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I've always heard guys say that they would rather get a reply back from a girl letting them know that they're not interested in them, rather than not getting a reply back at all.
From my experience, even with a nice simple reply that I'm not interested, the guy gets butt hurt and replies back angrily 
What's a girl to do? 
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That's the thing.
Damned if you do. And damned if you don't. So don't. |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Tue 03/22/11 01:22 PM
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I dont.
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I never get hurt either way. I let them know I am interested and if I dont get a response then so be it. I will give it a few days and give up. Even the ones that do respond back with they are not interested gains my respect and I don't have to wait a few days. Those are removed immediately out of courtesy.
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I never get hurt either way. I let them know I am interested and if I dont get a response then so be it. I will give it a few days and give up. Even the ones that do respond back with they are not interested gains my respect and I don't have to wait a few days. Those are removed immediately out of courtesy.
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Tue 03/22/11 01:27 PM
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I've always heard guys say that they would rather get a reply back from a girl letting them know that they're not interested in them, rather than not getting a reply back at all.
From my experience, even with a nice simple reply that I'm not interested, the guy gets butt hurt and replies back angrily
What's a girl to do?
Well said and TRUE!!!!!
Kinda makes you want to hide...in a Clown mask 
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Im kind of old school
no answer IS an answer |
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I always reply back...either way...and if I'm not interested..I tell them nicely. I've never gotten a hurtful answer back.
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I quit that after several idiots trying to convince me that they could change my mind...If I am not interested now, there's not much you can do to change it!
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I've always heard guys say that they would rather get a reply back from a girl letting them know that they're not interested in them, rather than not getting a reply back at all.
From my experience, even with a nice simple reply that I'm not interested, the guy gets butt hurt and replies back angrily
What's a girl to do?
i'm not sure, you never answered me back 
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I like to reply to everyone, except the totally stu[pid ones asking me for sex or naked photos. those I block.
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Edited by
indianadave4
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Tue 03/22/11 05:08 PM
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If you are at a dance and a man winks at you but you are not interested do you walk over and say, "thank but I'm not interesed"? No, you turn to your friends and ignore him. Same rules should apply here: no answer is an answer. Especially since some people get upset.
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the difference being irl a man can SEE if a woman is not interested.
just like when someone dials a wrong telephone number, a simple "i'm sorry i must have dialed incorrectly" is appreciated, instead of a hang up |
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If you are at a dance and a man winks at you but you are not interested do you walk over and say, "thank but I'm not interesed"? No, you turn to your friends and ignore him. Same rules should apply here: no answer is an answer. Especially since some people get upset. no i would smile and chat, even if i wasnt interested, I couldnt be rude 
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the difference being irl a man can SEE if a woman is not interested. just like when someone dials a wrong telephone number, a simple "i'm sorry i must have dialed incorrectly" is appreciated, instead of a hang up i love wrong numbers, you meet so many interesting people that way.. i wouldnt think to hang up, |
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I usually reply. Sometimes they get angry and insulting. Those kind of guys usually show what they're like pretty quickly.
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Most the time I reply but at times it gets old and the e-mails don't make any sense or I get tired of explaining why I will not do a LDR.......
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I've always heard guys say that they would rather get a reply back from a girl letting them know that they're not interested in them, rather than not getting a reply back at all.
From my experience, even with a nice simple reply that I'm not interested, the guy gets butt hurt and replies back angrily
What's a girl to do?
Either way, I don't take it personal, and neither should you. |
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That's the thing. Damned if you do. And damned if you don't. So don't. A-freaking-men!!!!! Doesn't matter if you are nice, polite or even biotchy about it......they always get butt hurt about it....best policy No Reply.....then you never have to use the block/delete option! 
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If you are at a dance and a man winks at you but you are not interested do you walk over and say, "thank but I'm not interesed"? No, you turn to your friends and ignore him. Same rules should apply here: no answer is an answer. Especially since some people get upset. no i would smile and chat, even if i wasnt interested, I couldnt be rude
That could send mixed signals though. |
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