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The impossible wish is to undo all the mistakes I've made in my life. I wonder if there would be a surprise, like in It's a Wonderful Life.
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Statistics indicate that many men like porn of some sort or another. Their arousal is linked to images, and from their teens they are likely to masturbate while looking at pictures of female bodies.
Lots of men use porn for quick masturbation – and this can happen even if they are in a sexually satisfying relationship. Some women have a problem with a man seeking solo relief, but huge numbers of normally-sexed men do this routinely. Like everything else its has it's Disadvantages ... |
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That's probably a true fact, Kiss. Al Franken had an amusing statistic. Some high % of pay-per-view movies order in hotels and motels are porno. The average time they stay on is something like 3 minutes.
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i guess this.. it should not matter what your ex thought, she is your ex. and i would think talking about sex with your ex, to a new gal would be a total turn off for me.. JMO..which makes me wonder about this new gal you are dating.. to me i would wonder if she is desperate to get your attention or somehow is comparing herself to your ex to feel better about herself. sounds pretty freaky to me.. I didn't talk to the new girl about my sex life with my ex. Well, no that isn't right, I did. But that wasn't the past I was talking about. But with her, I meshed well because she had a similarly troubled past. I told her once that we work well together because we are both screwed up in the same direction. 
We both knew all of each others deepest darkest secrets. We essentially helped each other accept and resolve our past. She told me some things she never told anyone else. When I talked about my ex with her, it was her curiosity as to why we were divorced. She accepted what I said about that as caring and thoughtful as she was about anything else. She was a great gal, unfortunately we were headed in different directions. |
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That's probably a true fact, Kiss. Al Franken had an amusing statistic. Some high % of pay-per-view movies order in hotels and motels are porno. The average time they stay on is something like 3 minutes. |
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Statistics indicate that many men like porn of some sort or another. Their arousal is linked to images, and from their teens they are likely to masturbate while looking at pictures of female bodies. Lots of men use porn for quick masturbation – and this can happen even if they are in a sexually satisfying relationship. Some women have a problem with a man seeking solo relief, but huge numbers of normally-sexed men do this routinely. Like everything else its has it's Disadvantages ... Yes, all men are turned on by images. That is why they want to see their woman. 
What I was saying is there are some people that have addictive personalities. For men that have this, porn can become an addiction for them. They will look to porn over their girl after awhile. Porn is a fantasy of the mind. It plays into the desires you have. You can go anywhere on the web and find exactly what you are looking for that will turn you on at that moment. But the girl you are with, she is the girl you are with. She may be wonderful, but doesn't fill what you are looking for at that moment. That is the problem with porn. At that point, rather than sharing an intimate moment with the woman you are with, you share it with what? A computer? A TV? A Magazine? How in the world is that better for a relationship? There are some people that say porn can be good for a relationship. Adds spice or whatever. My question is: How does it add spice without harming the relationship? Even if both partners are equally turned on, they are partially (at least) turned on by some electronic medium. Now what you said in an earlier post most likely will add spice to a relationship. Reading an erotic story to your mate. Especially an erotic story you wrote!  That would be adding a level of intimacy that otherwise would not be there. 
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G'night, luv.
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Sex is overrated Obviously, you haven't had someone do it right or you were with a real a**hole who knew what he was doing and then treated you like dirt. A meeting of the minds is a wonderful thing and when you find the right person, the meeting of the bodies is pretty good too. But a meeting of both is FAN-F*CKING-TASTIC! |
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Porn? It's the movies. It's all a product of some screenwriter's over-active imagination. Nothing against it, but it's a terrible thing to measure one's own life against. yes, if normal is loving and supportive and not a risk to ones physical health,,lol just WATCHING porn, is similar to watching any type of fiction, IMHO, its just a matter of entertainment preferences,,, if its used as a compliment to whats already there, it shouldnt be a problem if its used to REPLACE whats not there, thats a different story Really good point. However, I believe for some men Porn is actually going to hurt their relationship. They will want the fantasy. And even if the actress was in their life, they still would not get the fantasy. Then they will take their girl for granted. There is only one way that relationship will go unless porn is ditched. As far as my personal life, I have come to realize what is and is not important. I have accepted my faults and dealt with them. They are part of what makes me who I am today. I wouldn't be who I am if I didn't have my past and I really like who I am today. Someone asked me recently if I had three wishes what would I wish for. When I gave this serious consideration I realized there is nothing, absolutely nothing I would wish for. As I said, my past is part of who I am today. The standard wish is to go back to a time before you made your stupid choices with the knowledge and wisdom you have today. When I really thought about that, I realized there were some very important life decisions that I made that I would change if I went back to relive it. And not only bad choices I would want to undo, but some very positive opportunities I deliberately passed by. If I went back knowing what I know today, I would change all that. I would behave much differently than I did the first time around. This would change the way I am viewed by others which would in turn completely change my personal interactions. Even if I still remembered what I feel like today, I wouldn't be accepted as who I am now. I would be a different person to everyone around me. Don't know how that would change my life to the current day, but I know there are some points that I am very proud of that would no longer exist if I went back to relive it. So, no wishing to change the past. ok, what about right now? How about wishing for a billion dollars, or fame or respect or power or ... You know what? Wishing for any of those and being granted that wish would be very hollow to me. I did nothing to earn what I would be given. Just a thought is all it takes to give me all I would want in my life. How boring would that be. No living and adventure to get there. Meet someone new they ask: "How did you get to where you are today?" What's the answer? I wished it and it came true? Or make up some fantastic tale where you know you are lying? No wishes for me, thank you. Curious, what do others think about wishes... I have had plenty of experiences and money would not inhabit my ability to continue having experiences that enrich me yeah, A billion dollars would be a good start, so I could STOP worrying about financial obligations and working for someone else and focus my energy more on the things that matter, like family and community |
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Truthfully the right partner can get you over any past issues.
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You are absolutely right.
Just have to find the right one that will stick around for awhile. 
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Really good point. However, I believe for some men Porn is actually going to hurt their relationship. They will want the fantasy. And even if the actress was in their life, they still would not get the fantasy. Then they will take their girl for granted. There is only one way that relationship will go unless porn is ditched. There's nothing wrong with a bit of fantasy. It can make things more interesting. Porn can help spice things up a bit as well. |
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There was a program about Porn stars I watched a while ago. There was a very hot guy who had a really hard time finding a real girlfriend.
He said all the girls that wanted him just wanted to have sex with him like they do in the pornos. He said that wasn't real sex, he doesn't want to shag a woman, he wants to make love to her. I felt really sorry for him, he seemed pretty down about life! I'de have his babies. |
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There was a program about Porn stars I watched a while ago. There was a very hot guy who had a really hard time finding a real girlfriend. He said all the girls that wanted him just wanted to have sex with him like they do in the pornos. He said that wasn't real sex, he doesn't want to shag a woman, he wants to make love to her. I felt really sorry for him, he seemed pretty down about life! I'de have his babies. 
That is funny!!!! The last line just takes the cake! 
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