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Topic: Break ups: To keep or to return belongs
Puffins1958's photo
Wed 06/20/07 04:44 AM
He cheated on you, I would wait a couple of weeks, if he doesn't come
back for them....I would THROW them out. It would be that simple for
me.....

s1owhand's photo
Wed 06/20/07 04:52 AM
"mmmmm, to the left, to the left,
everything you own in the box to the left...."

bigsmile

it is nice to make some effort at returning them
but if you do it - it is for you - not for him

"hurry up before your taxi leaves....."

no photo
Wed 06/20/07 05:42 AM
i would throw everything in a box and tell him he can pick it up
outside, that way i wouldnt have to open the door and speak to him.

ChollieThePope's photo
Wed 06/20/07 06:15 AM
Send him his stuff (UPS, FedEx, Drop it on his doorstep), and be done
with it!

Close that chapter of your life and stop holding on!

Keeping his things is just a way for you to get him to "reconnect" with
you some how!

Remember to "take the trash out" and keep your life focused on the
future!flowerforyou

Smartazzjohn's photo
Wed 06/20/07 07:21 AM
give the stuff back, even if they are a complete jerk don't let them
drag you down to their level, be the better person

adj4u's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:06 AM
send a certified letter stating that they have 30 days

to make an appt to come and retrieve the stuff

if not it will be disposed of

and keep receipt for send and a copy of the letter

theft is wrong itis not yer stuff yet

after the 30 days then it may be yer stuff

ChollieThePope's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:23 AM
Thank You, Judge Judy!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
laugh laugh

adj4u's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:24 AM
better to stave of future problems

s1owhand's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:32 AM
like Chollie says

but save on postage and send it USMail 4th class
or whatever is cheapest

adj4u's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:35 AM
with out certified receipt it is of no value

must have evidence of receipt of said letter

s1owhand's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:39 AM
adj4u - are you a lawyer?? laugh

i think that the uspo now has some tracking
even if there is no certification but don't
know if it covers 4th class....

i guess it'd be a good idea to get a
receipt although it is soooo weezlee

adj4u's photo
Wed 06/20/07 08:41 AM
it is probably a mute point anyway

under abandonment

but hey what do i know

ChollieThePope's photo
Wed 06/20/07 09:16 AM
(adj4u)

Your honor, I did like to request a recess so I may confer with the
Postmaster General?

grumble

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