Depends on what you like. What do you like?

It should never be what i like ... Sex is an Intimate encounter between two or more people ...

Bingo! It's intimacy, not an athletic competition.

Sex is play not work ...

depends on if the yoyo is resting, or going around the world

I think we're on the same page, maybe, but with a 45 year difference.

Your age don't scare me i could be twice as smart as the next person .....


Lack of sex drive in women (lack of libido)

Lack of sex drive (lack of libido) is common in women, but quite rare in men.
Many of these women have no problems with having orgasms. Rather, they have no real desire to have sex and their minds are not turned on by the prospect of love-making.

A man wonders if having sex on the Sabbath is a sin because
he is not sure if sex is work or play. So he goes to a
priest and asks for his opinion on this question.

After consulting the Bible, the priest says, "My son, after
an exhaustive search, I am positive that sex is work and is
therefore not permitted on Sundays."

The man thinks: "What does a priest know about sex?" So he
goes to a minister, who after all is a married man and
experienced in this matter. He queries the minister and
receives the same reply. "Sex is work and therefore not
for the Sabbath!"

Not pleased with the reply, he seeks out a Rabbi, a man of
thousands of year's tradition and knowledge. The Rabbi
ponders the question, then states," My son, sex is
definitely play."

The man replies, "Rabbi, how can you be so sure when so
many others tell me sex is work?"

The Rabbi softly speaks, "My son, if sex were work, my
wife would have the maid do it."

i guess this.. it should not matter what your ex thought, she is your ex. and i would think talking about sex with your ex, to a new gal would be a total turn off for me.. JMO..which makes me wonder about this new gal you are dating.. to me i would wonder if she is desperate to get your attention or somehow is comparing herself to your ex to feel better about herself. sounds pretty freaky to me..

sorry but sounds to me she is working the puddy to manipulate your mind thats all im saying

Sex is mostly in our mind,,,

what we experience that we like, can quickly be deleted by what we have experienced that we didnt like and the whole psychological profile of SEX that exists in our head can be affected either way,,

if we are raised thinking sex is nasty and find that we enjoy it, we may make sex itself enjoyable in our mind regardless of the physics

likewise if we are raised thinking sex is glorious and we have bad experiences initially, we may make sex itself repuslive in our mind regardless of the physics

sex is really about knowing your partner, if we were all blind, we could be sexually satisfied by ANYONE capable of such a task, but our minds tell us how to feel instead of our bodies , and there in lies our limits

That . . . is a great post!

Hey Button i agree .... hugs how are you ?

To be real with you here,,there CAN be many,,many reason,,why SHE LOST HER DRIVE,,Menopause, new meds, depression, a lack by you to MAKE CHANGE,,in your romance and your sexual time spent together.
No women wants to stay stagnant with her fulfilment of ecstasy, as in saying,,,IF its ALWAYS text book sex,,YOUR SAME,,EVERYTIME,,then it gets BORING,,and its NOT FELT to be ANYTHING,,,she really WANTS TO DO,,because IT NEVER CHANGES? She KNOWS WHAT SHE IS IN FOR,,and BLAW,,,as its just not NEW---EXCITING, DIFFERENT, -----
Many factors can come between you both..
ONE BIGGY,,is for her to have played around with someone out of your marriage and THATS her NOW TURN-ON,,because,,of ALL I mentioned above,,HE could be smaller than you,,DK SIZE,,and older
or down right homely looking,,,BUT--SHE SEE'S HIM AS NEW, FRESH, EXCITING, ,,,,,WHY?,,,Because HE IS SHOWING HER,,,ALL OF THAT "ABOUT HER",,,,Just a THOUGHT as I know THIS ONE,,,as I had mine cheat on me for years,,,,reasoning, I was not home as often as she needed me to be there for her,,,so the love dropped off,,and her sex drive,,,went higher,,,her love was not,,a real love to start with,wink..
I can just lastly say, as to the one you said, told you she treated you the way YOU should have been treated,,by your ex,,,well,,
You see,,,YOU SIR,,,were NEW to that woman,,,and SHE was able to feel all that COOL through you,,because of THAT,,,
In twenty years from NOW,,if you both were together,,SHE also might be just like your ex now is?
So,,,everything that TWO people WANT TO FIND "IN" EACH OTHER,,
will be found IF YOUR BOTH ALWAYS ON THE SAME PAGE TO KNOW..
and love-making,,,,can ALWAYS be BROUGHT UP HIGHER in its feelings between two people,,if THEY BOTH WANT TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN..
But IF,,,the LOVE dies in one of them BEFORE wanting to TRY AND FIX THAT,,,,then its viewed by the other as to late,,,and they can't get it back,,,mostly,,,because THEY have someone else already in mind,,who is NOW,,,their hottie.....
This is ALL,,only from my life lived,,and talking with women all my life,,,who,,,have felt these feelings...

true that...
and hopefully practice
has payed off for both of us

now if THAT doesn't Rummple my Foreskin?

I ask 4(four) person and they Agree


N.B
The Question i asked in my Earlier Post is a General Question ,Sorry if i Offended Anyone , it was not my intention to , Just an Honest question

How could you offend anyone?

Guess you will never know the Answer to some things ...


Back to the topic at hand ....

Q. Porn and Relationship

What are your views on this ....