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Topic: A MUST list
krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 11/29/10 10:17 AM
We're women. We might not know what we want and we might not say what we want, but we reserve the right to be pissed off if we don't get it! FINALLY!!!!!! At last I understand women! THANK YOU!!!!!!! (the rest of the women may kill you for giving away that secret!)

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Mon 11/29/10 01:05 PM
We're women. We might not know what we want and we might not say what we want, but we reserve the right to be pissed off if we don't get it! FINALLY!!!!!! At last I understand women! THANK YOU!!!!!!! (the rest of the women may kill you for giving away that secret!) Hahahah and that got you any closer to really knowing what women want................. You poor boy you're more confused then I thought...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 11/29/10 01:14 PM
"Must" lists are good if you are here to find someone to date. They allow you to eliminate a lot of folks you might otherwise spend a great deal of time emailing with before you find out what they are really like. I so agree. There is nothing more irritating to me than wasted time or time that could have been spent towards more productive goals. I dont like my time wasted so I try not to waste anyone elses by not being upfront about my own priorities. Must love kids (cause I am a mother) Must respect women (cause I am female) Must be masculine(one feminine person in the relationship is enough) Must be Godfearing(its a central part of my life and that I am trying to create for my children)

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Mon 11/29/10 01:33 PM
"Must" lists are good if you are here to find someone to date. They allow you to eliminate a lot of folks you might otherwise spend a great deal of time emailing with before you find out what they are really like. I so agree. There is nothing more irritating to me than wasted time or time that could have been spent towards more productive goals. I dont like my time wasted so I try not to waste anyone elses by not being upfront about my own priorities. Must love kids (cause I am a mother) Must respect women (cause I am female) Must be masculine(one feminine person in the relationship is enough) Must be Godfearing(its a central part of my life and that I am trying to create for my children) I agree here. People claim to not want the games, yet grumble when others have eliminated many of the games, by having a list of what they are seeking. Shakes head. Then they come back here and whine about the person being all wrong after they got to know them a while. At least with a list, you weed out the initial folks who seem to want to play games. Personally, my list is for dating. I'm not, so the list doesn't matter. I have friends of all kinds, who don't match anything on my list. But while some of them are extremely cute, (and the friend with the Aussie accent makes me giddy), I'm not going to date him or them.

mrheartfelt Joined Fri 11/26/10 Posts: 770	Mon 11/29/10 01:38 PM
Does it ever get to you when reading a profile and they have a MUST list I say get out of your comfort zone and live a little Carold, some people must not have a life because they make up these lists. They are eliminating all of their chances of finding the " one". Perhaps some ulterior motive is on the loose or they are sunk into their(comfort zone) ship. Reminds me of a set of lyrics to a Micheal Jackson song: "Can't help it if I wanted to". I like different but compatible I say spice it up. I like new things and places its an adventure. I always wonder about the one that go to the same restaurant every other day, I always like trying a new place. I do like my home and can hibernate at times. [/quote I like my home and can hibernate with the best of them. My neighbor called and was worried about my car not moving for a week... Hibernation sometimes is good for the soul. I am with Ms. Carol on this one. I love spontaneity and different things. Life needs some spice sometime.

seamac Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 3104	Mon 11/29/10 02:18 PM
Wow I didn't realize I was cutting people out! All I said on my Must List was: must be devastatingly attractive must be indepently wealthy must want to travel to the places I want to go must want to give me footrubs and backrubs must think I'm the most beautiful woman in the world Now I changed to must be male AND have a pulse LOL No, no, no! I love the original list!! If your really giving it up, may I have it? LOLOLOL Absolutely!! Thanks, it really is somethings to strive towards!! LOL

stefy Joined Sat 11/20/10 Posts: 2946	Mon 11/29/10 02:37 PM
Ok, i know is not realistic but if i could have a must list it would go like this: My man is kind is adeep thinker is passionate about his work loves old houses loves the feel of skin on skin and can`t get enough touching has eyes that reveal his soul has wild imagination in bed and finally is well endowed.. is it too much to ask?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 11/29/10 04:16 PM
Ok, i know is not realistic but if i could have a must list it would go like this: My man is kind is adeep thinker is passionate about his work loves old houses loves the feel of skin on skin and can`t get enough touching has eyes that reveal his soul has wild imagination in bed and finally is well endowed.. is it too much to ask? You rang? Oh harmony...I think you missed the first page baby....I aint getting fooled again by that list!

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Mon 11/29/10 04:18 PM
i hate that........a must list??? now really.................

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 11/30/10 05:31 AM
Glad you could stop by girlie

Thorb Joined Mon 06/28/10 Posts: 505	Tue 11/30/10 10:13 AM
must remember to flush

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 11/30/10 12:04 PM
Does it ever get to you when reading a profile and they have a MUST list I say get out of your comfort zone and live a little I think this stems from experience and finding out what we really want in a partner. For example I don't want a smoker as the last guy I dated made me ill because of his smoking. Dated another guy with kids and he never had time for me because of his kids. So, of course now I make my must list. Saves me wasting my time with the wrong man.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 11/30/10 02:04 PM
must remember to flush Put down the toilet seat.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 11/30/10 02:49 PM
My "Must List" is really a "Must Not" list. It comes from years and years of blindly stumbling into horrible relationships but (hopefully) discovering what DOESN'T work for you.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Tue 11/30/10 02:55 PM
Must be able to carry on a conversation......past the hi how are ya...... They must realize that if they love sports that I most likely will not sit there and watch the game with them........they are big boys they can watch it alone or with their friends.....

mrheartfelt Joined Fri 11/26/10 Posts: 770	Tue 11/30/10 03:05 PM
Must be able to carry on a conversation......past the hi how are ya...... They must realize that if they love sports that I most likely will not sit there and watch the game with them........they are big boys they can watch it alone or with their friends..... Uh Huh!! True that! Some guys have nothing nice to say about any thing. Must have conversation is a good one because I can imagine how much it drives you women nuts if a man can't converse about things.....

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 11/30/10 03:13 PM
My "Must List" is really a "Must Not" list. It comes from years and years of blindly stumbling into horrible relationships but (hopefully) discovering what DOESN'T work for you. I just looked at your profile got about half way through it maybe I should of looked to see how long it was before I started. I think you could shorten it if you take out all the things you said more than twice. But I do find you interesting Lex and nice guy I didn't know you were so young either.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 11/30/10 04:12 PM
My "Must List" is really a "Must Not" list. It comes from years and years of blindly stumbling into horrible relationships but (hopefully) discovering what DOESN'T work for you. I just looked at your profile got about half way through it maybe I should of looked to see how long it was before I started. I think you could shorten it if you take out all the things you said more than twice. But I do find you interesting Lex and nice guy I didn't know you were so young either. Well, remember, I started writing that thing in 1942 and so it's inevitable that there will be some repetition. I thought about erasing everything and just putting "I don't know what to write here," but when did I ever not know what to write?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 11/30/10 04:19 PM
My "Must List" is really a "Must Not" list. It comes from years and years of blindly stumbling into horrible relationships but (hopefully) discovering what DOESN'T work for you. I just looked at your profile got about half way through it maybe I should of looked to see how long it was before I started. I think you could shorten it if you take out all the things you said more than twice. But I do find you interesting Lex and nice guy I didn't know you were so young either. Well, remember, I started writing that thing in 1942 and so it's inevitable that there will be some repetition. I thought about erasing everything and just putting "I don't know what to write here," but when did I ever not know what to write? Try using pictures for the big words!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 11/30/10 04:26 PM
My "Must List" is really a "Must Not" list. It comes from years and years of blindly stumbling into horrible relationships but (hopefully) discovering what DOESN'T work for you. I just looked at your profile got about half way through it maybe I should of looked to see how long it was before I started. I think you could shorten it if you take out all the things you said more than twice. But I do find you interesting Lex and nice guy I didn't know you were so young either. Well, remember, I started writing that thing in 1942 and so it's inevitable that there will be some repetition. I thought about erasing everything and just putting "I don't know what to write here," but when did I ever not know what to write? Try using pictures for the big words! I don't have a good picture of a hapax legomenon, though....??