from mingle people in meeting someone in person for the first time ?what are the do's and don'ts?

Meet in a public place.

Bring your own mode of transportation.

Have some cash on you just in case.

Maybe even have a friend come with but stand off in the distance.

Mace or pepper spray burns eyes pretty well.

Dress casual, I like to wear chaps & nipple clamps.

nipple clamps *ouch*

Common sense.
Common sense.
Common sense.

And if he offers you candy to get into the van, don't go.

nipple clamps. will see if we do have that kind of thing here in the PI..lol

Well if you don't have nipple clamps you could try clothes pins

you mean this van?

Who took a picture of my van?!?!

Before meeting talk, get to know them a bit.

May be a good idea to atleast "Google" them, their screen name, email address, etc. just to see if anything comes up. I've found many scammers/suspected scammers by Googling their screen name and email address.

Always carry your cell phone. Let others know when and where you will be.

Always have your own transportation.

Meet in a public area, somewhere you are comfortable.

Be safe and be careful.

Have fun!

This is how they catch me, eh? Damn you, Google, damn you!

Just always remember; SAFTEY FIRST.

Tell a friend the who, what, where; of the meet & a time you will contact them after. Esp for ladies.

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Just remember that it's just a date, not a marriage proposal, or a job interview.

Just like when anyone else asks you out.

do's- Bring condoms and booze

don'ts- ....I don't believe in don'ts

Thats just how I roll

There are no do's and don'ts

you be nothing but true to yourself and who you are meeting!

Bring a loaded Derringer!

Well, you're not meeting me so...


Make sure to tell someone else who you're meeting, when and where. Make sure they know you'll call them when you get back.

I'd recommend dressing modestly, don't go for the "hottie" look, he's already meeting you so you don't have to pick him up.

If you don't have mace or a derringer, possibly a whistle so you can attrack attention if you need too.

Try not to go home with him on the first date. It makes you look desperate.

Short of that, there's good advice above - use it.

For me....

I drop 4 viagra and chase em with a couple shots of Southern Comfort. I meet in a public place (seedy motel) with a long stem rose clenched between my teeth and my pants around my ankles. (To show I am friendly and at ease with myself)

But, that's just how I roll.

And you would be easy to roll.
With your pants around your ankles.
It's a test, isn't it.