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sorry if I offended you. 
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Oh my gosh I would pay someone to marry mine, so I wouldnt have to worry about him. That is so sweet. The way I look at the guy who married my ex is like Rudyard Kipling's poem, "Gunga Din". I just love that line, "Tho' I've belted you and flayed you, By the livin' Gawd that made you, You're a better man than I am, Gunga Din!" |
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This was years back, but my ex wife did the same thing. The thing though, I was really happy, thinking she wont bug me anymore. When I left her, she would not stop trying to find ways to get me to come over to her place. 4 years  Finally! after 4 years of this  she tells me she is getting married. The thing is, she use to use the cat I had that I gave to her to try to come over a lot. The last time that happen was at a bar. I had no problem talking with her and her husband when i did see them. It was normal as talking with friends. Just that day was kind of funny. She started talking about the cat again  Mind you I haven't seen it in 4 years. She says to me, you know you can come over anytime you wont to see your cat right. I look at her and her husband and say. What part of 4 years ago, I gave that cat to you don't you understand? That was the last tme she tried to talk to me Is the cat still okay? Has it been eating good? I have a cat and the only way I can be assured that it eats good is to make sure the dog is no where around when it eats. The dog has been trying to teach it that it needs to eat faster but the cat pays the dog no mind until the dog comes over and eats whatever I set down for the cat. I felt so sorry for the cat. He is a good cat and well manner and civilized. But it is like he is telling me, "Can't you do something with this heartless *****?" And gives me this Robert DeNiro type attitude of, "Hey, I am eating here." Instead of, "Hey, I am walking here."  I wouldn't know if the cat is ok or not, it's been over 10 years now. I can see you like cats, but i like dogs Well wolves for that matter. I raised 4 ofthem for 14 years.
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Is that good or bad? Why would you care if your ex is getting married? Just asking?
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Perhaps it is she who is being immature.
Perhaps she can't be happy for him because she is a little jealous and embarrassed that he found someone else before she. |
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Perhaps it is she who is being immature. Perhaps she can't be happy for him because she is a little jealous and embarrassed that he found someone else before she. Can I sit in? Ill bring my own popcorn
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Perhaps it is she who is being immature. Perhaps she can't be happy for him because she is a little jealous and embarrassed that he found someone else before she. I really think it's more that she's wondering why he feels he needs to flaunt it - THAT is what & who is being immature. There was no need for him to contact her. At All. In fact, if she has asked him not to contact her in the past, (which I really dont know) then his contacting her now is even more so questionable. |
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I always said I wish someone would marry my ex...however if it came to that I'd probably would feel a little fragmented and elated at the same time...
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Perhaps it is she who is being immature. Perhaps she can't be happy for him because she is a little jealous and embarrassed that he found someone else before she. I really think it's more that she's wondering why he feels he needs to flaunt it - THAT is what & who is being immature. There was no need for him to contact her. At All. In fact, if she has asked him not to contact her in the past, (which I really dont know) then his contacting her now is even more so questionable. You seem to assume a lot from one little post. |
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Perhaps it is she who is being immature. Perhaps she can't be happy for him because she is a little jealous and embarrassed that he found someone else before she. lol if i had heard through the grapevine that he was getting married i dont think it would have stayed in my mind. after 6 years of no contact and suddenly a call out of no where was just odd to me. figured i'd post and get some ideas of why lol |
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got a call today from my ex of 4 years saying he's getting married next month. feels very very weird and draining i guess i could say. i want to be happy for him but im not sure i am though. they'll stick it in your face and make you smell what they consider wrong thats why i say hey man nice fart......nice fart man |
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