Topic: Approachable?
Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:28 PM
I have been the one to approach about 90 percent of the guys I have dated. Personally, I am sick of it. I figure if a guy is really interested in me, he will approach me. If he doesn't, I'm figuring he's not that into me.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:35 PM


Alright. Now, school is in session. Goof will help you out with excellent tips. And, it's for free. :thumbsup:

First of all, you have to know yourself. You can't go out doing a "fake" face to signal to the dude that "Yeah. I am giving you the ok to have the sac to approach me". You must be genuine. So, with that said, if you can do a good "sexy, suttle stare" face (which is a BIG sign to all men that "chick digs me"), then master this. I do caution though that you must make sure that the dude you want to see this face does, in fact, see it. You don't want the dude sitting next to him reading the face, and then you have to reject him. Not good. Also, even when you do this face right, send it to the right guy, the dude may want to play cool. If that happens, you have two options. Either give a little, casual lip pout (guys go ga-ga for this), or move to the next guy.

If you can do the "I am a shy, little girl, but damn it! I am cute" face, then go this route. Women who have the cute smile, cute dimples typically can do this face. But, all women can do it if they can pull of being cute very well. Now, sadly, not all guys are into this face, so there are risks. Still, if this is more you, then you gotta go this route. Once the face hits the right guy, he will be puddy in your hands. Typically, the "bad boys" don't much like this face. But, some have been known to be susceptible. Mostly, the business dudes, geeks, nice blue collar dudes like this face. Avoid lawyers with face, as they might want to give you a polygraph to see if you really are a cute face girl.

And lastly, we have the slut face. Now, a good portion of women tend to want to use this face because the general consensus is that men love it. Well, most guys do love this face, but since sexy face has become more prevelant lately, this face has fallen in percentile amongst men. That being said, this is still THE FACE to get a guy's attention....or scare him away with a mad boner. Henceforth, you must use suttleness with this face. The slut look is simply this. The eyes focus on the man for about five seconds, and then a slow lick of the lips occurs. Notice I said you must make eye contact. This is key. The man must know he is the one you want. Yeah, I know, this is being aggressive on your part, but come on. Help a dude out a little bit. I only recommend using this face on men you know you truely want to talk to. Might sound like giving mixed signals, or saying you are easy. But really. Deep down. You wanted his attention and now you have it. Mission successful.

Now. Go forth. Choose a face and drive men crazy. Thank me later when you are sitting on a beach with a millionaire boyfriend and a hot looking pool boy on the side. I am all knowing. Haha!



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I'm the Zen Master laugh

krupa's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:41 PM
Honestly


The women who really ended up really being important to me....have all approached me.

Don't get me wrong....I flirt madly and I talk to everyone......and not even in an intrusive way....(I am a 6th degree black belt in Pimp) I gots de ninja skills.

But, though I flirt.....The ones that made me feel like I stepped into a lightning strike......The ones that I can taste thier kiss when I remember that kiss for years......the ones that keep me awake cause I just want to touch her........


Those are the chicks that have turned me around and said "Look!...I am interested....Stop being a dumbass and love me"

(Note: Not looking to get mail about this)

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:44 PM
Do you have a knife collection? Instantly show men you are interested by showing them your knife collection...works every time.

SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:52 PM

Do you have a knife collection? Instantly show men you are interested by showing them your knife collection...works every time.

Would you be interested in seeing my ninjaken? Maybe pick up some steaks and beer beforehand?

(All while wearing Guru Goof's example of "slut face")

:wink: What do you say, big boy?

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 01/17/11 06:57 PM


Do you have a knife collection? Instantly show men you are interested by showing them your knife collection...works every time.

Would you be interested in seeing my ninjaken? Maybe pick up some steaks and beer beforehand?

(All while wearing Guru Goof's example of "slut face")

:wink: What do you say, big boy?


A ninjaken?! Sweet ****! Stainless or Carbon? Stainless is good for stabbing, Carbon is set for sword fighting. Is it full-tang?

Hehe, when I get a job I'm going to get a set of three: Katana, Wakisashi, and Tanto...hand crafted Carbon steel with a wood holder. Those things are like a few hundred dollars though.smokin

Oh...what kind of beer do you prefer?smokin

SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 01/17/11 07:02 PM
Edited by SunnyMcleod on Mon 01/17/11 07:02 PM



Do you have a knife collection? Instantly show men you are interested by showing them your knife collection...works every time.

Would you be interested in seeing my ninjaken? Maybe pick up some steaks and beer beforehand?

(All while wearing Guru Goof's example of "slut face")

:wink: What do you say, big boy?


A ninjaken?! Sweet ****! Stainless or Carbon? Stainless is good for stabbing, Carbon is set for sword fighting. Is it full-tang?

Hehe, when I get a job I'm going to get a set of three: Katana, Wakisashi, and Tanto...hand crafted Carbon steel with a wood holder. Those things are like a few hundred dollars though.smokin

Oh...what kind of beer do you prefer?smokin


Stainless of course. I'm a purist and you know carbon is too new age for me. Besides, stainless is dishwasher safe :wink:

(Sword is right up there on the list of things to buy when I get a job...Interview tomorrow, wish me luck!)

Beer? Anything that's Canada brew...except Molson. That's nasty. Mmm Moosehead or Alexander Keith's. Coors and Blue would do. HeII I'd even take a Budweiser of that's my only option.

****Sidenote: Relating back to the main topic I have NO idea how to be approachable. Guys either think I'm a total b***h, too weird or strictly friend zone.

I'm just here for the ninja talk. bigsmile

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/17/11 07:23 PM


Do you have a knife collection? Instantly show men you are interested by showing them your knife collection...works every time.

Would you be interested in seeing my ninjaken? Maybe pick up some steaks and beer beforehand?

(All while wearing Guru Goof's example of "slut face")

:wink: What do you say, big boy?


Guru Goof would never lead you astray

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/17/11 07:25 PM
I have no cluenoway

I am ALWAYS told I am unapproachable ohwell

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/17/11 07:55 PM

I have no cluenoway

I am ALWAYS told I am unapproachable ohwell


When in doubt, grab a dude's nuts

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/17/11 07:58 PM


I have no cluenoway

I am ALWAYS told I am unapproachable ohwell


When in doubt, grab a dude's nuts


I tried that. Turns out not all guys are as big a sluts as you are.

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:00 PM



I have no cluenoway

I am ALWAYS told I am unapproachable ohwell


When in doubt, grab a dude's nuts


I tried that. Turns out not all guys are as big a sluts as you are.



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

I think he just hides behind the slutiness (spelling pass again frustrated)

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:02 PM



I have no cluenoway

I am ALWAYS told I am unapproachable ohwell


When in doubt, grab a dude's nuts


I tried that. Turns out not all guys are as big a sluts as you are.


There can be only one!

no photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:53 PM

What "hints" can a girl give a guy for him to be encouraged to approach her?

I was out with some friends and my friends friend kept staring at me, but he never came over to say anything to me. Then later that night after I left, he sends me a message on Facebook telling me he thought I was cute but he didn't have enough courage to approach me.

I don't want to make the first move, so I'd like to know what I can do to give a guy a "it's ok, I wont reject you" hint lol


Just make the first move, rather than trying to get him to come to you. It's really not that hard.

no photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:54 PM

I have been the one to approach about 90 percent of the guys I have dated. Personally, I am sick of it. I figure if a guy is really interested in me, he will approach me. If he doesn't, I'm figuring he's not that into me.


What if the guy is thinking the same thing? Then you're both not approaching each other, even though you're interested.

gummykiss's photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:55 PM

Alright. Now, school is in session. Goof will help you out with excellent tips. And, it's for free. :thumbsup:

First of all, you have to know yourself. You can't go out doing a "fake" face to signal to the dude that "Yeah. I am giving you the ok to have the sac to approach me". You must be genuine. So, with that said, if you can do a good "sexy, suttle stare" face (which is a BIG sign to all men that "chick digs me"), then master this. I do caution though that you must make sure that the dude you want to see this face does, in fact, see it. You don't want the dude sitting next to him reading the face, and then you have to reject him. Not good. Also, even when you do this face right, send it to the right guy, the dude may want to play cool. If that happens, you have two options. Either give a little, casual lip pout (guys go ga-ga for this), or move to the next guy.

If you can do the "I am a shy, little girl, but damn it! I am cute" face, then go this route. Women who have the cute smile, cute dimples typically can do this face. But, all women can do it if they can pull of being cute very well. Now, sadly, not all guys are into this face, so there are risks. Still, if this is more you, then you gotta go this route. Once the face hits the right guy, he will be puddy in your hands. Typically, the "bad boys" don't much like this face. But, some have been known to be susceptible. Mostly, the business dudes, geeks, nice blue collar dudes like this face. Avoid lawyers with face, as they might want to give you a polygraph to see if you really are a cute face girl.

And lastly, we have the slut face. Now, a good portion of women tend to want to use this face because the general consensus is that men love it. Well, most guys do love this face, but since sexy face has become more prevelant lately, this face has fallen in percentile amongst men. That being said, this is still THE FACE to get a guy's attention....or scare him away with a mad boner. Henceforth, you must use suttleness with this face. The slut look is simply this. The eyes focus on the man for about five seconds, and then a slow lick of the lips occurs. Notice I said you must make eye contact. This is key. The man must know he is the one you want. Yeah, I know, this is being aggressive on your part, but come on. Help a dude out a little bit. I only recommend using this face on men you know you truely want to talk to. Might sound like giving mixed signals, or saying you are easy. But really. Deep down. You wanted his attention and now you have it. Mission successful.

Now. Go forth. Choose a face and drive men crazy. Thank me later when you are sitting on a beach with a millionaire boyfriend and a hot looking pool boy on the side. I am all knowing. Haha!



rofl


Ok Ok, I'm going to try the faces on the mirror and practice them soon! We'll see how it goes haha

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:58 PM


I have been the one to approach about 90 percent of the guys I have dated. Personally, I am sick of it. I figure if a guy is really interested in me, he will approach me. If he doesn't, I'm figuring he's not that into me.


What if the guy is thinking the same thing? Then you're both not approaching each other, even though you're interested.


Guess we are both outta luck.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/17/11 08:58 PM




I have no cluenoway

I am ALWAYS told I am unapproachable ohwell


When in doubt, grab a dude's nuts


I tried that. Turns out not all guys are as big a sluts as you are.


There can be only one!


sad

Okami04's photo
Mon 01/17/11 09:01 PM
Yo Gummy when your in public make the same face your making in your icon pic to a guy and if he dont come over hes gey

wraithme66's photo
Tue 01/18/11 03:43 PM

Yo Gummy when your in public make the same face your making in your icon pic to a guy and if he dont come over hes gey



What I keep hearing... Is similar versions of what I said originally. I think it's unanimous.