Topic: 9/11 Father: 'I Don't Understand All of This Hate'
msharmony's photo
Sat 09/11/10 03:59 PM
Edited by msharmony on Sat 09/11/10 04:02 PM


would americans ABANDON their philosophies to help outside interests(with dissimilar interests)?



NO, they wouldn't...my point exactly...people hold to their faiths, regardless...


but faith is not an absolute, people of the same faith have multiple interpretations of it


my faith(as I am sure many muslims would also claim) is about peace and love for God and any person who believes in peace and love is therefore a person I am more than willing to 'hold to' in terms of support and defense

am I going to stick up for a christian who has blasphemed God or killed ,,, just because we share the same faith? no

Im much more likely to defend my atheist neighbor than such a CHRISTIAN


so, if there was a war between nations, I am guessing each nation would support their own nation, regardless of the religions existing there,,

Thorb's photo
Sat 09/11/10 04:06 PM
people hold their faiths ... lol

that's why Christians hate ....

It is not in the Christian doctrine to hate ... they are supposed to love their enemies...

I see so many fake Christians its a joke whenever they try to quote the bible as some source of authority.


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Sat 09/11/10 04:12 PM
Edited by mightymoe on Sat 09/11/10 04:14 PM



would americans ABANDON their philosophies to help outside interests(with dissimilar interests)?



NO, they wouldn't...my point exactly...people hold to their faiths, regardless...


but faith is not an absolute, people of the same faith have multiple interpretations of it

am I going to stick up for a christian who has blasphemed God or killed ,,, just because we share the same faith? no

Im much more likely to defend my atheist neighbor than such a CHRISTIAN


so, if there was a war between nations, I am guessing each nation would support their own nation, regardless of the religions existing there,,



i have to disagree with ya there...i think of it as like a war between atheists and Catholics(just using them as an example). the catholics will always side together, because that's what there god says to do. like a football team, they don't always agree how to win the game, but they are playing for the same reason, to win. i use this analogy because religious people are like a football team, they have the same cohesion and brotherhood a team would have. and they all want the same same thing - to be the best religion, to be right about their god. the "my god is better than your god" kind of thing..
that's why i say when push come to shove with the muslims, don't think that just because you are friends with them would matter in the slightest.

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Sat 09/11/10 04:16 PM





I've seen a lot of them in San Jose. I despise them and their whole race.


Some would see Islam as a religion that has members from all races.

some are blind...


MightyMoe - you haven't been doing very well lately of having a straightforward conversation with me. I have a straight question for you - are you up for a straight answer?

Do you believe that Islam is not a religion that has members from more than one race?




i think of it more a cult, and the are everywhere, from russia to africa,
so yes, they are of many different races... and this has what to do with their philosophy of your either with us or against us? i hear people saying all the time that they know a few, and they are the nicest people around... but do yall honestly think that when push comes to shove, that they are going to abandon their philosophy and help the US interests?


MightyMoe - thank you for elaborating! I may have misunderstood your post because I tend to assume that when a person quotes another and makes a statement, they are responding directly to the quoted statement. So when you said that some are blind, I wondered if you were questioning my claim that Islam "has members from all races." Thanks for clarifying.

and this has what to do with their philosophy of your either with us or against us?


I was just pointing out that one of the Muslim-bashers on this site may be mistaken in his impression that Muslims are all of one race. Thats it.

Being factual in this matter might be important when addressing the way that some fear-mongers prey on already existing bigotries - and tendencies towards fear and hatred. Racism, sexism, xenophobia, religious intolerance...I don't thinks is hard to sublimate one into another. I mean, if you are willing to set aside facts and logic.

i hear people saying all the time that they know a few, and they are the nicest people around... but do yall honestly think that when push comes to shove, that they are going to abandon their philosophy and help the US interests?


Can we be a little more specific? Which parts of their philosophy? Which parts of US interests? Can we deal with a specific example?

Every person has a philosophy, which (thankfully!) is not entirely in lock step with some arbitrary concept of 'the US interest'. I support people standing up for their personal beliefs, regardless of what some high cleric or some US official dictates.

And I would fully expect that the peaceful Muslims I know would be on the side of sensibility and sanity - which is more than I can say for some people who think they are "pro US".


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Sat 09/11/10 04:39 PM






I've seen a lot of them in San Jose. I despise them and their whole race.


Some would see Islam as a religion that has members from all races.

some are blind...


MightyMoe - you haven't been doing very well lately of having a straightforward conversation with me. I have a straight question for you - are you up for a straight answer?

Do you believe that Islam is not a religion that has members from more than one race?




i think of it more a cult, and the are everywhere, from russia to africa,
so yes, they are of many different races... and this has what to do with their philosophy of your either with us or against us? i hear people saying all the time that they know a few, and they are the nicest people around... but do yall honestly think that when push comes to shove, that they are going to abandon their philosophy and help the US interests?


MightyMoe - thank you for elaborating! I may have misunderstood your post because I tend to assume that when a person quotes another and makes a statement, they are responding directly to the quoted statement. So when you said that some are blind, I wondered if you were questioning my claim that Islam "has members from all races." Thanks for clarifying.

and this has what to do with their philosophy of your either with us or against us?


I was just pointing out that one of the Muslim-bashers on this site may be mistaken in his impression that Muslims are all of one race. Thats it.

Being factual in this matter might be important when addressing the way that some fear-mongers prey on already existing bigotries - and tendencies towards fear and hatred. Racism, sexism, xenophobia, religious intolerance...I don't thinks is hard to sublimate one into another. I mean, if you are willing to set aside facts and logic.

i hear people saying all the time that they know a few, and they are the nicest people around... but do yall honestly think that when push comes to shove, that they are going to abandon their philosophy and help the US interests?


Can we be a little more specific? Which parts of their philosophy? Which parts of US interests? Can we deal with a specific example?

Every person has a philosophy, which (thankfully!) is not entirely in lock step with some arbitrary concept of 'the US interest'. I support people standing up for their personal beliefs, regardless of what some high cleric or some US official dictates.

And I would fully expect that the peaceful Muslims I know would be on the side of sensibility and sanity - which is more than I can say for some people who think they are "pro US".



is it a better life than they had before they came here? they are making a living here, hopefully a better living, or why else would they be here? are they here going to school and and care about our way of life? if they are refugees, where does their loyalties lay?
don't get me wrong, i'm not saying to lock them up like they did the japs in WW2, but in every other country they "occupied" or lived in, the riots start when they get to about 4-5% of the population, and gets worse as the population(muslim) gets higher... india, one of the most true and oldest democracies on the planet, is having riots right now where the muslims want to take part of it away for themselves. France, has been having riots for years now, because the muslims want their way...England, Russia, most African nations, Finland, Germany, and a host of others have had major riots from muslims.(they said the same thing in those countries too, about how peace loving they are)...

Dragoness's photo
Sun 09/12/10 08:01 PM
Prove that the riots are caused by Muslims in those countries.

The middle eastern countries have been warring with themselves for a long time. Christians used to be a good part of that. It is one of the main reasons for the residual anger towards Christians from the Muslims today.

I have yet to see the riots are caused by Muslims in any of the countries you listed.

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Sun 09/12/10 08:04 PM


9/11 Father: 'I Don't Understand All of This Hate'
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(Sept. 9) -- Of all the things he carries in his heart -- grief, pain, longing and loss -- Lee Ielpi refuses to carry hate.

He carried the body of his firefighter son, 29-year-old Jonathan Ielpi, from the choking, twisted rubble of the World Trade Center. That was burden enough for the father of four grown children who gave 26 years of his life to the Fire Department of New York.

Nine years later, he has no time for the rhetoric of a small Florida pastor who said he would burn copies of the "evil" Quran, Islam's holy book, on the ninth anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks. The pastor, Terry Jones, announced Thursday afternoon that he was calling off the plans but later said he might reconsider the cancellation.


Retired New York City firefighter Lee Ielpi, seen here in December 2001 at the site of the World Trade Center in New York, volunteered in the recovery effort and helped carry his son Jonathan's remains from the site.
"I don't understand all of this hate," Ielpi, 66, told AOL News. "I'm not sure where these things come from. What's it going to do except promote hate?"

He pleads for tolerance. Especially on Saturday.

"It should be a special day to remember these people," he says. "You know how many people are still missing? Where they've found nothing (of them)? One thousand, one hundred and twenty-five."

Tribute WTC Visitor Center, which Ielpi helped found while city planners argued over a memorial site at ground zero, issued a public statement earlier this week saying it would be "disrespectful" to protest a planned Islamic center two blocks away. Both sides of the project have called for demonstrations Saturday.

Ielpi will be at the 16-acre graveyard where he helped dig his son from the ashes, watching the annual memorial, listening to its somber reading of the names of more than 2,700 -- firefighters, paramedics, office workers, busboys, janitors, financial executives, airline pilots, passengers and flight attendants -- who perished when two hijacked jetliners slammed into the twin towers.
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"People ask constantly, 'What's it like?' And I have a very simple answer: It's been nine years since I've seen my son."

Jonathan Ielpi was a husband and father of two young sons when he died in the towers. His father rushed to the wreckage and started to dig. So did Jonathan's brother, Brendan, just four months on the job as a firefighter in Brooklyn.

Days turned into weeks, but the Ielpi men kept digging. They helped carry out many bodies, and pieces of bodies, but none belonged to Jonathan.

The family had a funeral without his remains. Still, father and son kept dragging themselves to the steaming site. Every day, for hours and hours, they shoveled and pulled and heaved. Firefighters have a code: No one is left behind. Every firefighter gets carried out by his comrades.

It was winter when rescuers finally found Ielpi's first-born. They called Lee Ielpi at home on Long Island. On a cold December morning, Lee and Brendan helped carry the stretcher that bore what was left of Jonathan. By their sides were Jonathan's colleagues from Engine 288 in Queens.

"We were blessed," Ielpi says. "We were blessed that we got to carry him out."

Brendan Ielpi is still fighting fires in Brooklyn. Jonathan's boys are now 18 and 12. Their mother has remarried.

She has trouble talking about Jonathan's death, Ielpi says. Andrew, the eldest, has trouble talking about his father's death. Austin, the youngest, has no real memories of his dad. He was 3 years old on Sept. 11, 2001.

"It's hard for all the children who've grown up without a mom or dad," he says. "There is no rest. There is zero rest for the families."

Asked how he copes with what he carries in his heart, Ielpi breaks down. "I don't know," he says. "I'm able to talk about it, every day."

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At Tribute WTC, next to ground zero, Ielpi gives guided tours of the site, and of the visitor's center that contains artifacts including Jonathan's battered yellow "turncoat" with his last name stenciled on the back. He has become an activist for the families left behind.

The organization he helped establish provides education tutorials on its website for teaching children the lessons of 9/11. Lessons that include what it's like to suffer loss and how to continue living when it may seem easier to succumb to anger or despair.

"Tomorrow can be a better day," Ielpi says. "I can't bring my son back. I wish to God that I could. But maybe I can make a better day for my grandkids. That's what we're trying to do."

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This tore my heart out.sad

flowerforyou




And they wanna build a Mosque down the street from this and keep these wounds fresh on these poor people.

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Sun 09/12/10 08:14 PM
This father believes it would be healing for all to bring us together.


TonkaTruck3's photo
Sun 09/12/10 08:57 PM
There is no healing and coming together with Muslims. They reject everything non-Islamic.

War with them is the better option.

Dragoness's photo
Sun 09/12/10 09:36 PM
noway

Lpdon's photo
Sun 09/12/10 09:58 PM

This father believes it would be healing for all to bring us together.




98% of the families of the victims don't want the Mosque there. They believe they have the right to build there but they don't want it there, it would hurt to much. Quite a few families said in interviews that they wouldn't go to the public memorials today becsause of the plans to build one.

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Sun 09/12/10 10:00 PM

noway


Actually, he is right. Just look at a verse from the Qur'an itself.

At-Tawba (Surah 9:5), stating Koran 9:5 "Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them."

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Sun 09/12/10 11:09 PM




would americans ABANDON their philosophies to help outside interests(with dissimilar interests)?



NO, they wouldn't...my point exactly...people hold to their faiths, regardless...


but faith is not an absolute, people of the same faith have multiple interpretations of it

am I going to stick up for a christian who has blasphemed God or killed ,,, just because we share the same faith? no

Im much more likely to defend my atheist neighbor than such a CHRISTIAN


so, if there was a war between nations, I am guessing each nation would support their own nation, regardless of the religions existing there,,



i have to disagree with ya there...i think of it as like a war between atheists and Catholics(just using them as an example). the catholics will always side together, because that's what there god says to do. like a football team, they don't always agree how to win the game, but they are playing for the same reason, to win. i use this analogy because religious people are like a football team, they have the same cohesion and brotherhood a team would have. and they all want the same same thing - to be the best religion, to be right about their god. the "my god is better than your god" kind of thing..
that's why i say when push come to shove with the muslims, don't think that just because you are friends with them would matter in the slightest.


I disagree because the world is not politically or geographically divided by religions,, the nation one lives in can have multiple religions and if that nation is UNDER fire or UNDER seize, its reasonable that the people of that nation will suddenly unite under their NATIONALITY, with religion aside,,,,9/11 is a prime example of how something hitting close to home suddenly unites those who are normally divided or bigoted towards each other

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Mon 09/13/10 04:47 AM
Except that outside of the U.S. many of these countries which are harboring or fostering Islamic militants are theocracies or Muslim nations where one cannot practice Judaism or Christianity or other religions openly for fear of bigotry and violence.


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Mon 09/13/10 08:39 AM

Except that outside of the U.S. many of these countries which are harboring or fostering Islamic militants are theocracies or Muslim nations where one cannot practice Judaism or Christianity or other religions openly for fear of bigotry and violence.




even with that being true, those places are not technologically advanced or large enough to pose real threat to the rest of the worlds countries,,,

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Mon 09/13/10 11:10 AM
Edited by AllenAqua on Mon 09/13/10 11:11 AM
Hate is a useless and counter productive emotion. It always stems from fear and doesn't require introspection in any profound way.

Instead of spending my limited time on earth hating and despising folks for their views, creeds, skin color or religion, I think I'd rather enjoy and encourage others to enjoy the diversity that makes life interesting.

It's only by random happenstance that I wasn't born a Muslim, a Jew, African American, or anything else that people love to hate in this country.

When I was growing up, it was the Communist who were demonized, no matter their sincere motivations or true intentions. Now it's the Islamic faiths, no matter theirs...

If you want to spend your life blaming and hating, that's your prerogative in a free society, but when you incite others to follow your prejudices with spiteful hurtful actions, you're not only being small minded and sophomoric, you're also sowing what you'll eventually reap.

Or... You can choose to be the bigger person and teach by example...

jmo




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Mon 09/13/10 11:32 AM
Edited by s1owhand on Mon 09/13/10 11:34 AM


Except that outside of the U.S. many of these countries which are harboring or fostering Islamic militants are theocracies or Muslim nations where one cannot practice Judaism or Christianity or other religions openly for fear of bigotry and violence.




even with that being true, those places are not technologically advanced or large enough to pose real threat to the rest of the worlds countries,,,


You mean Iran is not "advanced" like Afghanistan? laugh

http://nymag.com/news/articles/wtc/gallery/

or do you mean that Yemen and Pakistan are not "advanced" like Indonesia?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/USS_Cole_bombing

or do you mean all of these are completely isolated and
non-threatening incidents?

surprised

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2008_Mumbai_attacks

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/16/jakarta-bombing-video-exp_n_237013.html

I don't understand all the Hate either but almost all the horrible
hateful terrorist attacks currently going on in this world are
being perpetrated by Islamic terrorists. There is no denying this
fact. Regardless of how primitive their society may be.






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Mon 09/13/10 12:56 PM


noway


Actually, he is right. Just look at a verse from the Qur'an itself.

At-Tawba (Surah 9:5), stating Koran 9:5 "Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them."


"If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives."
(Leviticus 20:13)


"You shall not carve idols for yourselves in the shape of anything in the sky above or on the earth below or in the waters beneath the earth; you shall not bow down before them or worship them. For I, the Lord, your God, am a jealous God, inflicting punishment for their father's wickedness on the children of those who hate me, down to the third and fourth generation" (Exodus 20:4-5)


"Happy those who seize your children and smash them against a rock." (Psalms 137:9)


"As you approach a town to attack it, first offer its people terms for peace. If they accept your terms and open the gates to you, then all the people inside will serve you in forced labor. But if they refuse to make peace and prepare to fight, you must attack the town. When the LORD your God hands it over to you, kill every man in the town. But you may keep for yourselves all the women, children, livestock, and other plunder. You may enjoy the spoils of your enemies that the LORD your God has given you. But these instructions apply only to distant towns, not to the towns of nations nearby. "As for the towns of the nations the LORD your God is giving you as a special possession, destroy every living thing in them. You must completely destroy the Hittites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites, just as the LORD your God has commanded you. This will keep the people of the land from teaching you their detestable customs in the worship of their gods, which would cause you to sin deeply against the LORD your God." (Deuteronomy 20:10-18)

msharmony's photo
Mon 09/13/10 04:35 PM



noway


Actually, he is right. Just look at a verse from the Qur'an itself.

At-Tawba (Surah 9:5), stating Koran 9:5 "Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them."


"If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives."
(Leviticus 20:13)


"You shall not carve idols for yourselves in the shape of anything in the sky above or on the earth below or in the waters beneath the earth; you shall not bow down before them or worship them. For I, the Lord, your God, am a jealous God, inflicting punishment for their father's wickedness on the children of those who hate me, down to the third and fourth generation" (Exodus 20:4-5)


"Happy those who seize your children and smash them against a rock." (Psalms 137:9)


"As you approach a town to attack it, first offer its people terms for peace. If they accept your terms and open the gates to you, then all the people inside will serve you in forced labor. But if they refuse to make peace and prepare to fight, you must attack the town. When the LORD your God hands it over to you, kill every man in the town. But you may keep for yourselves all the women, children, livestock, and other plunder. You may enjoy the spoils of your enemies that the LORD your God has given you. But these instructions apply only to distant towns, not to the towns of nations nearby. "As for the towns of the nations the LORD your God is giving you as a special possession, destroy every living thing in them. You must completely destroy the Hittites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites, just as the LORD your God has commanded you. This will keep the people of the land from teaching you their detestable customs in the worship of their gods, which would cause you to sin deeply against the LORD your God." (Deuteronomy 20:10-18)




thank you, as a christian I know how easily people can pick and choose pieces of a book to categorize those who adhere to it,,,

things can become terribly twisted when understood or interpreted out of context and only in snippets,,,,

people quote those types of things to me as some proof that I must condone violence or hatred, which I dont

I see people use the same type of quoting to discredit the integrity or peacefulness of muslims,,,, its trualy a shame

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Mon 09/13/10 07:23 PM


This father believes it would be healing for all to bring us together.




98% of the families of the victims don't want the Mosque there. They believe they have the right to build there but they don't want it there, it would hurt to much. Quite a few families said in interviews that they wouldn't go to the public memorials today becsause of the plans to build one.


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