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Topic: Dating
yellowrose10's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:18 AM
Are you at a point in your life where dating is a waste of time or are you still looking forward to it?

newarkjw's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:28 AM
I'm not really looking forward to dating per se. It would be nice to have someone to hang with. I am not in any hurry.......smokin

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:29 AM
Yeah....the whole dating part isn't something I want. I'd rather hang out with people and shoot pool and if there is in interest with one of them then cool.

The whole first date thing drives me crazy. I have never liked them. I wish I could skip that part and either fast forward through that or erase it

Just too much time and energy for me right now

Teditis's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:31 AM
There ya' go, just the word dating makes my skin crawl... laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:32 AM
Me too. I'm thinking of becoming the recluse cat lady of the neighborhood. Dirty job....but someone has to do it laugh

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Fri 09/03/10 04:47 AM
I don't date just to date. So, when I do find someone I want to date, I look forward to it.

Teditis's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:47 AM
It is a dirty job... but mebbe you'll find a cat-lover fella to help ya' with all those litter boxes!! laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:50 AM

Teditis's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:51 AM
You like purple?? laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:52 AM
I might have to wear yellow dresses. Need something sunshiney in my life huh? laugh

Teditis's photo
Fri 09/03/10 04:59 AM
Sunshine is good... we could all use more of that!!

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Fri 09/03/10 06:55 AM

Are you at a point in your life where dating is a waste of time or are you still looking forward to it?


It would be a waste of time right now because I can't find anyone interesting enough to bother with, around here where I live. I might look forward to it if there was someone actually worth dating.


whispertoascream's photo
Fri 09/03/10 06:58 AM
Dating seemed to work out for me. I am not living with my boyfriend. Things are going great.

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Fri 09/03/10 07:17 AM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Fri 09/03/10 07:21 AM
I think of it in sales terms - I don't 'date' - I 'prospect'. It's really no different than developing new business in a territory.

Some will want to use your product, others already have their vendor, and others will never be 'customers'.

Everything in life is a 'sale' of one kind or another.

Oh - while I'm being 'evaluated', I'm also 'evaluating'. That's done in every sales presentation ...

no photo
Fri 09/03/10 07:27 AM
Dating is something that has turned out to be more trouble than its worth...just the idea of getting together with someone I hardly know and spending the nite making "small talk" trying to get to know each other exhausts me even before I step out the door....

If Im going to go out with someone its going to be with a person I already know and feel comfortable with....

So I guess I dont date, I make friends first and then just kind of hang out....

no photo
Fri 09/03/10 08:12 AM

Are you at a point in your life where dating is a waste of time or are you still looking forward to it?


I look forward to meeting/dating someone, but it is cumbersome at times going through the process (until you meet someone that you mesh with - challenging).

Also, as we mature we become more set in our ways, and less tolerant of the nonsense that comes with it........

afriend4you111's photo
Fri 09/03/10 08:15 AM
i have never been in date. i am really eager for my first date. i need a partner who is easy going, open and caring. date is a problem and headache for those who have experienced it more than they should have done if.

Monier's photo
Fri 09/03/10 07:22 PM
I date for fun. I skipped dating for so many years that now when I get a chance to show somebody a good time, I do my best to make sure it's fun.

Dating is just getting to know somebody. It's not a hassle if you have the time for it.

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Fri 09/03/10 07:26 PM
Dating is not for me , But I love to hang out, Ijust go for the B'spitchfork

casp11414's photo
Sat 09/04/10 04:41 AM
i want to have a boyfriend..........any volunteerS???????/

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