...you're on the edge of a giant chasm in life's landscape, and you can see where ya need to go but there doesn't seem to be a way to span the rift? You're sure that if you take a running giant leap of faith, you're likely to plummet to your death on the rocks below, but the road here's been hard so there's no turning back and what awaits on the other side draws you like a moth to flame...what do ya do?

story of my life...wish I had answers! :(

life is full of those times. if i feel i can't make the jump, i get friends. sometimes it only takes one. sometimes it takes everyone i know and their friends too. you don't have to go through life alone. if all else fails, i cheat hee hee

Anybody who believes life is supposed to be easy is lying to themselves. As for the giant chasm, life is full of challenges, and how your life goes will depend on what you do when you face adversity. I'm a firm believer that there is a solution to every problem you face in this world, you just have to be willing to take the risk, put forth the effort, and stay steadfast in your resolve. As for crossing the proverbial chasm(s) that lay in front of you... Find a proverbial tree, build yourself a bridge, and cross safely, but always remember what you had to do to make it, because one day you'll have to do it again but learning along the way makes the next challenge a little bit easier.

Yeah, what they said....and build a bridge...go around...climb down and climb up the other side...there are many ways to span the gap...just don't forget to enjoy the ride


I feel like that whenever I come to a crossroad...

I trust in God, and He has never let me down.

The night is always darkest before the dawn. Think about that for a moment. Even when we are at are weakest, our bleakest....when we just feel there is no way out or we feel so trapped....there is always another path.

One person mentioned life isn't easy. I feel we all know this. But, it doesn't take away from the fact that when those tough times happen, it drains us. I think that when you hit the point where you see where you need to go, but you feel you can't get there, you need to step back, clear your mind, and really pay attention to detail.

Sometimes we blind ourselves by not really seeing the possibilities. We hold ourselves back. Why? Maybe we have to sacrifice things we don't want to in order to achieve the goal. Maybe we are just too stubborn. It can be many things. But, I believe the answer is always out there.

Sure do constantly.

go to mcdonald's for a shamrock shake

any time I am not sure what to do I do nuthin

Agreed 100%

Sometimes things get too overwhelming to deal with them alone.

Talk to your friends and your family.

Don't isolate yourself.

Seek communication, advice, hugs, kisses and love

Remember that there's always someone out there that loves you.

Yes.

move towards the flame like a moth..there is a reason for the pull.

You guys build your bridges...

I will just climb down then climb up the other side...sure its the hard way but, it has worked for me so far.

Meet you guys and dolls on the other side.

I can't see the way to span the rift, because I am spending too much time looking at the otherside..as soon as I change my perspective, I can see the trail down the sheer cliffs on this side...what I didn't realise is that on the huge chasm floor, hidden from the cliff's edge, are the most amazing, and inspiring moments waiting for me to get there.

The other side looks too sheer to climb, from up here, way over the other side...it's an illusion of course....and is easily traversed, after meandering through the chasm floor's awesome moments.

The more I say I can't... I convince myself it is not possible...really all I am saying is...I don't want to do the work.

It is a whole different view from the bottom of Lifes canyons....lets you know to climb.

I watch Indiana Jones and The Last Crusade through my mind's eye...

sit back, smoke another doob and think about it for a while...

That's what I do, too.

Probably why I think you are soooo freeking sexi.

(plus I have a real fetish for short haired chicks...)

I like it when people just suck it up, take the hard times and come through on the other side with a gleaming smile.

To me, that is sexy.

I couldn't agree more.

Except for the part about having a fetish for short haired chicks.