Well, I've been dating a guy for about two weeks. Well, he's really friendly and we spend a lot of time talking about no matter what. Here comes the problem. We spend like one hour sitting together (he's next to me but he never gets closer). He's extremely shy and He can't even look at my face when we're talking to me because I know he gets really nervous. I know He really loves me and wants to kiss me and all that stuff so I'm always hugging him and kissing him. If get near to his face and kiss him, He loves it and he continues, but he hasn't tried to kiss me. I know I just ahve to wait and be patiente with him but I just can't wait anymore

What can I do to get him more romantic and less shy??

show him your boobs.if that doesn't make him want to kiss you,nothing will

Try no to come on too strong,If he's that shy make him as comfortable as possible, let him know verbally how you feel and would like it if he would kiss you,warm up to him first before you ask him to kiss you. if after you try this a few times and he is still a cold fish, Slip the bastard some drugs and have your way with him.

Communication is the key in any relationship.Geez!Godspeed!Cy

Has he ever shared a bed with a woman? He may be new in this game

Lose the Polka music?

*Tosses CD out of window*

2 WEEKS?????? he loves you and you can't wait....hmmmmmmmm

I just cannot get over the fact your a 6foot 3inch woman


how the hell does he even reach your face.....hahahahahah


lotta chain pullin goin on!!!!......hahahah

If it works then don't fix it. Just keep on teaching him how to kiss and hug. I take it that he is a slow learner. Special education is like that. You need to teach him advanced kissing and hugging. He is at monkey see. You need to get him at monkey do. When the student is ready the teacher will appear. You need to do a class on show and tell. He isn't ready for evolution just quite, yet. Bring out your chalk board, teacher and draw him a picture of what you want to do. Make sure to point to him on the chalk board so he will learn association and point to yourself. Monkeys can imitate human behaviour.

I'm pretty sure you'll literally have to take matters into your own hands. This guy is reserved, either through nature or longstanding rejection. He doesn't want to push things because, I'd lay odds, his confidence is shot.

You are going to have to bring him "back around." Be extremely playful, direct his hands, and make sure he knows that it's okay for him to do so. You might actually have to say what you want directly. If he's got any experience at all, it'll be the green light he's been waiting to see. If he has none, it could be that you'll have to go one step further and see just how far you can press it, even to the point of being the one that strips you both bare.

Be warned, you take this aggressive approach with a guy this shy, and you'll end up having a man on your hands. If you really like him, it won't be a problem, but if it's just a casual thing your after, this isn't the guy. He'll take the overt sexual relations as a sign you want a romantic involvement and consider you his "special lady." The upside is, this kind of man is completely loyal, and he'll probably never have eyes for anyone else.

Make sure there are no other monkeys around. Sometimes some monkeys feel shy around other monkeys. If you have a monkey saying see no evil, another monkey saying hear no evil and another one saying do no evil you might have to do special tutoring. You will have to show him that you aren't evil. That way he might be willing to monkey around with you.

Ecstasy...wait, no.

Maybe talk to him about it?

Millions of people in the world and communication gets broadsided in favor of asking a singles site...

tell him you are tired of acting like the one born with the cojones and he needs to get with the program...give him a few hardcore porn videos and a gift certificate to the local whore house...that should season him up for you...

Two weeks....no kidding

he loves you but cant kiss you? did he tell you that?

i agree with this... i think op should back off a lil.. give him some time if she cares bout him.. if nothing happens maybe there is a reason.. please tell him that you need to feel desired in a relationship.. then back off see what happens..

has his heart been broken?...sometimes a guy can get withdrawn due to lack of confidense...especially if his heart has been through the ringer a time or two. once he warms up though, he will be loyal, and totally in love.

i cant believe you all are being so judgmental off her words... the info i s not there perhaps he has shared this with her? and she is speaking the words he told her? or you arent there for god sakes! maybe she feels this? two weeks can be 336 hours together for all you know! or perhaps it could be like 2 weeks when 2 people dont know if they have a connection and be humm 8 hours? there is a huge difference is there not?

i think that was a nice answer!