would rather lose the "friend" than the object of my affection. |
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We all get em at one point or another..... Someone gets the hots for you and loses perspective of the difference between flirting or casual conversation and decides.....THEY WANT YOU. (I am refering to those who pitch woo on the internet) How do YOU deal with it? Cause there is no way in Hell it is ever gonna work and not everyone is bright enough to take a hint. Generally, I am polite and stick and move until some other poor sucker wanders into the crosshairs and catches the unwanted wooing. It may not be as bluntly up front as "You ain't my type"...but it is an effective tactic and mostly enables you to salvage some good friendships. I guess the thing is...I have a hard time popping someones heart shaped balloon...anyone else got a problem with handling the ones coming at you like a love struck puppy? just being upfront seems the way to go, you did it with me ,,,lol 
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