I could easily go without sex if i am in love with someone and she is not ready etc....i won't ever pressure anyone or it won't be good when it finally does happen...it has to feel right or the whole moment is ruined. I don't care how long it takes if she is really genuine.

You could look at it another way...if she had a bad accident (car crash or whatever) and she was unable to have sex...ever. Makes no differnce to me as i don't bail out on anyone....ever. Loyalty is the most important thing in the world.

thanx ron62

um if its not for a long time

if there was never any sex in the relationship at any time then it could be successful, but I was with this guy engaged to be married (he insisted that we atleast be engaged if we were going to keep having sex and I wasn't going to give it up after I had a taste) literally a week after we made that decision (or should I say the first time it came up) I was trying to get him in the mood and he wasn't having it, I chalked it up to having a bad day and walked away. but the last two months of our relationship were totally sex free. and I would not do that. it was like having the yarn dangling in front of my face only to have it ripped away. I am most happy in a relationship where sex is taking place it is a very intimate moment where I man and a woman connect by every definition. and no I wouldn't describe it as eating chocolate when I orgasm its like every positive feeling is rushing over me, its like dipping into a hot tub, it literally is a head rush. now if a girl has never had an orgasm she would not know how great it was. I know a man whos girlfriend wouldn't have sex with them and wouldn't let him masturbate because she says if he masturbates within a week of them doing stuff he lasts too long. I also know a guy who gets sex from his wife but he can't seem to get her to give him head and its putting all this unnecessary stress on the situation.

if that's all that's wrong in there marriage they ain't got no problems,it's not a guys right to have oral done to him that's her perogative

he keeps asking me to and comparing me to her (we had a thing at one point) when they were just dating they had no sex, no nothing. she is LDS. if he wanted a girl he could have had one but I guess thats true ultimately you share that choice with the woman your with.

no sex is the reason 50 year old priests grope 10 year old boys.

humans need physical contact/sex to function normally. being devoid of physical contact for extended periods of time makes people literally psychotic.

single_in_tampa.....I totally disagree with you... That is untrue. (The comments about no contact causing psychotic behavior, that is a disease.)

i agree with this i deff need a cuddle now and then, ***where's Holly when you need her***

touche, humans probably need physical contact, but they dont NEED sex to be happy or healthy

have you ever actually met a 40 year old virgin?

it's not cute and/or adorable like the guy in the film. it's someone that's been profoundly neglected by other humans, and is missing/needs to know how joyful and happy other people can make him/her feel. they've been robbed of one of the fundamental joys we are born to have. it is morally wrong to deny that right to anyone other than yourself.

Psychosis is not a disease. It is a state of extreme distress characterized by a disconnection with reality.

Someone that's just lost an arm in a car accident walking through the wreckage looking for a missing shoe is psychotic.

Someone that's forced to stay awake for 7 days is hearing voices and thinks God wants him/her to do something immediately. That person is psychotic.

In both cases, there is no disease. Just extreme distress.

Being denied one of the fundamental human needs for years and years will make someone psychotic. They will start hearing God, or start seeing children as sexual, or see something really horrible happing to someone else and feel absolutely no empathy. They become disconnected with how normal, healthy people think. They are psychotic.

Well i guess i am just as psychotic as the next guy is. Mental illness is not a disease just an illness that some but few may recover from. There are many many different types of psychosis and mental illnesses.and also many different reasons as to why someone may have them. I got lucky and i figured out why i have my "mental illness" it's just a matter now as to how i can make myself better.

sex is not a need,, our needs are rest, food, air, water and exercise

our culture has caused a psychosis that has people convinced they cant live without it,,,

physical touch is as soothing as any sex,

Yes it is. we all need some sort of "love" or "care" in a physical way whether it be sex or not.

If this is true then I'm totally hosed!!

Maybe I should clean my guns now while I still have my wits about me.

love sex!!!

Can't live without it!!

Need it!!

Want it!!

Gotta have it!!

Enuff said!!!

Physical contact is good. I have residents who have asked me for hugs. It is like one of them will ask for a hug and another one will notice us hugging will ask for a hug, too.

I love to give hugs makes me feel good.

a relationship without hugs is repressed amish couple, not even relevant, a relationship without sex is the topic. like I said if it never went to sex in the first place in an individual relationship it would be fine but if it started out with sex or if sex was in anyway introduced then it needs sex to keep it alive and feed the relationship. I know its sad but its true. so many players I know go cold turkey for girls that draw the line and make it known that whats most important to her is waiting until they are both ready to devote a certain amount of their time and lives and emotion to keeping something alive that they don't really have to wake up in the first place. if it makes sense having sex ruined my last relationship. I am a sexual being but if someone wants to wait I can wait. but then sex was introduced and it became atleast a weekly thing and then I grew to expect it and it just dropped. like I said if your not having it at all with a given partner then your not going to make a big deal about not having it. especially since you have no idea whether your really missing out or not.