Topic: Break ups: To keep or to return belongs
jeanc200358's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:35 PM
To hell with that..if he won't come get them, I'd take them to a
consignment shop. At least make a couple bucks off of them. LOL.

buttons's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:35 PM
i wouldnt want to see him is my point....

shenadra's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:36 PM
BURN IT ALL!!!! He can buy new stuff....lmao.

<<<Not very sympathetic to cheaters

jeanc200358's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:37 PM
I hear ya, Buttons, but leave it on the porch when you're gone...and
tell him he has to come pick it up that day or forfeit it. If he doesn't
come to pick it up, next time he calls, invite him to the garage sale
and make him buy it back.:tongue:

no photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:41 PM
Give hima call, and the chance to pick it up. If he says ne does not
want it yard sell time.

Marie55's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:49 PM
I gave my ex his stuff, if he is abusive, destroying his stuff sets you
up for getting hurt. I would bag it up and take it to a neutral
friend's house and tell him it is there, providing the friend is okay
with it. That way it is out of your house, and you don't have to see
him anymore.

Leaving it on the front porch for him to pick up invites him back and
gives him an excuse to delay coming by until you are there and start a
fight, I would do a neutral place, just to avoid confrontation.

Tameka's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:50 PM
i am thinking, why not give them back? we are all adults. no need to
act like we are back in high school, right? if they are his, then they
belong with him.

crazysillygirl's photo
Thu 03/29/07 05:59 AM
return the belongings....why because they arent mine!!!! vendictiveness
is for high school!!! Two wrongs dont make a right!!! Besides we are
adults i believe we should act like adults ya-no?

homegurlshell's photo
Thu 03/29/07 07:18 AM
Well I wouldn't go out of my way to give them to him....I would give him
so long to cum get them and if he never showed i would give away wat i
dont want and keep wat i want

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:21 AM
Myself would put them all in a box and make him come pick them up but
yes I would return everything that is there's. Due to the fact if it was
me I would ecpect the same from someone. The relantionship has already
ended so why bring yourself down to there level of thinking. I'm a true
believer in what goes around comes around just always hope I'm around to
see or know they got there's lolbigsmile

no photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:23 AM
if they left an didn't take their stuff then burn it throw it away have
a yard sale

no photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:24 AM
i broke up with mine yesterday cause hes in prioson but i will not throw
nor give any of his stuff away i say give it back!

no photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:25 AM
yea but you say that you broke up cause of prison but wat if he was
cheatin or something

DANE1973's photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:26 AM
Take what you want of his stuff, dvd's etc. then go for option D the
PAWN SHOP, make something out of this.

no photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:28 AM
if he was cheating well i would still say give it bk take it to his
house and say im better off without you and it was a waste of time
things like this happen all the time and these things sometines are ment
to be

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:28 AM
return them
they do belong to the other person no matter
what the situation

seahawks's photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:30 AM
BE NICE LADIES, JUST GIVE HIM HIS STUFF BACK NO HISSSSSIN, BEHAVE .
LMAO

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:31 AM
Well regardless what you chose to do with it better think in the long
run. If it is alot of stuff and they decide to take you to small claims
court you are sure to loose and would have to owe them the value of what
the items cost to replace. Sure the thought would be there to pile them
up and have a campfire. But then that would not make things right. Hell
if they cheat be grateful and get rid of them there is always someone
out there better that actually have values. And will treat you a whole
lot better. bigsmile

no photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:34 AM
i still don't think it matters whether they are male female or anywhere
in between i see it as if they were to leave me you or anybody right now
an never came back then why you gonna keep it

crazysillygirl's photo
Thu 03/29/07 10:37 AM
i have to agree with joyce!!!!