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Topic: How do you deal with a guy with a temper?
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Fri 11/12/10 09:53 PM
get out, run away as fast as you can, havent you ever seen sleeping with the enemy!

newarkjw's photo
Fri 11/12/10 09:56 PM

Send him to prison, have him be Tyrone's little biatch, and then see how much of a changed man he becomes.


I heard all about you and Tyrone. So have you changed?......smokin

stephenisakeeper's photo
Fri 11/12/10 09:57 PM
Edited by stephenisakeeper on Fri 11/12/10 09:57 PM
You could always take him on Dr. Phil. He would give him a good talking to for sure.


Daysdoll's photo
Fri 11/12/10 09:57 PM
Well, anyway Bazz, good luck. There is alot of wisdom on this page (as in all the people trying to help you out with suggestions) It simply sounds to me that you and your guy have some growing up to do. If you refuse to understand the purpose of the police, and if you fail to see your oun temper, and if you fail to comprehend the potentially dangerous situation your children are in being caught between your domestic altercations, then you are in for a hard road. I wish you the best.

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Fri 11/12/10 09:58 PM
the way self is treated, SELF CREATED, show's self how to disarm and protect self from malicious irrational behaviour.

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Fri 11/12/10 10:00 PM


Send him to prison, have him be Tyrone's little biatch, and then see how much of a changed man he becomes.


I heard all about you and Tyrone. So have you changed?......smokin


rofl

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Fri 11/12/10 10:01 PM


Send him to prison, have him be Tyrone's little biatch, and then see how much of a changed man he becomes.


I heard all about you and Tyrone. So have you changed?......smokin


I became a better cook.

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Fri 11/12/10 10:04 PM



Send him to prison, have him be Tyrone's little biatch, and then see how much of a changed man he becomes.


I heard all about you and Tyrone. So have you changed?......smokin


I became a better cook.
and thanks to goof my shanks actually worklaugh tried to get the toothbrush sharp but goof knew what to dolaugh

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Fri 11/12/10 10:07 PM




Send him to prison, have him be Tyrone's little biatch, and then see how much of a changed man he becomes.


I heard all about you and Tyrone. So have you changed?......smokin


I became a better cook.
and thanks to goof my shanks actually worklaugh tried to get the toothbrush sharp but goof knew what to dolaugh


You can never go wrong with a good shag...I mean shank....SHANK!!!

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Fri 11/12/10 10:09 PM




Send him to prison, have him be Tyrone's little biatch, and then see how much of a changed man he becomes.


I heard all about you and Tyrone. So have you changed?......smokin


I became a better cook.
and thanks to goof my shanks actually worklaugh tried to get the toothbrush sharp but goof knew what to dolaugh


You can never go wrong with a good shag...I mean shank....SHANK!!!

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Fri 11/12/10 10:40 PM

My guy has a HORRIBLE temper! when he gets angry he starts spouting off things like he is going to go **** my sister to get back at me or chop off my head if i ever took his kids away! I know he is all talk, but how do i deal? how do i get that talk to stop? I already know he needs a therapist!!

That is a form of abuse and will only get worse.If you are still with him I'd be careful.Those type of people can snap anytime.When he said he is going to go **** your sister or chop your head off...I'd take that seriously...don't think it is only talk like you said he is all talk.All talk always ends up in a sad tragedy.Always keep alert whether you are living with him or not.You both need help.

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Fri 11/12/10 10:56 PM
pop a cap in that *** and get your own episode of SNAPPED on TV

chelsea466's photo
Fri 11/12/10 10:57 PM
2 words: STEVE WILKOS!! laugh

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Fri 11/12/10 11:04 PM
Sweetie listen to me. GET AWAY FORM HIM!! He needs serious anger mananagement classes. If person has the mind set to threaten you with those things, one day they will carry them out. Get out, or get him out. If you have to get a restraining order. You may try and call the Sheriffs office and ask to speak to a victims advocate, or call a womens abuse shelter. Love does not involve threats of retailiation. Good Luck.

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Sat 11/13/10 08:53 AM
Hello, I seen your topic and I must respond if I may. I went through this ordeal and I must tell you, the temper problem will only get worse to the point where it will get violent and you will be mental abuse. So you must get out because he will try to control you to the point where you'll think your the problem. This is how some men tend to work. Its always the woman's fault. Perhaps, he's bipolar. I found out at the end there with me, he was a bipolar and everything made perfect sense but I eventually ended up leaving years ago.:wink: I wish you luck!

bedlum1's photo
Sat 11/13/10 09:00 AM
RUN WOMAN...RUN!!!!
THAT'S WAY TO CRAZY...AND THERE REALLY ISN'T ANY EXCUSE FOR THAT BEHAVIOR....

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Sat 11/13/10 09:02 AM
Put him in the trash can and put the lid on tight.

This guy is not your guy. DUMP HIM NOW!

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Sat 11/13/10 09:05 AM

My guy has a HORRIBLE temper! when he gets angry he starts spouting off things like he is going to go **** my sister to get back at me or chop off my head if i ever took his kids away! I know he is all talk, but how do i deal? how do i get that talk to stop? I already know he needs a therapist!!

Uhhh buh-bye......mental abusiveness is just as bad as physical and is about control.....mental can definitely become physical....just ask my friend Lucy...ohhhh yeah u can't because he killed her and then committed suicide...and it started as mental only too...............guess she thought he was all talk

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Sat 11/13/10 10:10 AM
Edited by MeChrissy2 on Sat 11/13/10 10:12 AM


Really? Full of hot air is an excuse?? He's verbally abusing you... He's an azzhole and trying to act like a controlling tool to get keep you in line...

I'm sad for you that you think his behavior is acceptable...

The way I'd deal with it is "walk away" with a police escort just to be on the safe side...



YEA. thats the general response i get. I know its true too! I know all about abuse too. its not that I am blind to it... I just dont know what to do, we have 2 kids together... I want them to have their dad in their lives, but i dont want them learning his bad behaviors. I moved 1300 miles from him and now he is begging and pleading, sayin he will do anything to be with me...


I will share with you what my counselor said to me. "Yes, you have two daughters together and is this the type of man you want them to marry? No? But it must be, it was good enough for their mom."

It took me a long time to understand that wanting a father in my kids life wasn't enough to accept that kind of father. The way my children have bloomed away from the anger, alcohol, etc. takes my breath away.

Good luck.

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Sat 11/13/10 10:24 AM
Regardless what everyone says here unless one really takes it to heart and try to make a change they are only words upon a page.

One may say that they have it all under control but.... if in fact he is still in the picture and able to do these things then he still has a ledge to control.

I have talked to many that have been in abusive relationships they do not just stop cause they say they will do anything to get back in your life.

Instead they worm themselves back only to control one even more. Best thing one could do for themselves and their kids is to break off all contact if possible.

I know with kids that at times can not be done. But it can be to where the only contact is on visitation days only.

If the cycle is not broken and kids are raised in such environment they will in fact think this is the way it should be. Therefor results many times are they end up in the same type of relationships when they grow up.

Hopefully you will see through his pleads and not give into them.... The picture he will paint will only run once he gains his control once more.sad2

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