I could easily go without sex if i am in love with someone and she is not ready etc....i won't ever pressure anyone or it won't be good when it finally does happen...it has to feel right or the whole moment is ruined. I don't care how long it takes if she is really genuine.

You could look at it another way...if she had a bad accident (car crash or whatever) and she was unable to have sex...ever. Makes no differnce to me as i don't bail out on anyone....ever. Loyalty is the most important thing in the world.

Religion is a distraction device designed to keep us bickering over pointless subjects like "my religion is the TRUE religion" mentality etc etc...it is a perfect way to control people (and the population count)...look at the catholic church as a perfect example of how wealthy you can become when you scare the living daylights out of people by threatening them with hellfire if they refuse to bow to a very illogical (edited) doctrine.

Ask yourself...is it really fair to send a muslim to hell because he rejected christ?...the morals are virtually the same, the God is the same but they just don't accept Christ is the way. If they would have been born in a christian country they would have likely been a christian. Or take the guy in the Amazonian jungle or the siberian forests who have never heard of Jesus...is it fair to send them to hell?...how about babies who die? Christians constantly say salvation is by FAITH but it is not when one takes the time to think a bit. The cases above prove that salvation is a matter of knowledge and also intellect as there are so many things to believe out there with very convincing arguments to different kinds of people, that it is impossible to be anything less than a matter of knowledge and intellect.