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Topic: why do women do this
irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Mon 07/05/10 05:37 PM
I've noticed this being more and more common over the years... There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Mon 07/05/10 05:39 PM
It is called playing both sides of the fence. You got to keep your pimp hand strong! Instead of playing their game make them play yours. Make them compete for your attention with each other!

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Mon 07/05/10 05:41 PM
I can't answer cuz I don't do that, but for the record men do it too.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Mon 07/05/10 05:41 PM
Probably because they are testing the water and seeing what's out there before making a decision...which I think is wrong Men are the same way too

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Mon 07/05/10 05:42 PM
Sounds like you have encountered my ex girlfriend or a carbon copy of her..LOL! It's because they can. And that's the shortest explanation. Good looking women are well aware of the fact that they got several guys who competes for them or if not, then they can just get one within hours with showing some skin, when you aren't around. Either way, it's best to avoid these type of women..they just need you there as a side kick or as an "option" and not as a "final choice".

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Mon 07/05/10 05:43 PM
I can't answer cuz I don't do that, but for the record men do it too. Exactly!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 07/05/10 05:44 PM
I can't answer cuz I don't do that, but for the record men do it too. Ditto.

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Mon 07/05/10 05:44 PM
Sounds like you have encountered my ex girlfriend or a carbon copy of her..LOL! It's because they can. And that's the shortest explanation. Good looking women are well aware of the fact that they got several guys who competes for them or if not, then they can just get one within hours with showing some skin, when you aren't around. Either way, it's best to avoid these type of women..they just need you there as a side kick or as an "option" and not as a "final choice". yea what you said is very true just sucks people have to be like that sometimes what happened to the good old days when honesty was the norm

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 07/05/10 05:45 PM
well just for the record... no man has ever done that to me... just women...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 07/05/10 05:46 PM
Sounds like you have encountered my ex girlfriend or a carbon copy of her..LOL! It's because they can. And that's the shortest explanation. Good looking women are well aware of the fact that they got several guys who competes for them or if not, then they can just get one within hours with showing some skin, when you aren't around. Either way, it's best to avoid these type of women..they just need you there as a side kick or as an "option" and not as a "final choice". yea what you said is very true just sucks people have to be like that sometimes what happened to the good old days when honesty was the norm There were no "good old days" and honesty has never been the norm in the whole history of the human race. But, I understand your frustration.

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Mon 07/05/10 05:46 PM
Can we say jaded?

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45349	Mon 07/05/10 05:47 PM
I've noticed this being more and more common over the years... There's women who you will go on a few dates with and lead you onto things being serious, for example talking about being boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting an exclusive thing. Then you find out they've been wanting or have been dating someone else on the side. I've had several experiences with this and don't understand why they do it. Sounds like you had at least three opportunities to ask them why. The only sound explanation I can come up with is, are you a Republican? This usually explains everything.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Mon 07/05/10 05:47 PM
I have a feeling there is going to be guys against girls on here pretty soon

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 07/05/10 05:48 PM
Some women (or men) don't have the ability to be alone. They have to play their cards right to make sure they always have someone.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Mon 07/05/10 05:49 PM
Sounds like you have encountered my ex girlfriend or a carbon copy of her..LOL! It's because they can. And that's the shortest explanation. Good looking women are well aware of the fact that they got several guys who competes for them or if not, then they can just get one within hours with showing some skin, when you aren't around. Either way, it's best to avoid these type of women..they just need you there as a side kick or as an "option" and not as a "final choice". yea what you said is very true just sucks people have to be like that sometimes what happened to the good old days when honesty was the norm But deep down, didn't you feel that something wasn't right? You must had some doubts going on..there is no way a woman who is keeping her options open by dating several men at once, that can truly hide it from you. There are red flags that should start to show during hanging out with her.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 07/05/10 05:50 PM
Women are just evil.........

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Mon 07/05/10 05:51 PM
I have a feeling there is going to be guys against girls on here pretty soon that's not what i was hoping would happen on this thread . i just figured maybe i could get a few helpful insights on here

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 07/05/10 05:51 PM
I have a feeling there is going to be guys against girls on here pretty soon that's not what i was hoping would happen on this thread . i just figured maybe i could get a few helpful insights on here Choose but choose wisely. That's the best I got.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Mon 07/05/10 05:53 PM
But deep down, didn't you feel that something wasn't right? You must had some doubts going on..there is no way a woman who is keeping her options open by dating several men at once, that can truly hide it from you. There are red flags that should start to show during hanging out with her. You are quite right here Atlantis! Most of the time we ignore it, but the intuitiveness is still there. It's just afterwards, when it's full blown thrown in your face that it's painfully obvious.

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Mon 07/05/10 05:56 PM