Hey people sorry to bother u all but need some advice... I broke up with my ex 2 years ago cos he was very bad to me.... Since then I've had no luck so I decided to move to the nearest city to change my lifestyle this was over 2 months ago since the move things have got worse every single day something wrong seems to happen. Wot shud I do shud I stick this move out or move bk home (like everyone says I wud) people tell me this is god testing me and that u have to make ur own luck.... But I'm really starting to feel really down pls help x

Don't dwell in the past. Move on with your life. Get out there and meet new people, make new friends, don't let anyone bring you down. It's not easy, but you need to believe in yourself, and love yourself before anyone can possibly love you.

we all go through rough patches, we have to figure out the best way to get through them and what works best for US,,,,I dont think anyone else can really tell you that

sometimes, the 'problems' we face arent at all because of where we are geographically as they are because of where we are 'emotionally'


I would start there, deciding what you need EMOTIONALLY and a plan that would best help you with the resources to find it

well its called a new start and thats wht it is....when you move somewhere new its a struggle to get on your feet and to get to that place where everything is alright.

on top of that where you are emotionally will definitely have an effect on where you are...who you live with and what you do.

just remember why you moved and take it one step at a time....one day at a time. if you have a shitty day...then be thankful when that day is done because tmrw is another day and who knows what could happen.

you can do this....:)

you have made it two months already :)

best of luck to you!

That's an easy one.... 2 words

"FENG SHUI" your new place... It takes time and effort but DO IT!

Even if you don't believe

don't even think of going back, that would be bad for your self esteem and confidence. don't be a quitter by any means. hang tough and life will open up for you again in no time. good luck,,,

I can understand what you are going through right now. The only difference is I didn't move, I just stayed isolated from others. After leaving a bad situation it takes time to want to be around others again and that's where I finally am. Just think about what you want and take it day by day, that's all I did and it does get easier. I learned how to scare people off before and now I'm learning how to trust all over again. It's been a long process but it's paying off by meeting the right kind of people that I want in my life now.
Hang in there, I hope things start to get better for you. :-)

things will get better just be strong and keep faith in your self

Thank u everyone for taking the time to comment I have read each one and each one has given me a little more faith that I can do this x

nothing lasts forever, and while we hate to see the good times end, take comfort knowing that this too shall pass..."what doesnt kill you makes you stronger"...have faith in yourself.

peace.

Its always toughest when you move to a new place in the beginning. What if the worst is behind you and things will get better from here? Theres an old saying..."You cant go home again" This is very true. Give yourself some more time...if you still feel this way after a year thats different, but I have the feeling it wont. If you give up and go back you will never forgive yourself, and always wonder "what if" . better to have regrets in life than die regretting not trying things. Good luck Lovey

I think thats a good start!!!

I learned a lot through geographical moves. Home is where you are.

i want to start by saying that im sorry that your feeling down. things dont always work out the way we plan. maybe your expectations are too high. you should relax and take life a little easier. you are a young and very beautiful girl, there's plenty of time to meet new people in your life. if you think that God is testing you than you should place your focus and concern on him. if noone else shows you the attention, appreciation, and love that you deserve, please know that he does. i hope everything works out for you. keep your head up girl.

Working out is like taking happy pills (anti-depressants) or sex.

I started and absolutely love it. I feel so much better about myself and I am getting back in shape and losing weight!!

yeah-just take care of you & the rest will fall into place eventually

Belfast is a pretty part of the world. I've been there 5 times, and if nothing else, you're in a reasonably civilized part of the world, unlike Bellefontaine, Ohio. Perhaps it's your choice in places you chose to hang out?