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Some women (or men) don't have the ability to be alone. They have to play their cards right to make sure they always have someone. ^^^^ This is the best insight so far. But, next time, ask them. Foresight can be better than insight. |
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But deep down, didn't you feel that something wasn't right? You must had some doubts going on..there is no way a woman who is keeping her options open by dating several men at once, that can truly hide it from you. There are red flags that should start to show during hanging out with her. You are quite right here Atlantis! Most of the time we ignore it, but the intuitiveness is still there. It's just afterwards, when it's full blown thrown in your face that it's painfully obvious. Well, even when we notice in time it can be painful. I had to make a very hard decision a few years ago and I gathered her stuff into bags from my place, drove to her place and I went inside and told her that "you're out, and don't come back please". It hurt me really bad, but I just had to do it..I just couldn't take the lies anymore and I was thinking that it was only gonna become worse. |
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But deep down, didn't you feel that something wasn't right? You must had some doubts going on..there is no way a woman who is keeping her options open by dating several men at once, that can truly hide it from you. There are red flags that should start to show during hanging out with her. You are quite right here Atlantis! Most of the time we ignore it, but the intuitiveness is still there. It's just afterwards, when it's full blown thrown in your face that it's painfully obvious. Well, even when we notice in time it can be painful. I had to make a very hard decision a few years ago and I gathered her stuff into bags from my place, drove to her place and I went inside and told her that "you're out, and don't come back please". It hurt me really bad, but I just had to do it..I just couldn't take the lies anymore and I was thinking that it was only gonna become worse. I agree. 
If you cared, then it will never be easy. It's the ones that you, in the end, really don't care about that should worry you. |
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But deep down, didn't you feel that something wasn't right? You must had some doubts going on..there is no way a woman who is keeping her options open by dating several men at once, that can truly hide it from you. There are red flags that should start to show during hanging out with her. You are quite right here Atlantis! Most of the time we ignore it, but the intuitiveness is still there. It's just afterwards, when it's full blown thrown in your face that it's painfully obvious. Well, even when we notice in time it can be painful. I had to make a very hard decision a few years ago and I gathered her stuff into bags from my place, drove to her place and I went inside and told her that "you're out, and don't come back please". It hurt me really bad, but I just had to do it..I just couldn't take the lies anymore and I was thinking that it was only gonna become worse. I agree.
If you cared, then it will never be easy. It's the ones that you, in the end, really don't care about that should worry you. |
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I try to bring it up early on - within the first few dates - what the expectations of the other person are as far as being exclusive with that person. Then at least I'm not in the dark I guess.
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Edited by
germanchoclate1981
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Mon 07/05/10 06:20 PM
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Some women (or men) don't have the ability to be alone. They have to play their cards right to make sure they always have someone. ^^^^ This is the best insight so far. But, next time, ask them. Foresight can be better than insight. If they were honest to begin with... maybe 40/60 that this would work. If you're seeing someone regularly they should at least give you a chance to be the right guy/girl. If you're seriously dating there should be enough communication between you to notice something else is going on but men and women take this for granted. The lines between friendship and dating has been blurred too far to distinguish which is which. I've always been honest but never got it in return. Both sexes are guilty, but not all people. In the end we need each other, good luck finding one that realizes this truth. |
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yea thanks ill need it
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Simple. Women wait to see which guy (that they are dating at the time) has the bigger schlong. Baggy jeans have hindered a woman's ability to see the "package" size without having to get naked. Now, women resort to the accidental brush up/frisk move, or they just go for thermal imaging (costly though). Anyways, baggy jeans have led women to "stretch the truth" while dating, until they can confirm package size.
Men do it for one reason....we want poon. That is all! |
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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Have no clue have never dated more then one guy at a time..........
I'm one that if I date you then your the only one I'm going out with not into the numbers game.... I like to see if there is something there if so great if not then wait till the next one.... Most times if you are seeing them and it starts to be a daily thing or constant thing you can pretty well figure out if it is exclusive..... |
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I have a feeling there is going to be guys against girls on here pretty soon 
People see levels of commitment differently IMO. I don't ever assume one. If we haven't discussed it, there is not a commitment and men hate discussing commitment....so I seldom bring it up, myself. But if I meet someone else who is open to committing and it is what I have been looking for - ya, I'd throw ya over for him. We all have the right to choose who we want to love & be with. Maybe I am not understanding your expectations/where u r coming from... 
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What do you think about this .....My husband dated while he was with me (dated other girls)that is....
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He left last month (we have two kids) and said I don't love you anymore . It s I leave now or in 18 years when the kids are older >>>>> any advice ????
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He left last month (we have two kids) and said I don't love you anymore . It s I leave now or in 18 years when the kids are older >>>>> any advice ???? 
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no i feel pretty good . I think I am better without him ,,,, soooo I don't cry
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not all women do that
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What do you think about this .....My husband dated while he was with me (dated other girls)that is.... At least it was other girls, I found pics of my ex husband dressed in drag banging a dude! |
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Some women (or men) don't have the ability to be alone. They have to play their cards right to make sure they always have someone.  Yep this is one instance where people do this... they don't have self-esteem and need to always have attention. And/or they don't know how to be alone. Usually these individuals will be the life of the party and have a lot of superficial friends.
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I've noticed this being more and more common over the years... There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it. it's called figuring out if we both want the same sh*te!!! if your responses are vague and non committal then who wouldn't date others? At what point was it agreed upon that you were casually dating exclusively??? Sounds like a whinge whinge, whine, whine to me... Agreed upon parameters by both parties from the getgo, are the ONLY time one can feel slightly disillusioned if one of the parties renegs.. |
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I've noticed this being more and more common over the years... There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.
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