I must be pretty darn ugly, a girl on another site like this, send me a message, seemed nice, I really didnt care that she was a little over weight and has a lazy eye, she seemed nice, so we chatted on yahoo messenger (her idea) she asked for another pic, so I sent her one, and never talked to me again, lol
Just found it kind of funny, shes over weight and the strange eye, and she turned me down, lol
Just thought Id share, lol

did you ask her to look at the pic again with her good eye?
no seriously, I don't pretend to know why some people do the things they do, but I'm sorry she hurt your feelings.
You might want to reevaluate though if you think how dare SHE reject YOU "looking like she does."
No one looks good with that attitude.

Regardless of whom is rejecting us (in life), it's not fun to have our feelings hurt.

Everyone has preferences despite our individual looks; appearance, after all, is subjective.

In this case, she also deserves to find her “Mr. Perfect” even if you think that should be a guy “uglier” than you (I used your word).

Hummm way to avoid that is put up a picture that others can see your face... There is nothing like a big surprise of what someone looks like after you start talking to them.....

Do I hear a little bitterness

we all get rejected

so what???

So she was overweight and had a bad eye

she didn't like ya

do you care that much?

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" ... unh-huh ...

It's not about being ugly .. it's about her connection with you -

Not whether you're attractive, but whether she is attracted

While I understand that you may be hurt by the rejection, what makes you think that because someone is overweight and isn't perfect that they have to be interested in just anyone? Everyone has their preferences.

Those lazy eyes can pack on the pounds.

But you...you are getting a wee rataliatory
about it. You need a better attitude...a 'don't
take anything personally' strategy.
As opposed to outing her here in the forums.

that'll teach ya.....you gotta dump them before they get a chance to dump you....quite simple,huh ?

I dated an absolutely stunning Armenian woman for some time. I even got her a bank job in the programming department. She was blind to both eyes.

In two years we saved (she and I) enough money for her to get an operation. It was a weird disease, the liquid in her brain was produced too much, and over the years it made her blind gradually. By the time we met, she had zero vision. The high-pressure liquid put so much pressure to the backside of her brain that it caused total blindness. The operation was not paid for by the Canadian government 'coz she was not a citizen yet.

She went for the operation, got out of the hospital elated, "I can see again!!", she took one look at me and turned right around and went back into the building, requesting a total reversal of the procedure.

In all due respect, to people with vision problems, that last paragraph was not true. But she did drop me, and to her credit, in five years she paid me back my share of the costs of the operation.

Always a major red flag, in my experience. We have IM right here -- the minute the Y-word comes up in this context, I'm notifying Admin we've got us a scammer.

I draw the line at a lazy eye.......oooo those things piss me off!

An 'ugly' face changes with love.

An ugly heart....not so much.

Well said, MM!!

Her loss babe!!!!!

Maybe she thought, you were so cute, you were out of her league.

Think Positive!

Please dont think Im bitter, mad, upset or pissed about it, I thought it was funny, thats why I put the "lol" in my post, it was funny, at least I thought it was.

Yes, everyone has "requirements" when it comes to dating, some want or dont a smoker, some want this, or that, or this color hair, that color eyes, etc etc etc. but Im sure that I have pictures posted on my page, lol

Like I said, I thought it was funny, so I thought Id share, maybe you got a laugh like I did.

Thankx for all the kind relies

I love me some strange eye!!!

I wish they had a cross-eyed smiley here!