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Topic: I met my ex husband online and...
SillynSerious's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:25 AM
well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...

RowBaby's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:30 AM
I get approached by both but mostly people truly interested in me. I think that is because when distance is involved you can't really have a quick hook up.

Two of my sisters met and married people they met online. Still married, kids, all that jazz. I don't know if it'll work for me.

mightymoe's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:31 AM

well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


just friends so far...which is great, i don't mind that...:wink:

no photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:32 AM
U are gonna meet many different types of people on here!! Go with your instints and hang in the threads its the best way to get to know people and see has the respect of the ladies and guys on here!!flowerforyou

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:43 AM


well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


just friends so far...which is great, i don't mind that...:wink:
uuummm he FORGOT about (ME) lol flowerforyou :wink: :angel:

SillynSerious's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:44 AM
lol not necessarily so if they are looking to merely hook-up one line for some cyber fun...which is not why I am here hence my asking.

I have already gotten several messages that appear to be for that purpose...

Totage's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:44 AM

well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


No, no, and not even.

no photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:45 AM
well then U know the ones that U dont need to waste your time on!!!!

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:46 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 07/04/10 11:47 AM
I've been a quite a few dates in the 1.5 years I've been on Mingle - and I had one 5 month relationship.

It works for people who are proactive and use common sense when meeting people.

Have fun! flowerforyou

newarkjw's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:50 AM

well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


Hook ups constantly. I can't beat them off with a stick.......smokin

RowBaby's photo
Sun 07/04/10 11:50 AM

lol not necessarily so if they are looking to merely hook-up one line for some cyber fun...which is not why I am here hence my asking.

I have already gotten several messages that appear to be for that purpose...


Very true, the cyber hook-up are easy to identify.
"Do you have Yahoo IM" in the first email.

mightymoe's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:00 PM



well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


just friends so far...which is great, i don't mind that...:wink:
uuummm he FORGOT about (ME) lol flowerforyou :wink: :angel:


i counldn't forget about you... you wouldn't let me! laugh laugh laugh

mightymoe's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:02 PM


lol not necessarily so if they are looking to merely hook-up one line for some cyber fun...which is not why I am here hence my asking.

I have already gotten several messages that appear to be for that purpose...


Very true, the cyber hook-up are easy to identify.
"Do you have Yahoo IM" in the first email.


i have yahoo, but never cybered... cyber-virginsmokin smokin

lilott's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:05 PM
Mainly women that just want my money.

msmyka's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:07 PM

Mainly women that just want my money.


You mean they completely over look your positive attitude and effervescent personality? noway

STARTRAVELER's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:38 PM
Ica'nt control anyone elses hormones. When I have that effect on women I can only roll with it .Lol.All kiddin aside I have been in one relationship for about a year .Still looking but not so hard now.I have made plenty of freinds and when the right one comes along I'll know !bigsmile

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:44 PM
I haven't met my ex online. I guess I have been fortunate. But then she didn't really like the Internet way of life. She seems to be happy with her new man. I am so happy for them.:smile:

Thorb's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:45 PM

well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?

Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


so he was already and ex when you met on line ... or

you met on line and now he is an ex ... not that it matters.

to the other question ... yes to both types ... no either or in most of these generalized questions.

life is not black and white


no photo
Sun 07/04/10 01:10 PM

well I did say "ex"...

I realize online dating is going to continue to grow, but are people having luck with it?


Some are, some aren't. I'm not.


Are you being approached by people genuinely interested in getting to know you or just those looking for a hook-up?

Curious...


I'm being approached by people who haven't read my profile and have no clue that they don't fit my parameters, and I'm being approached by people who want to change me....

Still waiting to be approached by someone realistically compatible, but I'm not holding my breath....


RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 07/04/10 01:13 PM
I wouldn't change a thing about you, Lex. Yeah, they can accept you as you are or just not accept you. Makes it so much easier that way.

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