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Topic: Approachable?
massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Tue 01/18/11 04:05 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 01/18/11 04:08 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler.

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Tue 01/18/11 04:11 PM
You can't go out doing a "fake" face to signal to the dude that "Yeah. I am giving you the ok to have the sac to approach me". You must be genuine. Absolutely. I'm totally against this 'practice a face' thing. I've noticed women deliberately making 'inviting faces' at me in the past, and thats a huge turn off. I immediately trust them less. Learn to be less inhibited in your facial expression of your honest feelings; then if you honestly simply find me attractive, it will be more obvious to me that you do and I'll feel more comfortable walking over to you.

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Tue 01/18/11 04:13 PM
I've noticed women deliberately making 'inviting faces' at me in the past, and thats a huge turn off. I immediately trust them less. (Cause they always end up costing so much!)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/20/11 06:22 PM
make the first move. guys need a small sign to know that you are interested. something subtle, like a kick to the groin with a poke to the eye on the way down. even then a guy may still need you to b*tch slap him several times and have you yell into a bullhorn in his ear that he should talk to you. good luck I think that's too subtle ese give some suggestions with some meat to them dagnabit you sure are right sweetest. i forgot about the bacon

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/20/11 06:24 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. well there you have it. The answer is obvious

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/20/11 06:40 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. well there you have it. The answer is obvious Yup. I need to find another well-meaning meddler.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 01/20/11 06:47 PM Edited by red_lace on Thu 01/20/11 06:49 PM
Always bring a huge white board and marker with you. Then write that you're interested or something to that effect. Subtle hints usually don't work with most men. If all else fails, lift your shirt. He'll be running to you then.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/20/11 07:04 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. well there you have it. The answer is obvious Yup. I need to find another well-meaning meddler. that's not what I was thinking but I suppose you could tread that one trodden path again I meant - you need to make the first move Clark Kent - there's prolly a Lois Lane somewhere who's tired of waiting

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/20/11 07:06 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. well there you have it. The answer is obvious Yup. I need to find another well-meaning meddler. that's not what I was thinking but I suppose you could tread that one trodden path again I meant - you need to make the first move Clark Kent - there's prolly a Lois Lane somewhere who's tired of waiting Maybe, but I've been living in Indianastan for 2 years now, and have yet to run across anyone more interesting (or more compatible) than a bottle of ketchup.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/20/11 07:17 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. well there you have it. The answer is obvious Yup. I need to find another well-meaning meddler. that's not what I was thinking but I suppose you could tread that one trodden path again I meant - you need to make the first move Clark Kent - there's prolly a Lois Lane somewhere who's tired of waiting Maybe, but I've been living in Indianastan for 2 years now, and have yet to run across anyone more interesting (or more compatible) than a bottle of ketchup. Indiana - I thought it might be Corn Flakes Where all the the honey haired farmers daughters, Lex?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/20/11 07:51 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. well there you have it. The answer is obvious Yup. I need to find another well-meaning meddler. that's not what I was thinking but I suppose you could tread that one trodden path again I meant - you need to make the first move Clark Kent - there's prolly a Lois Lane somewhere who's tired of waiting Maybe, but I've been living in Indianastan for 2 years now, and have yet to run across anyone more interesting (or more compatible) than a bottle of ketchup. Indiana - I thought it might be Corn Flakes Where all the the honey haired farmers daughters, Lex? Apparently, they've all been recruited to be Yahoo scammers.

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Thu 01/20/11 08:04 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. To the modern era! To liberated women! To not having to initiate everything!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 01/20/11 08:18 PM
Always bring a huge white board and marker with you. Then write that you're interested or something to that effect. Subtle hints usually don't work with most men. If all else fails, lift your shirt. He'll be running to you then. I had a girl do that to me once. She hit me good with that white board, and as I was lying in a puddle of my own blood, she screamed, "Hey! I really am into you. Here are my digits!"

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/20/11 08:38 PM
I don't want to make the first move, Why not? Several of my partnerships were initiated by the woman. If you like someone, make the first move. Yes, most definitely. Pretty much ALL of my past relationships were initiated by the woman or a well-meaning meddler. To the modern era! To liberated women! To not having to initiate everything! Agreed. If I was the one who had to initiate things, I would have missed out on 94 horrible relationships. Hey, wait a minute....

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Fri 01/21/11 04:52 PM
This really depends on you! Some women won't date guys who do not have any self confidence. Some girls like the "Shy Guy" type. Small talk always works IMO. You just need to talk and the rest will flow, so just approach him and talk about anything and if he can't figure that out, Good Luck!

ScottyBravo Joined Mon 02/26/07 Posts: 9613	Fri 01/21/11 05:02 PM
Here's are real far out answer for you, how about giving him a nice smile and maybe a little wave

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Fri 01/21/11 05:44 PM
Always bring a huge white board and marker with you. Then write that you're interested or something to that effect. Subtle hints usually don't work with most men. If all else fails, lift your shirt. He'll be running to you then. I had a girl do that to me once. She hit me good with that white board, and as I was lying in a puddle of my own blood, she screamed, "Hey! I really am into you. Here are my digits!" Oooh! Must have been love at first sight.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 01/21/11 06:38 PM
Always bring a huge white board and marker with you. Then write that you're interested or something to that effect. Subtle hints usually don't work with most men. If all else fails, lift your shirt. He'll be running to you then. I had a girl do that to me once. She hit me good with that white board, and as I was lying in a puddle of my own blood, she screamed, "Hey! I really am into you. Here are my digits!" Oooh! Must have been love at first sight. After I punched her in the face, and yelled back to her, "Ok! I'll call ya"......well.....it did develop into a love/smash face hate relationship. Ahhhhh. I miss that girl. She ran off to become a Nun. Go figure.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Fri 01/21/11 09:07 PM Edited by red_lace on Fri 01/21/11 09:09 PM
Always bring a huge white board and marker with you. Then write that you're interested or something to that effect. Subtle hints usually don't work with most men. If all else fails, lift your shirt. He'll be running to you then. I had a girl do that to me once. She hit me good with that white board, and as I was lying in a puddle of my own blood, she screamed, "Hey! I really am into you. Here are my digits!" Oooh! Must have been love at first sight. After I punched her in the face, and yelled back to her, "Ok! I'll call ya"......well.....it did develop into a love/smash face hate relationship. Ahhhhh. I miss that girl. She ran off to become a Nun. Go figure. "So, what kind of women are priests allowed to have sex with?" "None." "Nun. Got it." My advice, have yourself ordained.