Hello, I seen your topic and I must respond if I may. I went through this ordeal and I must tell you, the temper problem will only get worse to the point where it will get violent and you will be mental abuse. So you must get out because he will try to control you to the point where you'll think your the problem. This is how some men tend to work. Its always the woman's fault. Perhaps, he's bipolar. I found out at the end there with me, he was a bipolar and everything made perfect sense but I eventually ended up leaving years ago. I wish you luck!