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Topic: Approachable?
gummykiss's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:17 PM
What "hints" can a girl give a guy for him to be encouraged to approach her?

I was out with some friends and my friends friend kept staring at me, but he never came over to say anything to me. Then later that night after I left, he sends me a message on Facebook telling me he thought I was cute but he didn't have enough courage to approach me.

I don't want to make the first move, so I'd like to know what I can do to give a guy a "it's ok, I wont reject you" hint lol

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Sun 01/16/11 08:21 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Sun 01/16/11 08:22 PM
make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:22 PM
Make a cute face at him a lot like your pic on here... That would be enough to make me approach you. Just make sure he knows that face is meant just for him.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:25 PM

make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck


^^^^^^^^^That boy just ain't right......

gummykiss's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:29 PM

make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck


Lmao. I will for sure keep this in mind next time.

Make a cute face at him a lot like your pic on here... That would be enough to make me approach you. Just make sure he knows that face is meant just for him.


I've actually tried this before. He walked towards me, but kept walking =/ I guess at that point it's safe to assume he's not interested.

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Sun 01/16/11 08:31 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Sun 01/16/11 08:31 PM



Make a cute face at him a lot like your pic on here... That would be enough to make me approach you. Just make sure he knows that face is meant just for him.


I've actually tried this before. He walked towards me, but kept walking =/ I guess at that point it's safe to assume he's not interested.


invest in a bullhorn, you'll meet plenty of guys bigsmile

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:31 PM


make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck


^^^^^^^^^That boy just ain't right......


He forgot to mention a knee in the balls ... us guys LOVE that!

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Sun 01/16/11 08:32 PM

make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck


I think that's too subtle ese

give some suggestions with some meat to them

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Sun 01/16/11 08:34 PM


make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck


I think that's too subtle ese

give some suggestions with some meat to them


dagnabit you sure are right sweetest. i forgot about the bacon

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:36 PM
I don't understand anything about men so I don't know.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:37 PM



make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck


I think that's too subtle ese

give some suggestions with some meat to them


dagnabit you sure are right sweetest. i forgot about the bacon


Lmao at least that is better then talking about sausage :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:39 PM

I don't understand anything about men so I don't know.


Don't feel bad for most the time I would rather them approach me and well guess I'm unapproachable either that or I give them the evil eye and they are scared to....slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:58 PM
Hi always worked surprised shocked

ValentinaSS's photo
Sun 01/16/11 09:07 PM
gummykiss u look brave, make the first move girl, it`s not so tough!

gummykiss's photo
Sun 01/16/11 09:40 PM

gummykiss u look brave, make the first move girl, it`s not so tough!


It's not that I'm not brave lol The way I see it, if I do, I'll always be having to make the first move for everything from there on. I speak from experience. slaphead


dagnabit you sure are right sweetest. i forgot about the bacon


I'll make sure to make a necklace out of bacon and wear it when I go out! shades

I don't understand anything about men so I don't know.
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Sun 01/16/11 09:44 PM

What "hints" can a girl give a guy for him to be encouraged to approach her?

I was out with some friends and my friends friend kept staring at me, but he never came over to say anything to me. Then later that night after I left, he sends me a message on Facebook telling me he thought I was cute but he didn't have enough courage to approach me.

I don't want to make the first move, so I'd like to know what I can do to give a guy a "it's ok, I wont reject you" hint lol



Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 01/17/11 05:24 PM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Mon 01/17/11 05:34 PM
It's 2011 these women out here be aggressive aian't 1980 no more laugh

go talk to him cause there's plenty that will step up to the plate

jmo anyway drinker





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Mon 01/17/11 05:31 PM

What "hints" can a girl give a guy for him to be encouraged to approach her?


I don't think there's anything she could do to get me to approach her first. I just don't approach anybody first.

Maybe I would if I saw her walking around with one of my books. That's a fairly safe lead-in. On the other hand, I've read Stephen King's "Misery" so maybe that's not such a good idea.

But I've had women come up to me in venues like the mall or a carnival and just start a conversation. I prefer it that way.









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Mon 01/17/11 06:14 PM
Alright. Now, school is in session. Goof will help you out with excellent tips. And, it's for free. :thumbsup:

First of all, you have to know yourself. You can't go out doing a "fake" face to signal to the dude that "Yeah. I am giving you the ok to have the sac to approach me". You must be genuine. So, with that said, if you can do a good "sexy, suttle stare" face (which is a BIG sign to all men that "chick digs me"), then master this. I do caution though that you must make sure that the dude you want to see this face does, in fact, see it. You don't want the dude sitting next to him reading the face, and then you have to reject him. Not good. Also, even when you do this face right, send it to the right guy, the dude may want to play cool. If that happens, you have two options. Either give a little, casual lip pout (guys go ga-ga for this), or move to the next guy.

If you can do the "I am a shy, little girl, but damn it! I am cute" face, then go this route. Women who have the cute smile, cute dimples typically can do this face. But, all women can do it if they can pull of being cute very well. Now, sadly, not all guys are into this face, so there are risks. Still, if this is more you, then you gotta go this route. Once the face hits the right guy, he will be puddy in your hands. Typically, the "bad boys" don't much like this face. But, some have been known to be susceptible. Mostly, the business dudes, geeks, nice blue collar dudes like this face. Avoid lawyers with face, as they might want to give you a polygraph to see if you really are a cute face girl.

And lastly, we have the slut face. Now, a good portion of women tend to want to use this face because the general consensus is that men love it. Well, most guys do love this face, but since sexy face has become more prevelant lately, this face has fallen in percentile amongst men. That being said, this is still THE FACE to get a guy's attention....or scare him away with a mad boner. Henceforth, you must use suttleness with this face. The slut look is simply this. The eyes focus on the man for about five seconds, and then a slow lick of the lips occurs. Notice I said you must make eye contact. This is key. The man must know he is the one you want. Yeah, I know, this is being aggressive on your part, but come on. Help a dude out a little bit. I only recommend using this face on men you know you truely want to talk to. Might sound like giving mixed signals, or saying you are easy. But really. Deep down. You wanted his attention and now you have it. Mission successful.

Now. Go forth. Choose a face and drive men crazy. Thank me later when you are sitting on a beach with a millionaire boyfriend and a hot looking pool boy on the side. I am all knowing. Haha!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:26 PM

Alright. Now, school is in session. Goof will help you out with excellent tips. And, it's for free. :thumbsup:

First of all, you have to know yourself. You can't go out doing a "fake" face to signal to the dude that "Yeah. I am giving you the ok to have the sac to approach me". You must be genuine. So, with that said, if you can do a good "sexy, suttle stare" face (which is a BIG sign to all men that "chick digs me"), then master this. I do caution though that you must make sure that the dude you want to see this face does, in fact, see it. You don't want the dude sitting next to him reading the face, and then you have to reject him. Not good. Also, even when you do this face right, send it to the right guy, the dude may want to play cool. If that happens, you have two options. Either give a little, casual lip pout (guys go ga-ga for this), or move to the next guy.

If you can do the "I am a shy, little girl, but damn it! I am cute" face, then go this route. Women who have the cute smile, cute dimples typically can do this face. But, all women can do it if they can pull of being cute very well. Now, sadly, not all guys are into this face, so there are risks. Still, if this is more you, then you gotta go this route. Once the face hits the right guy, he will be puddy in your hands. Typically, the "bad boys" don't much like this face. But, some have been known to be susceptible. Mostly, the business dudes, geeks, nice blue collar dudes like this face. Avoid lawyers with face, as they might want to give you a polygraph to see if you really are a cute face girl.

And lastly, we have the slut face. Now, a good portion of women tend to want to use this face because the general consensus is that men love it. Well, most guys do love this face, but since sexy face has become more prevelant lately, this face has fallen in percentile amongst men. That being said, this is still THE FACE to get a guy's attention....or scare him away with a mad boner. Henceforth, you must use suttleness with this face. The slut look is simply this. The eyes focus on the man for about five seconds, and then a slow lick of the lips occurs. Notice I said you must make eye contact. This is key. The man must know he is the one you want. Yeah, I know, this is being aggressive on your part, but come on. Help a dude out a little bit. I only recommend using this face on men you know you truely want to talk to. Might sound like giving mixed signals, or saying you are easy. But really. Deep down. You wanted his attention and now you have it. Mission successful.

Now. Go forth. Choose a face and drive men crazy. Thank me later when you are sitting on a beach with a millionaire boyfriend and a hot looking pool boy on the side. I am all knowing. Haha!



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