Topic: why do women do this
buttons's photo
Tue 07/06/10 07:53 PM
note* i dont care if someone is "dating" others... that doesnt bother me long as it is honest and open for i dont get that close that fast! however when it becomes more serious i only date one.. and it should be both ways.. but my gawd do people become serious after one date? hummmmm... or sleep together? wow.. i guess im a bit old fashoned!

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:25 AM
ohwell

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Wed 07/07/10 07:26 AM
ohwell

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:40 AM
and to the person whom said whine whine whine when someone makes u think ur exclusive that can be a confidence killer esp when strringin a person along

SexyJen2610's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:17 PM
I hate to tell you this but men do it too. not an exclusive to women type of thing.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:22 PM
besides, it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind....

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:28 PM

I've noticed this being more and more common over the years...
There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.


Guys do it too. grumble

This is not a gender issue; it's a problem of being inconsiderate and narcissistic.

Some people are only out for their immediate pleasure and "what's in it for me."

Date better women! drinker

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:31 PM


I've noticed this being more and more common over the years...
There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.


Guys do it too. grumble

This is not a gender issue; it's a problem of being inconsiderate and narcissistic.

Some people are only out for their immediate pleasure and "what's in it for me."

Date better women! drinker

hm i tried

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:32 PM

Simple. Women wait to see which guy (that they are dating at the time) has the bigger schlong. Baggy jeans have hindered a woman's ability to see the "package" size without having to get naked. Now, women resort to the accidental brush up/frisk move, or they just go for thermal imaging (costly though). Anyways, baggy jeans have led women to "stretch the truth" while dating, until they can confirm package size.




Absolutely! drinker

I like to kick the tires and take a test drive before I lease the car (I'm not ready to buy yet). :thumbsup: tongue2

There is nothing worse than a short shifter – and I am not talking about the after-market s shifter. laugh

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Sat 07/10/10 09:38 PM

I hate to tell you this but men do it too. not an exclusive to women type of thing.


Yes....yes....Men are pigs....women are biatches. This has all been covered.

Irish....try this philosophy. If she doesn't swallow...then you don't want her.:thumbsup: :laughing: :laughing:

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:42 PM

besides, it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind....
that may be true but dont string the guy along either is my point but ohhh well seing ur responce i take it u do that stuff too

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:43 PM


Simple. Women wait to see which guy (that they are dating at the time) has the bigger schlong. Baggy jeans have hindered a woman's ability to see the "package" size without having to get naked. Now, women resort to the accidental brush up/frisk move, or they just go for thermal imaging (costly though). Anyways, baggy jeans have led women to "stretch the truth" while dating, until they can confirm package size.




Absolutely! drinker

I like to kick the tires and take a test drive before I lease the car (I'm not ready to buy yet). :thumbsup: tongue2

There is nothing worse than a short shifter – and I am not talking about the after-market s shifter. laugh
must be losey goosy then

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:43 PM
gah no ore replies gettin insensative aholes here

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:46 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sat 07/10/10 09:50 PM



Simple. Women wait to see which guy (that they are dating at the time) has the bigger schlong. Baggy jeans have hindered a woman's ability to see the "package" size without having to get naked. Now, women resort to the accidental brush up/frisk move, or they just go for thermal imaging (costly though). Anyways, baggy jeans have led women to "stretch the truth" while dating, until they can confirm package size.




Absolutely! drinker

I like to kick the tires and take a test drive before I lease the car (I'm not ready to buy yet). :thumbsup: tongue2

There is nothing worse than a short shifter – and I am not talking about the after-market s shifter. laugh

must be losey goosy then



Unless you are trying to insult me, I suggest you rephrase that comment. No insults please. grumble I was talking to Goof anyway.

Besides, I teach yoga - doesn't apply to me. :angel: I'm sure you know the physiological explanation as to why your "comment" doesn't apply. winking laugh

iRon's photo
Sat 07/10/10 09:54 PM
It takes time but in any relationship all people will eventually show their true colors. So, when they show their colors and you don’t like what you see be grateful that you wasted no more time on them and move on. It’s simple.drinker

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Sat 07/10/10 10:10 PM

I've noticed this being more and more common over the years...
There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.


I haven't read any of the responses so this may have already been said. If your just dating someone a couple times. You should be dating other people as well. Sounds to me and keep in mind I'm no Chuck Woolery, but it seems you may fall fast when your dating. Which is understandable you seem like a nice guy from posts I've read of yours. Maybe just slow things down when you date and just have fun. Take this one out one night, another the next. Then I'm sure when it looks like your unattainable someone will persist to make you theirs.

misterfreeze's photo
Sat 07/10/10 10:10 PM

I've noticed this being more and more common over the years...
There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.


I haven't read any of the responses so this may have already been said. If your just dating someone a couple times. You should be dating other people as well. Sounds to me and keep in mind I'm no Chuck Woolery, but it seems you may fall fast when your dating. Which is understandable you seem like a nice guy from posts I've read of yours. Maybe just slow things down when you date and just have fun. Take this one out one night, another the next. Then I'm sure when it looks like your unattainable someone will persist to make you theirs.

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Sat 07/10/10 10:44 PM

and to the person whom said whine whine whine when someone makes u think ur exclusive that can be a confidence killer esp when strringin a person along
what part of there is not a commitment unless it has been discussed was not in English? Someone can't "make" u think anything - you own ur own thoughts - u cannot assume that there is exclusivity or a commitment unless it has been agreed upon- verbally, not telepathicallywhoa

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Sun 07/11/10 02:43 PM
Edited by 28chacha on Sun 07/11/10 02:45 PM

I've noticed this being more and more common over the years...
There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.


Few dates mean you're getting to know her and becoming more involved. It doesn't mean it is "involved."

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 07/11/10 02:54 PM


besides, it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind....
that may be true but dont string the guy along either is my point but ohhh well seing ur responce i take it u do that stuff too


Do "that stuff"....laugh

Um yea..I've spent my entire life learning to be a woman to do "that stuff".