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Topic: Super Mario explains relationships to the guys
msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 06:54 PM
I respond because I know there are 2 sides of you and sometimes you let the cynic take over completely. whoa



msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 06:57 PM
Self-Fulfilling prophecy. If you feel like you'll never meet anyone, you won't. If you feel like you won't succeed, you won't. If you think she's going to leave in X number of years, she probably will. Even moreso if you go on about your ex leaving you and you knowing she will too. At some point the whole "screw it" mentality kicks in.



This

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 07/27/10 07:11 PM

I respond because I know there are 2 sides of you and sometimes you let the cynic take over completely. whoa





Myka..dead seriously now..if you put a gun to my head and ask me what I think...or what most people think, I'm a very good guy really. I couldn't hurt a fly and I am someone that many always counts on around in my circle of friends. I don't disappoint. What disappoints me is others not seeing it..and then I get sad..and just being furious inside I start to raise a propaganda..sometimes it's really bad, very sophisticated and convincing..but it's just my revenge back. Most of the time, I don't believe half of what I say or write but I just keep pushing it as far as I can. It's horrible, I know..and I'm sorry.

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 07/27/10 07:11 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 07/27/10 07:36 PM
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no photo
Tue 07/27/10 07:11 PM
personally,
i'd date mario.
or luigi.

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 07:16 PM
Edited by msmyka on Tue 07/27/10 07:16 PM
You don't need to be sorry to me or to anyone else but yourself. You're only doing yourself a disservice and pushing people away when you do that. I know better so that's why I respond the way I do and get in your face a bit.

I've been this way as well, we all have our moments. The important part is to not lose site of who we really are deep down. I find solace in the fact that I know how much I mean to my friends/family and how much they mean to me. So what if some random broad is to self absorbed to see it. She doesn't deserve you anyway.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 07/27/10 08:11 PM


Honestly, not every woman wants a rich man. But women do want someone willing to work, and even if they aren't working and bringing in the money, doing stuff around the place, instead of sitting around watching TV. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship, where they're not equally in the harness? I have a


Ge a job? The hell you say! EW! IU just vomitted! ill ill ill

Geniee's photo
Tue 07/27/10 09:35 PM
Edited by Geniee on Tue 07/27/10 09:35 PM


To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


It is difficult for a man to feel self confident when he feels inadeqate. Time after time we here women say "I love a confident man!" We are competive and feel that we need to be equal or better than the one we persue. Yet when we do this we loose perspective with the whole point in getting into a relationship in the first place, to be accepted and loved by another. When the other loves your money and/or your toys they are in a relationship with those things and not the person.


Right. Most women are attracted to men who are self confident, with or without money. If you happen to have money, I suppose you have to be careful not to date women who don't know the differnce between you and your money.

Maybe this isn't as simple for men, I wouldn't know, since I'm not one...but a man who is hung up on money is easy enough to spot...and not date. Is it harder to tell with women?

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 07/27/10 09:39 PM


Maybe this isn't as simple for men, I wouldn't know, since I'm not one...but a man who is hung up on money is easy enough to spot...and not date. Is it harder to tell with women?


Not when you have a checklist:

http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html

Geniee's photo
Tue 07/27/10 09:50 PM


To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


Demographics don't lie:

http://profiles.nationalrelocation.com/Ohio/Bellefontaine/

Mario's pretty darned accurate for this county.


Sorry Joe, I don't think I'm understanding your point. You'll have to walk me through this. What are these stats supposed to be proving?

Geniee's photo
Tue 07/27/10 10:01 PM



Maybe this isn't as simple for men, I wouldn't know, since I'm not one...but a man who is hung up on money is easy enough to spot...and not date. Is it harder to tell with women?


Not when you have a checklist:

http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html

I never knew they used to be called morally insane.

I wonder if all financial security relationship seekers are sociopaths or if all sociopaths are financial security relationship seekers? :tongue:

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 07/27/10 10:19 PM



To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


Demographics don't lie:

http://profiles.nationalrelocation.com/Ohio/Bellefontaine/

Mario's pretty darned accurate for this county.


Sorry Joe, I don't think I'm understanding your point. You'll have to walk me through this. What are these stats supposed to be proving?


Did you notice the average household income as it compares to the median?

Geniee's photo
Tue 07/27/10 10:58 PM




To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


Demographics don't lie:

http://profiles.nationalrelocation.com/Ohio/Bellefontaine/

Mario's pretty darned accurate for this county.


Sorry Joe, I don't think I'm understanding your point. You'll have to walk me through this. What are these stats supposed to be proving?


Did you notice the average household income as it compares to the median?
Still not seeing the correlation between household and median income and people dating for monetary benifit.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 07/27/10 11:00 PM




Maybe this isn't as simple for men, I wouldn't know, since I'm not one...but a man who is hung up on money is easy enough to spot...and not date. Is it harder to tell with women?


Not when you have a checklist:

http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html

I never knew they used to be called morally insane.

I wonder if all financial security relationship seekers are sociopaths or if all sociopaths are financial security relationship seekers? :tongue:


My own experience with this type, eventually they tell on themselves, or someone close to them does. Once I see the signs, and in particular, if I feel like I can't get away, I know I must. I don't think wanting financial security in a relationship is unreasonable, but when it's the foundation of the relationship, it's doomed from the start.

A sociopath/psychopath serves best in sales, especially if a commission is involved, in much the same way people with OCD make great accountants. Just make sure if you're the employer, you keep close watch on their activities.
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=house+remorse&aq=0

In fact, they're often blend well into society, even after the lying, cheating, and manipulative efforts are exposed, time after time. My own escape from one such person last year was not too different than how a bird escapes the clutches of my favorite cat. No reaction other than rejection, and like my cat, she eventually got bored with me, moving on to her next victim.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 07/27/10 11:09 PM





To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


Demographics don't lie:

http://profiles.nationalrelocation.com/Ohio/Bellefontaine/

Mario's pretty darned accurate for this county.


Sorry Joe, I don't think I'm understanding your point. You'll have to walk me through this. What are these stats supposed to be proving?


Did you notice the average household income as it compares to the median?
Still not seeing the correlation between household and median income and people dating for monetary benifit.


Average Household Income $5,290
Median Household Income $36,029


Survival in this county is primarily by way of redistribution of wealth.

Geniee's photo
Wed 07/28/10 11:10 PM






To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


Demographics don't lie:

http://profiles.nationalrelocation.com/Ohio/Bellefontaine/

Mario's pretty darned accurate for this county.


Sorry Joe, I don't think I'm understanding your point. You'll have to walk me through this. What are these stats supposed to be proving?


Did you notice the average household income as it compares to the median?
Still not seeing the correlation between household and median income and people dating for monetary benifit.


Average Household Income $5,290
Median Household Income $36,029


Survival in this county is primarily by way of redistribution of wealth.



I get you now that I see how you're looking at it. I look at these on a regular basis in my business, and we usually seek out the reasons for such seperations, since these types of stats are kind of week when viewing them from a marketing standpoint.

I have to say, that it doesn't seem to me that if weath is being redistributed in this particular town, they are not doing a very gernerous job of it if the average household income is just over 5K. Ouch!

RKISIT's photo
Thu 07/29/10 01:01 AM
every woman wants to hear level 42 something about you,and after that they do whatever they want...besides the man they are with

mattsk1's photo
Thu 07/29/10 01:21 PM

personally,
i'd date mario.
or luigi.



Thanks for trying to lighten the drama. I thought it was funny!

Aries151's photo
Thu 07/29/10 07:23 PM
DO NOT QUESTION MARIO'S WISDOM!!!

Ahem, but besides that, many of you are misinterpreting his point. You don't have to have money to have a relationship, BUT, having a lot of money is the ONLY way to get out of the "friend" zone once a woman has placed you there.

Either that or having the opportunity / event come up where you do something ridiculously heroic that places your own life in mortal danger and saves a bus load of kindergartners and your face gets plastered all over the evening news and the mayor gives you the key to the city or something....

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