Topic: What do you like about living alone?
msharmony's photo
Fri 03/11/11 01:02 AM

:heart: truly,,I don't think any of us really like being,,or living alone..
SURE,,THATS much better than,,,being with someone you have grown to hate,,,BUT,,really,,I think we SAY THAT,,but truth be known,,we would prefer,,a SOMEONE to share time,and talk, and making love to..

And ALONE,,is SINGLE...as ONE,,
SURE,,one can oder out ANY THING for the night,,but WAKING WITH,,and KNOWING you have each other,,PRICE-LESS!!!!:wink: :heart:


I've lived in marriage most of my life,,now being single,,IT SUCKS,,but it is BETTER than TRYING to love and feel their love in return,,when the love,,,is gone..smokin



I have to say, I really DID like living alone. That doesnt require me to not have PEOPLE in my life though. I am extremely hypersensitive to the moods of those around me,, to the point that it truly is more uncomfortable for me the more people are around unless it is a specifically JOYOUS occasion. I breathe alot easier when I am alone than when I am absorbing the stresses and moods of other people.

seamac's photo
Fri 03/11/11 02:47 PM
I have lived alone for over five years now and can't picture any other way, especially in my little house. I am surrounded by the things I like most, I can come and go as I please and I am never surprised by what the house looks like when I return. If I leave dishes, there they are, if I don't then there aren't any. If I save a special treat
for myself no one else eats it.

I loved being married, loved my late husband, enjoyed raising our boys and opening our home to my Nana for the last nine years of her life. Now I like my privacy, peace and quiet.

When I want together time there is usually a friend or my folks to enjoy being with.

I grew up with 10 siblings so peace and quiet were just words!!

Lili_M's photo
Fri 03/11/11 06:25 PM
Edited by Lili_M on Fri 03/11/11 06:58 PM
I like living alone because when I get tired of people I can just close the door.

I also like that when I put something somewhere it is still in the same place when I get back to it...use to drive me crazy looking for a pair of scissors...when my kids were growing up

I can be a slob if I want to...cook if I want to...or eat froot loops for dinner...no one to complain

ahhhhhh

Freedom

I forgot this one
if I want to blow my food budget on a new leather coat or a fabulous pair of boots I can...thus the froot loops for dinner...oh well

navygirl's photo
Fri 03/11/11 09:13 PM

I lived with so many other people (family, friends, significant other) for so many years that now I really enjoy my solitude!

I like....being able to wear what I want when I want, eat or sleep when it is convenient for me, enjoy peace & quiet time (this one is my favorite), to not have a particular spot to sit when lounging in the living room, my dogs sleeping with me if they want!

What do you enjoy about being alone?



I like that my house is spotless and I can run around in the nude.

no photo
Fri 03/11/11 09:19 PM



in all my life i never have. i'm gonna go right now and drink straight from the carton just for a cheap thrill!!


then ya hold the carton in one hand and line dance to Al Green - in jammies

living alone has great moments!


well shoot sweetest, i could have used that info 10 minutes ago! now i'm gonna have to go it again! laugh


Al Green will wait for ya

he is The Reverend - afterall

line dance to your heart's content - left-right-spin-dip-turn- do it againlaugh

fireflysgirl's photo
Fri 03/11/11 09:44 PM

:heart: truly,,I don't think any of us really like being,,or living alone..
SURE,,THATS much better than,,,being with someone you have grown to hate,,,BUT,,really,,I think we SAY THAT,,but truth be known,,we would prefer,,a SOMEONE to share time,and talk, and making love to..

And ALONE,,is SINGLE...as ONE,,
SURE,,one can oder out ANY THING for the night,,but WAKING WITH,,and KNOWING you have each other,,PRICE-LESS!!!!:wink: :heart:


I've lived in marriage most of my life,,now being single,,IT SUCKS,,but it is BETTER than TRYING to love and feel their love in return,,when the love,,,is gone..smokin


Yes you are right...but throughout my marriage we lived alone together for only a few months! The rest of the time we had some friend or family member living with us. When he went to prison I had to move in with a friend & by the time I moved away for grad school, I ended up in a relationship that I should have never been in! I didn't realize at the time how stressed one person could make you, especially when the idea is that having someone to love you should make your life easier!
IME..this is the opposite...relationships complicate everything & I don't feel I should have to struggle to just be happy!

I am so happy to be living alone at this point in my life it is nearly overwhelming!!! I have always had to put the needs of others before mine & it may sound selfish to say such a thing, but not one of those people were striving to better their lives like I was.

Yes...I would prefer to have someone to share & love with, but NOW...I need time to work on me without having to be responsible for others.

As msharmony stated...so much less stressed! This is what I needed now to grow into what I have been working towards becoming for the last 10 years!

Lili...I had chocolate pudding with fresh strawberries & blueberries for donner the other night & it was amazing!


KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 03/12/11 05:52 PM
There's a few good sides to being single.....

You don't have to put up with anyone snoring

You don't have to pick up after anyone

You never wonder what happened to the gas in the car
:banana:

heavenlyboy34's photo
Sat 03/12/11 09:35 PM
I haven't lived alone yet, but I really want to for a while. I've had enough of dealing with other people's drama and BS. frustrated

DJL1's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:29 AM
Living alone has many great points, as already stated...but I think if you found the "right" person living together would be a different experience. Perhaps, most of us have never experienced our true soul mate.

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:12 AM
Always being able to find my socks, right there on the floor where I left them, next to my underwear.

no photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:20 AM

I lived with so many other people (family, friends, significant other) for so many years that now I really enjoy my solitude!

I like....being able to wear what I want when I want, eat or sleep when it is convenient for me, enjoy peace & quiet time (this one is my favorite), to not have a particular spot to sit when lounging in the living room, my dogs sleeping with me if they want!

What do you enjoy about being alone?



Nobody trying to change me....

reborn3501's photo
Sun 03/13/11 09:05 AM
Can watch sports with no problems

fireflysgirl's photo
Sun 03/13/11 12:33 PM

Living alone has many great points, as already stated...but I think if you found the "right" person living together would be a different experience. Perhaps, most of us have never experienced our true soul mate.



Yes...I never had a problem living with my soulmate, but his family....add random curse words here!!

For now I am enjoying my bayou-self time bigsmile

no photo
Sun 03/27/11 08:34 PM
Not having to worry about smelling up the bathroom. Or closing the door.

no photo
Sun 03/27/11 08:44 PM
You can walk around naked whenever you want.

no photo
Mon 03/28/11 03:25 AM
I'm not required to do anything I don't want to do.

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Mon 03/28/11 10:35 PM
I like the freedom of doing what I want, when I want with no one to answer to. Yeah living alone gets lonely but it also beats the heck out of planning your day for someone else, if I want to take my shoes off in the living room they can just stay there till I wear that pair again, if I don't want to do dishes then I don't............

mscherbear's photo
Mon 03/28/11 10:55 PM

Always being able to find my socks, right there on the floor where I left them, next to my underwear.


Lucky you! I live alone and STILL can't find my stuff half the time! slaphead

no photo
Mon 03/28/11 11:10 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Mon 03/28/11 11:19 PM




explode

mad

rant

frustrated



what

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Tue 03/29/11 08:12 AM
I love everything about living alone. It took a little getting use to at first but I really enjoy it now!