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Jon and I flirt on here all the time but in real life we don't. And, I bet that if you asked Jon to stop or told him it upset you, he would stop. Yes he would, and so would I if he asked me too. We joke and flirt with people but we make sure the others understand that it is all in fun. My ex wouldn't stop even though he knew it upset me. But, he was an azz in general. 
trust is important and sometimes a guy like that mean no harm...cuz guys chat to anyone and not thinking otherwise...the same way we women do... |
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Is it that they are flirting that bothers you or that they are not paying enough attention to you?
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Is it that they are flirting that bothers you or that they are not paying enough attention to you? It isn't anything right now since I haven't had this problem with a guy in years. It just came up in a conversation with someone earlier and I was wondering how others felt about it. |
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trust is important and sometimes a guy like that mean no harm...cuz guys chat to anyone and not thinking otherwise...the same way we women do... Chatting is different than complimenting a woman's chest and asking to see down her shirt. |
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If he is with you then he shouldn't be thinking of other women let alone flirting with em, having faith is good but if said person is flirting then you should have a talk with em if it makes you uncomfortable.
Mind you I am flirtatious as can be -when single- but otherwise is just shouldnt happen. |
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seeing as I flirt naturally, (have had several friends tell me I was flirting when I didn't even realize it) I don't mind if my partner subconsciously does it as well. But there is a difference when he or I do it on purpose, and yes, I do know the difference.
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that flirted incessantly with other people? I have dated a couple of guys like that and it was always something that hurt very much in spite of my trying to convince myself that it was no big deal. not once we were actually a couple, no but I really think if it's meant to be he will bo so interested in you that he really won't want to flirt around. Usually if it's meant to be the flirting around stops after the 1st date or 2 And flirting with others while u r actually on the actual date, no that's just tacky - even on dates where I really was just not interested, I still gave my date 100% of my attention for THAT evening. just consideration |
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it's not my place to tell others how to live their lives... but as long as shes coming over to give me some, i'm happy
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if the trust is there, then i have no problem. now if someone is flirting with them to the point of making them uncomfortable, then i have a problem with it.
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Jon and I flirt on here all the time but in real life we don't. You are such a flirt! |
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Jon and I flirt on here all the time but in real life we don't. You are such a flirt! Shhhhhhhhh!!!!! Don't tell anyone!!!!  
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Edited by
josie68
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Sun 01/16/11 10:02 PM
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Jon and I flirt on here all the time but in real life we don't. And, I bet that if you asked Jon to stop or told him it upset you, he would stop. Yes he would, and so would I if he asked me too. We joke and flirt with people but we make sure the others understand that it is all in fun. Yep Anaconda and I talked about this as well, on here with friends its cool, everyone knows we are playing and are together, but anywhere else and its a no go.. He's mine and I'm his so its hands off. |
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Are you saying I can't flirt with Anaconda anymore???
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would you be able to date someone
that flirted incessantly with other people? I have dated a couple of guys like that and it was always something that hurt very much in spite of my trying to convince myself that it was no big deal. Well, as you know..yes :-) Not for the faint of heart. |
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Are you saying I can't flirt with Anaconda anymore???
Are you saying I can't flirt with Eileen anymore??? 
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would you be able to date someone
that flirted incessantly with other people? I have dated a couple of guys like that and it was always something that hurt very much in spite of my trying to convince myself that it was no big deal. Well, as you know..yes :-) Not for the faint of heart. Well, that's why I ask. I guess I am faint of heart. Or maybe I just saw it lead to cheating too many times by my ex-husband. Our personal experiences color our perceptions. |
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no, i couldn't n wouldn't
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Eek.
I once dated a man who told me that I was unable to talk to ANY man without flirting with him. I can, of course. My boyfriend has no problem with my flirtatious personality, but he is a secure man. For me, it would depend upon what type of flirting it was--and yes, there are different types. Many men (and perhaps women are the same) cannot distinguish between a woman who is flirting and one who is just being friendly. |
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