I know htis thread has been done before, butit is a good thread to keep around, as it helps to see things from anothers perspective.




Me, I want a beautiful lady (beautiful by my standards not the worlds) who will enjoy being by my side and helping me raise my family, and hers.
I wnat to be able to sit outside on the porch in the autumn air, and have her with me just watching the sunset on the horizon, before we go inside and start relaxing for the night.
I want alady who will make my toes curl in delight as she makes me scream in passion, or one who I can make scream in ecstacy.
Someone who shares my tastes in the country life, as well as camping, fishing, hunting etc.
I wnat to be able to not only watch a movie with her but discuss a book that I have read, wether it is a classic or something silly like harry potter.
But above all else, I want a lady who can be my all tiem bestest friend on the whole wide world, next to no one else.

what is in my profile:

* between 35 and 48 years old
* who has a career/goals
* honest
* who challenges me to be better
* who is self-confident
* who helps me through when I am sad
* who listens and actually pays attention
* who looks at me with that special glare
* spontaneous and fun
* who notices the small stuff
* who compliments me especially in front of people
* who respects me
* who gives me space
* who is romantic (holding hands, cuddling)
* who betters himself
* who does not cheat/ only has eyes for me
* who knows how to compromise and sacrifice for
the relationship

aww--between 35 to 48?

ok-- but i'm a bit older than that--


lol

one out of what???
exceptions can be made...
lol
errr...how much older?

hahahahaha---lol



51---???

somebody who does not use me

BOOBS!!!

well Iam 32... Is that close enough?
And although I can not promise my will not turn if I see a pretty lady, I CAN garuntee you that my eyes would be the only thing roving. And then they would come back to you, and we would have to find somplace secluded as I would the show youhow much I loved you and respected you

you do not look 51

thanky--made my day--

A lot of heart, a sense of humor, a brain and common sense is always a good thing, as I tend to need life and decisions feeling right to me rather than always being based on logic (scary for most people, I know). Reciprocal relation. Oh, by the way, if certain aspects about this person can make my mouth go dry - well, hey, that's a definite bonus in my book. Actually, I've only experienced that once, so I'm not really sure what my mouth going dry at the sight of someone means yet.

Someone intelligent (and not afraid to show it), a good sense of humor, creative, non-traditional, perceptive, understanding, athletic, good communications skills, someone who is not going to try to "domesticate" me, a certain degree of spontaneity, someone who understand the difference between giving/receiving attention vs. a remora (suckerfish) attached to a shark's underbelly, no drugs, no alcohol, no kids, willing to relocate for reclusive writer, that sort of thing....

I've only met one like that (so far), but she was amazing....

a woman who is smarter than me- -good sense of humor will do--


need to think a lil' more--

so i'll return later with more info--

Basically, I am looking for a friend and a partner, someone who can lead, but not command. (Mostly because I'm horrible with making decisions.) Loving and sweet, but not necessarily a weakling or a bubbly puffball. Other than that I'm pretty open.

i can think of one thing i want in a partner

A Pulse?

ok make that 2 things

did i hear ---pulse?--**tap-tap-tap-**

yes sweetie...someone alive would be a start
lol@shadowdog

hmmmmmm thats a really good question..... one i think ill pass on answering