Do men find it offensive when ladies buy them a drink, or hit on them, brush against them when walking by, etc..

It's sort of a role reversal, but this is the 20th century...and it happens more often these days...

and ladies have you done it and how???

i never have..too shy i guess...

I find that the more I ignore men, the more they want me. I dont have a clue why this works but it does.........I think it has something to do with man wanting to be the hunter idk....men are from mars!!!

not talking to gypsy.............yes lol

heheeeeeeeeeee amerken!!!!!

I love it when a lady makes the opening move it takes the pressure of does she like me off.

ummmm...i did once but i was so nervous...i'm way too shy for that kind of thing but i guess i'll have to get over it

never have i am old fashioned and shy
but i think i missed some opportunities

i never have either. im way too shy. not very confident either, at least when it comes to doing something like that.

its not wrong...there have been times where i thought a woman was attractive and seemed interestring, but never approached her because of the frame of mind i was in at the time. i believe if you want something you should go for it

lol ocean that pic is freaking me out!!!!

gypsy you got somethin nice in your hands. you can add my pic to your picture selection....i could pass for one of'em

I ike when a woman comes up to me, it shows confindence. Don't you women like that in a man? It's no different when it comes to women.

Honestly, it's the greatest thing in the world when a girl makes the first move.

i don't mind making the fist move but i enjoy meeting new people so just because i say hi doesn't mean i'm inviting them back to my place!

I agree with Stat. It's a total turn on when a woman is confident enough in herself and her feelings for me to make the first move. I tend to have a dominating personality at times, so someone that is brave enough to make the first move will be brave enough to keep me in my place.

I would never be able to make the first move. Too shy I guess.

I used to be too shy to make the first move, when I was like 15 I blurted out to a guy at school that he was hot as hell. I got a positive reaction, so from that moment, my shy side was GONE! It took me a while to tone it down and make it an art, but now I can feel who will respond and who won't. If you smile coyly at them from across the room and they smile back flirtatiously but dont' come over... then its your move. If they start toward you then they are a hunter, and you let them do it.

A guy will feel pretty good when a girl makes a move like that. But most girls are way too shy to do that.

Girls, it's like that feeling you get when you're being hit on. But a reverse effect. Yes, nice, right? :)