Enjoy what you like with no regrets.....


love is love...sex is just sex

Find what makes you happy and EARN it..

Other opinions be damned.

Stand up for what you want
Darling....take your life by the throat...no one else can do it for you.

Live to love.

Love to live.

our feelings arent always under our control, our actions are

I imagine its just as right/wrong to lust after the same sex as it is the opposite sex and therefore just as right/wrong to lust after BOTH sexes

love should know no gender and I cant see wrong in LOVING anyone



I also am attracted to both, but have only engaged in physical relationships with the opposite sex


wrong is subjective, for me, its not right to lay down with both sexes or even just the same sex,,,,,but as I said, wrong in any conversation is subjective in terms of ones own experience,,,,

yes i totally understand what your saying and agree with u, thanks :)

thanks a million for ur views and kind words.

Just be you Fifi....

we can ask no more than that.

Hope everything works out for you!

thank you so much eileen

I bet it will.

She ain't said much yet....but, I get the feeling that she is a smart one.

so true krupa, so true.

my daughter was for about a year
we think that she was just going through a explortary faze
the person she was with was not a good influence on her or my grandkids.. we all saw it my daughter i would say was just plain blind.
she now with a man and is expecting her 4th child
she still has friends that are gay(but has no communication or contact with her ex lesbien lover)
but she only involved in a streght relationship

Honestly I'm straight as an arrow. So if I was dating someone and found out they were bi then hell no it would not be good. As long as I'm not dating them then hey they are welcome to be who they are.....Just don't try to present themselves as one thing and hide who they really are... That would piss me off more then if they admitted from the beginning they were bi so I could have that choice to either date them or not. Which in my place I would not date someone that was bi.....

But friends I have no problem with it...

i have 2 cousins that are gay
and a good friend that i have known for over 30yrs that is gay
i even let her stay with me for a brief untill she found her own place

Life is all about experiences, if thats something that you see fit for urself, go for it, dont let anyone stop you. You never know it may be the greatest thing ever or on the other hand it may suck ***. The point is youll never know unless you try. The decision is yours but that also means the consequences are yours as well, choose well and good luck :)

like asking a priest if is ok to believe in god...

not OK. Guess is like being bi-polar

I never said I have a problem with gays I have friends that are gay. Hell my ex daughter in-law is bi. I have had room mates in my younger days that were gay. I work with those that are gay...

What I have a problem with is one not being honest of who they are!!!

One only lives life once don't hide who you are or your feelings with those around you it could only fail in the end....

And if it is the one your in a relationship with that is just so wrong soooooooo many ways to the one that has given their heart..

I suppose- point taken.

bi polar......... seriously???

good experiences/bad experiences?????????????