Here is a really good topic to discuss because rather you are in a relationship or dating nobody communicates any more. I need a good woman that likes to conversate and look me in the eyes. A woman who wants to be swept of her feet.

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Well, my mom used to tell me that men and women communicate differently so things will be more exciting. If everything was easy and the same, then the world would be so predictably boring. In my opinion, though, it's to learn from each other through interaction.

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well we communicate differently because we ARE different...hmmm i think most women just don't get how men think, therefore they feel alienated and that's what brings on the fits of needy, sniveling biotchiness...

Without communication you have nothing. Honestly I'm a talker and if the one I'm with does not talk sorry to say they want be around long...... I'm no mind reader

some people are uncomfortable with display of emotion. it can be a cultural, or personal habit, or both. sometimes it's a fear of the reaction that makes people not talk a lot or express themselves, sometimes maturity, or just how they r - like I am naturally quiet. The internet has been good for me as far as communication.

it's better to just be urself - only way to know if the 1 u r with is the 1 for u

Communication is overrated.

yeah being and LIKING yourself is a must

it only seem another communicate differently, if one does not understand another completely?

if the hearer, always assumes and insists to themself, that any they hear speaking are speaking perfectly, then one cannot help but to know what the speaker is trying to say?

not missed, to notion of believing another is speaking perfectly is quite the task, since the emotion envoked within within self by hearing another's words, is what is felt most, buyt if one surpases this, and ignores their own feelings, then they can jump on the wave of the speakers feelings, and this in itself is truly the beginning inception of completely understanding another...

such has no bearing on whether the speaker be male or female, adult or child, good or evil, lol...

for one that hears the words of aonther, with no regard to their own feelings in the matter, shall hear all, and increase understanding of the human plight to immeasurable proportions.

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I havent really met any guys that are really into communication. weird.
Unless you include cracking jokes and giving compliments.

Actually, if you take away language, everyone communicates exactly the same. Tone and body language are the same all over.

i have said this a million times....


men are wired sooooooo different than us.....

we just do not take the time to notice that....


they think different
they have different needs


if we all as women...knew that...there would not be a battle of the sexes.....


and both our genders would be happy and satisfied.....


but...........

I'm the opposite. Everyone I've met wants to natter away, and never about the deep soulful things, but the little, surface things.

To an extent, I think communication in general is overrated. We've gotten into this psychological thing where we are supposed to talk about everything. My animals know what I'm saying without me having to say a word! For once, I'd like a guy more in tune with his body language.

I just want some occassional, not uncomfortable, quiet time with a guy. If we're going to talk, lets get deeper about it. That's why I'm not really impressed by men (and women) who don't read. I want to sit down and enjoy a conversation over a book we both read, dang it!

Communication is icing on the cake, but it can also cover a lot of issues.

well Ricky and Monique never had to communicate because they used the "Language of LOVE" (Better Off Dead-John Cuzack)

Its because there are no true earthlings any more. When the earth was invaded by Venus and Mars by the joint alien abductions all the earthlings were put in a secret laboratory for further scientific study. A book was left by mistake.

so, like, where exactly are these dudes who dont like conversation...? cause the ones I know never shut the Frack up...

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