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hi all over the 8 ish years i have been dateing i have found that i cant say no to a GF and when i do its never in the right way.
Please ladies help me how can i say no to things i really dont like without her getting upset or mad? Any help would be great |
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maybe by suggesting something you know you could both agree on?
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OK OK OK here's what ya do personal quote of mine
When i know your wrong i'll say your right and when i wanna say no i'll say i might 
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OK OK OK here's what ya do personal quote of mine When i know your wrong i'll say your right and when i wanna say no i'll say i might good one being she knows i say "you say no but i only hear maybe." the things we do togeather are great its just things like she wants me to do parrashhoting an im really really scaired of hights and im finding it hard to tell her how bad my phobia is as im really really pathetic when i loose it with hights. but t would be nice to know how to say no because i have a tendency to always go along with things always have but now i wanna be me a little if you know what i mean lol |
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OK OK OK here's what ya do personal quote of mine When i know your wrong i'll say your right and when i wanna say no i'll say i might good one being she knows i say "you say no but i only hear maybe." the things we do togeather are great its just things like she wants me to do parrashhoting an im really really scaired of hights and im finding it hard to tell her how bad my phobia is as im really really pathetic when i loose it with hights. but t would be nice to know how to say no because i have a tendency to always go along with things always have but now i wanna be me a little if you know what i mean lol ^this I can help with....repeat after me loudly...."Aww HELL NAW...I am NOT jumping outta a plane that is completely functional, make one of your friends go with you for that!" LOL-I don't do chit like that either man! |
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good one being she knows i say "you say no but i only hear maybe." the things we do togeather are great its just things like she wants me to do parrashhoting an im really really scaired of hights and im finding it hard to tell her how bad my phobia is as im really really pathetic when i loose it with hights. but t would be nice to know how to say no because i have a tendency to always go along with things always have but now i wanna be me a little if you know what i mean lol Geez dude, just say 'No thank you.' If she wanted to join the army and serve on the front lines would you just go along? 'Don't complain, don't explain.' |
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How about, I love you but forget it , Im not that stupid.. Or I just dont want to do it, but you can... Or No babe, not right now.. Not exactly sure why a girl would get upset about a no...
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dont thing breaking a plane just to get me to jump is the right way lol.
i know she wants me to do it so i kan prove i trust her but im still really really scaired about it lol |
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Geez dude, just say 'No thank you.' If she wanted to join the army and serve on the front lines would you just go along? 'Don't complain, don't explain.' she is a frontline soldier lol |
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You should never be expected to do things you don't like & especially things you have a phobia over. If it's a deal breaker then maybe she isn't the right woman. I'd respect a man for telling me he's uncomfortable with doing something I like to do. I'd look into other things we both enjoyed.
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OK OK OK here's what ya do personal quote of mine When i know your wrong i'll say your right and when i wanna say no i'll say i might good one being she knows i say "you say no but i only hear maybe." the things we do togeather are great its just things like she wants me to do parrashhoting an im really really scaired of hights and im finding it hard to tell her how bad my phobia is as im really really pathetic when i loose it with hights. but t would be nice to know how to say no because i have a tendency to always go along with things always have but now i wanna be me a little if you know what i mean lol A simple "no, I am not interested in doing that" should get the point across. |
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You should never be expected to do things you don't like & especially things you have a phobia over. If it's a deal breaker then maybe she isn't the right woman. I'd respect a man for telling me he's uncomfortable with doing something I like to do. I'd look into other things we both enjoyed. its not a deal breaker this is a example. its other things aswell obviously i will do things i dont like but i dont like letting people down i feel bad for like a week after. |
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You should never be expected to do things you don't like & especially things you have a phobia over. If it's a deal breaker then maybe she isn't the right woman. I'd respect a man for telling me he's uncomfortable with doing something I like to do. I'd look into other things we both enjoyed. its not a deal breaker this is a example. its other things aswell obviously i will do things i dont like but i dont like letting people down i feel bad for like a week after. You know what? You need to just stop it!!! I'm serious. I was married for 21 years & I was the one who always went along with whatever he wanted. In the end I lost sight of who I really was. Now, I started tending to do this with my current BF because I'm so used to doing it & he get's onto me & tells me I need to be more outspoken & not always agree with everything. He realized right off the bat that I was too agreeable. You can't make yourself suffer to make everyone else happy. |
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You should never be expected to do things you don't like & especially things you have a phobia over. If it's a deal breaker then maybe she isn't the right woman. I'd respect a man for telling me he's uncomfortable with doing something I like to do. I'd look into other things we both enjoyed. its not a deal breaker this is a example. its other things aswell obviously i will do things i dont like but i dont like letting people down i feel bad for like a week after. You know what? You need to just stop it!!! I'm serious. I was married for 21 years & I was the one who always went along with whatever he wanted. In the end I lost sight of who I really was. Now, I started tending to do this with my current BF because I'm so used to doing it & he get's onto me & tells me I need to be more outspoken & not always agree with everything. He realized right off the bat that I was too agreeable. You can't make yourself suffer to make everyone else happy. Me to, if you just make everyone else happy , you end up having no idea who you really are anymore, then they will eventually get tired of it and you will end up alone and have no idea who you are or what you want.. So be yourself, let her love the man you are, say no and be completely truthful, If she cannot accept you for that and respect your wishes, then find someone who will and who can love you.. Believe me loving someone who lets you be yourself, no matter how dumb, clumsy, annoying, or special you are is the best love you can find. Don live with anything less |
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I told Eileen that I wanted us to go skydiving. I can't wait to do it. She told me in a real matter of fact voice that she would be waiting on the ground for me. I wasn't mad at all, and she got her point across.
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My mama told when I first got married that if your girl makes something for dinner you don't like don't tell her you like it. Otherwise you will be eating that crap all the time.........
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man up bro. get your scary azz up on that airplane and get your chute on. then when she stands up at the jump zone, push her out of the aircraft and enjoy the rest of the ride. once you land she will have had ample time during the freefall to realize you are serious about not jumping (side note, be sure to tether yourself to the aircraft before you attempt pushing her out, she might over power you and throw you out)
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man up bro. get your scary azz up on that airplane and get your chute on. then when she stands up at the jump zone, push her out of the aircraft and enjoy the rest of the ride. once you land she will have had ample time during the freefall to realize you are serious about not jumping (side note, be sure to tether yourself to the aircraft before you attempt pushing her out, she might over power you and throw you out) Hell, even I like that idea!!! 
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My mama told when I first got married that if your girl makes something for dinner you don't like don't tell her you like it. Otherwise you will be eating that crap all the time.........  that's what I tell my son, too! |
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