first of all, would you mind defining appreciate? do you mean in a jolly ole st nick kind way? i'm confused, because i was under the impression that to appreciate someone would be to recognize the value of them as a person. so i have to ask, what does this have to do with having "a little meat with your potatoes?"....

it sounds to me like you have come into contact with people that simply have likes and dislikes, and i guess that does include people that like those that are "down right skinny." how dare they!

of course you would say that ex hubby

The wording is a little too loose on this one...."A few extra pounds" aint 3...I can tell you that right now.

I have dated plush girls as well as the ones with bodies to die for. Personality makes up for some of it but, generally big people ask these questions to validate that they dont have to try to shape up for thier potential partners.

I think thats crap.

The question I think of is "Should I do what I can to be more appealing to my lover...or is it ok to not even try?"

Should I brush my hair?.......yes
Should I brush my tooth?......yes
Should I dress nice?..........yes
Should I trim my pubes?.......yes
Should I try to be healthier?.yes


Would you rather date Brad Pitt or Tom Arnold?

Tom Arnold.
He'd make me look good.

You @$$!!! heheheheehhehe (good point though)

Oh krupa...ya got me with the tooth instead of teeth...LOL-I've been through some of those towns too

OP-this thread reminded me of the very first time I saw Rodney Carrington! My first semester of college & a free show...I knew when he opened his mouth that bringing Gramma was a bad idea-LOL

He had a song back then (pre HBO deal) called "I like my women like I like my chicken" & Gramma nearly fainted she laughed so hard

haha-found it on Youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0g2HWmCXX3M

in between...

Now I do love Rodney, but if you look at his wife it doesnt match his song. XD She is very thin.

lol chaz he izza funneh man

Not again.

Hahaha


Fit is good a lil extra meet is good
But if you try labeling yourself as a mythical BBW then no way no how will I appreciate that

That's exactly what I thought when I saw this thread.

Perhaps I missed something in the OP. Did she label herself as a BBW? I didn't' see that.

Does it really matter there is someone out there for everyone. I don't care what Label you want to put on yourself. Some will like you some will not, learn to deal with it and move on.

We can not always have what we want nor get what we think we deserve.

If one has to question what is out there for each of us then we need to improve ourselves, in order to figure out we really don't even want what we thought we wanted in the first place.

Learn to be happy with yourself first then you will realize if your happy or not...

Okay off my step stool now.....

I may need my corner before this night is up shshshsh

Ohhh and this is coming from one that considers herself a full figured woman... I'm what I'm they will either take me as I'm or move on shshsh

No she didn't but in his defense I would say I have seen people that would qualify as obese labeling themselves as a few extra pounds. Not saying she is but I have seen it.

It wasn't directed at the Thread Started just to people in General who label themselves as something that don't exist not say a big person can't have a nice personality but BBW refers to looks

If what you want is reasonable and realistic you can get it that is proven true in my life

you set goals in life and you achieve them nothing complicated about that

Yes, I think we all get that you are not into the "bbw" looks, since you bring it up quite often. I was just curious as to what it had to do with this thread, that's all.

normally i work more off the person than the package. but i will admit i have found a slightly smaller than my normal choice and im happer for it but yes bigger girls can be very hot