Hi my name is Becky and I am looking for a man who is nice, honest, goal oriented, and will judge me on my personality and not on my looks. Who also likes kids and wants to have some one day. just read my profile for more or message me.

welcome and best wishes

Hello and Welcome!! In my opinion U are a very pretty lady!!

You want him to be selectively judgmental?

I agree people should embrace “the whole package”. The foundation of acceptance shouldn’t be based on judging a person - especially on certain terms (judge the inside but not the outside or visa versa) – but rather accepting a person for everything they are – warts and all.

I hope you find that special someone and welcome to Mingle

So looks don't matter to you????

i wouldn't mind being a judge in a wet t-shirt contest, or miss world nude contest. i think would be very judgmental then.

Becky my name is Cindy and I just had to post to you. Your quite pretty. We are all beautiful inside. Screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.. Take care girlie...Cinders56

Thanks so much that means a lot to me. an you are righ screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.

yea screw um....

You be you Becky ... and let them be them. If you find your way together then it is a wonderful thing.

Don't judge them if they aren't attracted to you. I am sure that there are many who are not attractive to you too. It is always a selection thing and that is okay.

It isn't you ... it isn't them ... everyone is wonderful and beautiful in their way. We aren't all beautiful together though.

Just be honest and hopefully they will be too. Build from there without a bunch of expectations clogging up the process.

All the best to you and welcome!

Thanks and what you said is very insightful and really makes a point I wish every one could read that cause that is just amazing.

Hieee....How r u..?

Sorry for judging on you looks but you look fine to me.

yea, and screw 'um...